My girlfriend
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if what you say is true, aren't you torturing yourself ?Originally posted by sEphIrOth:i realised what is wrong.
when ppl r angry, they spout nonsense. she told me she was tired of us n everything, but she was angry at tt time. she admitted to me. she told me she wanted this to work out. so we have worked things out. she admits she takes me for granted sometimes and is willing to see things from my side.
yet again, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
doko -
Look around you friend, all those happy couples. You see any of them being verbally abusive towards each other?
YOu have to clearly identify what you want out of a partnership. I understand that sometimes a guy and a girl come together for various reasons, but in your case I think you seem to have lost sight of the purpose of a union.
If you're looking for happiness, then ditch her, and don't take her back, cos that's exactly what she will try to do. It seems pretty obvious to me (even though I have not seen it for myself) that she is taking you for granted, treating you like some "kai zi", "Cai tou", or whatever. You're not being appreciated, you get abused verbally, YOU THINK ANY OF THAT IS GOING TO CHANGE IN FUTURE?!
Get a new gf. When you are happily holding her hand and enjoying her company, you will think back to your soon to be exed current gf-wannabe and realise what a !@#$% she is. -
TS,
Well, Well, Well.....And you said or thought you are managing.
I had read all your post from your parents to your girlfriend and I cannot help but conclude that you are really having an attitude problem. So before you hit the point of no return you had better do some reflection.
You are simply self righteous and really out of control if I may say. Think about it, you want to work bcos of lack of pocket money despite your health condition and so much has been spent on you from your parent's coffers.
Then you just wouldn't let your g/f call you back when she said that she will do so w/o stating when. Since you became a nag and an irritant...you have the audacity to question her grace and understanding that she has given you. For all that she has done and stood by you. You are just being insensitive here ...you self righteous "I"!!!
You had better wake up before you turn this into a nighmare for yourself. And oh, good luck trying to find a job. FYI I would not hire with your current medical condition, you are a walking liability...have you thought of it>?
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attitude problem ?explain?Originally posted by aremeis:TS,
Well, Well, Well.....And you said or thought you are managing.
I had read all your post from your parents to your girlfriend and I cannot help but conclude that you are really having an attitude problem. So before you hit the point of no return you had better do some reflection.
You are simply self righteous and really out of control if I may say. Think about it, you want to work bcos of lack of pocket money despite your health condition and so much has been spent on you from your parent's coffers.
Then you just wouldn't let your g/f call you back when she said that she will do so w/o stating when. Since you became a nag and an irritant...you have the audacity to question her grace and understanding that she has given you. For all that she has done and stood by you. You are just being insensitive here ...you self righteous "I"!!!
You had better wake up before you turn this into a nighmare for yourself. And oh, good luck trying to find a job. FYI I would not hire with your current medical condition, you are a walking liability...have you thought of it>?
self righteous? im rational enough to see things from others' view. if u do not know, people need to be economicaly/socially/mentally/physically stable for their own wellbeing. how can i leave out a point and feel happy about it?
she just is pissed and makes things difficult for us at times, but that is not the point, u havent read my solutions.
even if u dont hire me, others will, juz not now with my current knee situation, i m not finding a job because i feel i will be a liability. i m still as strong as in my days and i m still mentally sound. if i m a walking liability, please look at those who have more problems. do note, if u dont, others will, for u oversee my talents
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how come u call her and tell her that u want to sleep ?
if i have a gf and she does that i will find it weird
maybe u can just go to sleep without telling her or just an sms instead of a call
and when she say you are irritating n disgusting (quoted directly from your 2nd post) i think the relationship is as soon as gone
and you posted not only once on Aunt Agony @ least 3 times about this problems
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Try sms-es when you know she's out with friends.. only call when it's getting late and she's not home etc.
The girl seems to be tired of you, though. -
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If not for this fact, i think i would have died at least 3 times... I never have a gf in the 21 years in my life... I confess four times... all gone to drain... if not of this, my pride won't have been hurted so deeply.
haiz....i'm worst....i'm 23. -
well... to conclude everything, here is a summary of the past few days
she told me she was sorry she said all those. she gets soft hearted when she sees me and dont mean the stuff she said on the phone
she doesnt mean what she said. and if i agreed to the breakup, she would be shocked n slap me. in other words, she is juz saying things cuz she is angry.
i know where i gone wrong, she knows where she went wrong. we juz talked things and ammended the situation
she told me, even if i made her angry, she still loves me, i can tell.
so everything is fine. juz that she shoots her mouth off sometimes. -
Welcome to the wonderful world of female-speak where what she says isn't really what she means...Originally posted by sEphIrOth:she doesnt mean what she said. and if i agreed to the breakup, she would be shocked n slap me.
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where evrything i say is wrong n everything she say is right.Originally posted by walesa:Welcome to the wonderful world of female-speak where what she says isn't really what she means...
where i m all bad and she is all right.
but sometimes that happens. -
it should be very clear by now confessing does nothing to make a girl attracted to you. so stop doing it. you cant expect different results by doing the same things.Originally posted by Nikar2:(uncertain)
haiz....i'm worst....i'm 23.
as for our dear TS.... From what I have read all these while, you really have a very wonderful girlfriend. Be a gentlemen and let it go, she deserves someone better. -
havent been reading much thenOriginally posted by TTRules:it should be very clear by now confessing does nothing to make a girl attracted to you. so stop doing it. you cant expect different results by doing the same things.
as for our dear TS.... From what I have read all these while, you really have a very wonderful girlfriend. Be a gentlemen and let it go, she deserves someone better. -
i know you are a good person.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:where evrything i say is wrong n everything she say is right.
where i m all bad and she is all right.
but sometimes that happens.
But you are letting her treat you like dirt. I think you better make it clear to her whos the one in control in this relationship unless you really like to be treated like this unfairly.
You want to treat her well but she has to earn it. You also deserve to be treated properly.
doko -
just quit.. u guys are not meant to be together.. if both of u love each other, theres no way this small matter seems to bother so much.. everything can be solved but it takes both party. .if one party dont agree.. then just call it quit. cuz to me, that is not love
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Don't let this b!tch mess with your head anymore.
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i saw frm ur other thread abt singing the L is for the way u look at me
this kind of song is for guys who wear panties u understand?
be more man
u sing this better
A is for airborne
I is for in the sky
R is for RAVEN
B is for born to fly
O is for on the go
R is for rock and roll
N is for number 1
E is for everything
much better imo -
I remember somewhere in this forum where someone complained about freedomfighter's over-zealousness with everything military...........I did not understand.
Now I do. Someone push him out of the plane. -
she sounds familiar. hmmm, sounds like everybody's ex?
dude, this relationship is dead. no use probing over it. just let go. dont say that we dont know how it feels coz i do believe many of us here have been there.
let yourself go, let her go. for your sake, for her sake. ull be glad uve loved once before. n laugh at your childish-ness. just like me.
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thanks for everyone's opinion. i will evaluate my situation. but we r happy with how it is now.
thank you. -
you see.. Love cannot be forced. If you two really feel that feelings has fade. You need to believe that there is someone else outside better for you. Try to talk to her, if things don;t work out, its time to move on