My gf can't help!
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I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
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NT one rite??haha....means shes not serious la...dots...weird gall...like tat u still wan...if me...i go find other liao lo...
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what's NT?? did try to find other la but think of the other hand, relationship not easy to come by, some more make a girl to like u is quite hard also...Sigh~Originally posted by Aaron8209:NT one rite??haha....means shes not serious la...dots...weird gall...like tat u still wan...if me...i go find other liao lo... -
One comment for u:" U DUN LOVE HER!!! U only want to enjoy the feeling of being loved!"Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
Is Lao Gong, Dear, Honey so IMPORTANT TO U?! How many r/s that the girl called their bf honey, lao gong or whatever shit last?
Is good to be loved but then if she is someone u truly loved, u shouldn't be so picky about these kind of things.
What matters most is not how she expressed her love in words but in ACTION! Wake up young boy
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dun see any problem wif her actions... u r the one who choose her then u jio her out la... name calling will come in when the time comes... no need envy ppl for tat... u getting gf to be 'IN' the crowd or cos u reali felt for her?Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance... -
x2Originally posted by Uncertain:One comment for u:" U DUN LOVE HER!!! U only want to enjoy the feeling of being loved!"
Is Lao Gong, Dear, Honey so IMPORTANT TO U?! How many r/s that the girl called their bf honey, lao gong or whatever shit last?
Is good to be loved but then if she is someone u truly loved, u shouldn't be so picky about these kind of things.
What matters most is not how she expressed her love in words but in ACTION! Wake up young boy 
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2 months nia u expect a girl u met online to call you 'Lao gong?'
be realistic -
so erm...
wat's the agony here?
just bcos she didn't call u dear/laogong/honey/my bit*h/my dog/ my slu*?
it's only addressing...
2mths only wat u expect? meet online wat u expect?
to get SUPER serious with u lah?
to wana spend her whole lifetime with someone she know online lah? -
give her time, some just need more time to warm up. Wanna be in a R/S, learn to handle it like an adult, dun let emotions clog up. More importantly, why get flustered up over such things.
Lesser expectations = lesser fustrations, gd luck
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:2 months nia u expect a girl u met online to call you 'Lao gong?'
be realistic 
True leh last time I wait till half a year then I call my Bf 'Dear' , 'Honey' , 'Ling' (Darling) now 'Loa gong'... ...
Somemore she is those guai guai gal she will shy shy one leh... (^-^)
I think you hint hint her lah I think she will call you 'Lao Gong' one day... -
2 yrs liaoz.... i call my bf "oie"
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i think everyone oso ur bf liao... coz u call everyone oei!Originally posted by aHGer^83:2 yrs liaoz.... i call my bf "oie" -
what have u been feeding her?
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then he call you "simi" ?Originally posted by aHGer^83:2 yrs liaoz.... i call my bf "oie" -
maybe shes has another guy ?? lol
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My daughter got 2 boys send her sms addressing her as 'lao puo' but she is not even in any r/s with them *schooling so father said no bf*
So assume they just call for fun
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she is keeping her options open. how long you know her? is it first meeting then go steady already?Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance... -
ur such a hip mamaOriginally posted by JerryYan:My daughter got 2 boys send her sms addressing her as 'lao puo' but she is not even in any r/s with them *schooling so father said no bf*
So assume they just call for fun -
Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:i think everyone oso ur bf liao... coz u call everyone oei!
when i with my bf lah.. i call him oie.. but when got ppl, i call him "leng"
cos he call me darling, i call him darleng
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no lei...Originally posted by thehappybunny:then he call you "simi" ? -
*pat pat*
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Sometime I oso chat with them onlineOriginally posted by newcomer:ur such a hip mama
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What do you love in your girlfriend then? Her face, her body or her person?
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Wow I hope my parents are like u... (^-^) So Hip...Originally posted by JerryYan:Sometime I oso chat with them online -
But my daughter dun likeOriginally posted by Baby_Nutz:Wow I hope my parents are like u... (^-^)
She always complain about me knowing about her personal life