My gf can't help!
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Originally posted by JerryYan:Ya anyhow call ppl dear later the bf punch your face
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Is there love in the air or u feel you are the only one loving her and she is not loving u ? Come come, just tell her that u love her and u want her to call u lao gong and dear dear... if not u just dump her lor.Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
Seriously lah, i though in a relationship, must feel the love from one another.. if not, then perhaps she don't don't love u enuff or she is too shy. -
At this age, you should have some more girls to your credit.
And then CHOOSE!
Don't despo latch yourself to one, like there is no choice. -
i recently saw a show and one thing which is said is very meaningful. The love shown to your loved ones don't have to be seen, it is there even if you didn't know.
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Love her for who she is...
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Why did u fall in love with her in the first place? Is it becos just for the sake of having a gf???Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance... -
Kids....Originally posted by CannyOng:Why did u fall in love with her in the first place? Is it becos just for the sake of having a gf???
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aiyo, if they like, just let them b lor. LOLs. Just like me, once in awhile super free, nothing to do, come here to look for trouble. LOLsOriginally posted by Q.C.Pak:Kids.... -
sexpose urself!! bendz!Originally posted by kalach:aiyo, if they like, just let them b lor. LOLs. Just like me, once in awhile super free, nothing to do, come here to look for trouble. LOLs -
aiya.. some gals just not those mushy type mah... like me.. i never call my bf lau gong or even dear even after 5 yr+... I just call him Mr "surname"...
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my girlfriend calls me uncle, her mom scolded her
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is your gf conservative and the guai type? if so treasure her for who she is. guai girls are rare nowadays.Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
my case is very similar: my gf also always scared of going home too late cos parents will nag her through sms. she's shy and scared of her friends' teasing so she doesn't blog about me or post our pictures on friendster. we're not mushy towards each other. we suan/tease each other instead. she's not sticky...she has several groups of friends and her own life...she doesn't 'revolve around me. the number of times i asked her out surely outnumbers the times she did.
there are times when i feel the same as you...wish for more affection from gf. especially when i look at other more affectionate couples. there will surely be this kind of envy.
if it's really bothering you, you should have a talk with her about it. no point keeping it inside you...one day it will explode like a volcano...won't be nice. -
tatics time.Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
try to know her parents.
bring them out for dinner and try to chat them up
once you get into their good looks is very easy for you.
this method works most of the time unless u do something dumb and the parents hate you forever.
Caution about guai gals
Guai gals tend to be very boring.
saying this due to years of experience with this types.
Unless you are ready for them best not to be with them unless you are commited to a long term relationship.
Good points of guai types
1) loyal, faithfull
2) seldom pretty or beautiful ( so no one will fight with you.)
3) eager to please
4) look up to you.
5) listern to your every word
Bad points of guai types
1) listern to you like a robot, first few years ok but later part will be sianz.
2) no mind of their own. ( where would you like to go ? Anything dear she would say. Try this for 5 years and you will know what i mean.
3) listern to parents, if parents think that u are bad you are banned. she will follow her parents orders.
4) Do not want to follow your group of friends, always feel they are bad and wants you to break up with them.
5) Sex is a big NO! At first is easy. 9 years later you will wonder what the hell will you thinking back then.
Is up to you weigh the odds.
If you cannot get a gf easily than is better to go for this types. -
i think it's personal preference.
perhaps ur gf needs her own space, and has her own mind..
btw, u change gf v fast. -
mehz i use to think that changing gf very fast is a bad thing but through experience I believe that is wrong.Originally posted by browniebaobao:i think it's personal preference.
perhaps ur gf needs her own space, and has her own mind..
btw, u change gf v fast.
Whats the point of carrying on a relationship for a long time when most of the time you are unhappy and always giving in to her?
Best to change and find a suitable one.
No point sticking to one for years and later regret it all. -
dude. that's a very sweeping generalisation of guai girls.Originally posted by Guardx:tatics time.
try to know her parents.
bring them out for dinner and try to chat them up
once you get into their good looks is very easy for you.
this method works most of the time unless u do something dumb and the parents hate you forever.
Caution about guai gals
Guai gals tend to be very boring.
saying this due to years of experience with this types.
Unless you are ready for them best not to be with them unless you are commited to a long term relationship.
Good points of guai types
1) loyal, faithfull
2) seldom pretty or beautiful ( so no one will fight with you.)
3) eager to please
4) look up to you.
5) listern to your every word
Bad points of guai types
1) listern to you like a robot, first few years ok but later part will be sianz.
2) no mind of their own. ( where would you like to go ? Anything dear she would say. Try this for 5 years and you will know what i mean.
3) listern to parents, if parents think that u are bad you are banned. she will follow her parents orders.
4) Do not want to follow your group of friends, always feel they are bad and wants you to break up with them.
5) Sex is a big NO! At first is easy. 9 years later you will wonder what the hell will you thinking back then.
Is up to you weigh the odds.
If you cannot get a gf easily than is better to go for this types.
a girl can be family-oriented and guai but also independent and intelligent with a mind of her own. -
agree not allOriginally posted by k2406:dude. that's a very sweeping generalisation of guai girls.
a girl can be family-oriented and guai but also independent and intelligent with a mind of her own. -
wah lao if my husband like u hor cham liao lehOriginally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
i dun call him lao gong dear de leh.. i call him by his name
at most i call him baobei.. when i need him to help me do sth.. -
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its natural la...man oso wan to feel the shuang ma...being love....calll dear by gf...i oso wan ar...y not...
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Eh, have you been through NS? I thought by this age you would have achieved a certain level of appreciation for most things good in life, and that includes a girl who is not prone to over-expressiveness and drama.Originally posted by James1:I been with this girl for 2 months plus and I get to know her through online. She was the type of homely girl who had a curfew and always listen to her parents. She's 19 this year and I'm 21, you see the problem is she wasn't the expressive type, I cannot felt the love coming from her and every time when I look at her blog, she didn't mention about me at all and even in sms she didn't like call me "Dear, what you doing now or darling" or stuff like that. In fact I was the wan who put in the most effort and ask her out everytime. She did ask me out a few times but with 10 fingers you can count yourself and she doesn't "Zhu Dong" (Hope u get wat I mean) want, it's like no different from being friend. Then, I got a friend who's gf is always stick to him, there are times when I see my friend sms inbox, she always address him as "Dear" or "Lao gong", I see liao also envy. Then I begin to wonder why my gf not like that. Sigh~
*Please don't tell me that if you like her then accept her for who she is."
thnx in advance...
You need to watch less taiwanese idol dramas. You need to stop peeping at your friend's incoming SMS messages. If your friend showed it to you, you need to get new friends who actually have character. If you even know what character means.
You need to leave your girlfriend. It will do her and her future boyfriend plenty of good. They will be happier than what you two are experiencing right now. You must let her see what I have written about her. Please do that.
Lastly, you really need to stay away from this forum. Because we will flame you. You sorry reason for a guy........ -
dear dear dear.
lao gong lao gong lao gong.
song liao buay? -
Originally posted by Hello Kitty:dear dear dear.
lao gong lao gong lao gong.
song liao buay? -
Have you called her dear or darling before?
Well...
It's quite common...
It will need quite some time for you two to be very close... -
aiyah starting two months ma. wad u expect? my gf also call me dear or oei nia.
lol.