Calling all super nice guys: Gift Ideas needed!
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nothing really beats making something for her yourself
be it DIY roses... lil gift or a nice meal cook by you..
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SnowGiant,
Yes your gf so blessed.
You come here, copy ideas to give it to her.
Like that call love ah ?
You call me cheap s!ut, then you what ? Lazy bum.
The kind of love you shower her is shallow. It's not even your own.
Women wants gifts that comes from their man's own heart, not some one else's.
Where's your sense of originality ?
Go shower her with your copied ideas, you dare to tell her it's not really yours anyway , see if she still likes it ?
A truly good gift is one good man she can find herself, you have a bitter tongue, that's not very good.
What are you , primary school ?
You don't understand what arrogance begets arrogance means ?
You call yourself a nice guy, but really, you're more of a jerk pretending to be a nice guy , eh ? .. chuckle.
Stop ruining the reputations of real nice guys out there ya ?
My gift to you.
Women will judge you by the way you treat other women.
Your mother, your friends, the waitress, the cleaning lady, yes, even strangers.
Not just how you treat her.
You go show her what you typed here, see if she is still impressed with your nice guy stunt ?
Maybe this IS the reason why you are so unlucky, keep getting booted by girls.
And for pete's sake, pedicure treatment means I rich and important ?
Please go ask your mama how much it cost and if that is a common treatment for ladies nowadays.
What an ignorant fool.
Good luck dude. ANd wake up. -
Sincerity, atmosphere, the words, feelings and the gift..Originally posted by Furinax:Its true, its not the gift that will touch the girls. Its the sincerity and atmosphere and the words and the feelings as well as the gift is from who.
why don't u rope in ur friends to help you to plan a surprise? -
Hey Isis! You know that time actually me and my friends planned a song for her, he plays the guitar and I sing, had a BBQ arranged by my mum for her also on the same day.. hahaha, that one is memorable la, but this one I want it to come from my heart, so I decided to crave the stone like wat furix did..Originally posted by Isis:Sincerity, atmosphere, the words, feelings and the gift..
why don't u rope in ur friends to help you to plan a surprise?
Anyway now my visual sensors are so enchanced, that I refuse to acknowledge cheap thrill people who come in to critic and rant about how much pedicure cost. Heck, Im not even going to acknowledge the existence of that... thing. Useless bum, didnt even read properly and try to get the facts correctly, only spam to get +3 and YET still no suggestions or ideas... maybe she doesnt even get any before in her entire life.. cant blame s|utty and easy people, trash... YUCK. Must be a really fat and ugly piece of junk.. with armpit hair.. And cheap too! Give also no man would want. EEK.
Anyway tmr im going to buy the chisel and tools, maybe spend one whole day chipping at it.. haha! Maybe if its comes out well, Ill post the picture of the end result, im thinking of more like using pink ribbon to decorate the edges of the stone, then carve 2 hearts with our names on it. You know like those decorative feng shui crystal stones likedat. Im not trying to impress her, but I just want her to know that I love, treasure her and cherish her. The stone, its hard work, but its worth it. She is important to me.
Meanwhile keep the ideas coming bros, I appreciate all the thoughts. And some rare kind girls in here like brownie and udunnome, thanks too. No thanks to cheap s|utty whiners though. :-) -
Aiyo, Giant, why you hurl vulgarities at Jojo? She meant no offense in her first post ma.
*walks over to Jojo and gives her a tight hug*
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If that girl is already your girlfriend, I guess, penning down your thoughts on her, will be sweet enough to touch her. Things that she said before, things that she done for you before...
For e.g. "You made me touched when you gave me a hug when I am down", "You said you don't like sad movies because they make you sad. But, now that I am with you, when you are sad, you know that you have my shoulders to lean on."
Something like that, I guess, will do..... -
first and foremost i hope that nobody's offended in this thread.
from what i can remember, i took a day off from my FYP every friday to accompany my girl for her attachment. i would make breakfast for her every morning. it ranges from maggie mee, bread with luncheon meat, egg and cheese, to waffles.
i've been folding straw hearts for her and its really easy to learn. i apologize for not being able to show a demostration to you here but perhaps you could learn it off from friends or the net.
currently i'm going to fort canning park to pick up saga seeds. i got myself a bottle and gonna make it look like a 'potted flower'. sticking a wire into the seeds and making a 'fake rose' from red coloured wools which can be found in the shop "spotlight". there is a shop located at Plaza Singapura. and add a lil note to the flower which will be sticked to act as the 'leaf' before putting the 'flower' into the pot.
if you want, you can photoshop the nicest picture you have of you and your girl. and make it into a magazine. go to photo shops and get them to print it for you. at most it should cost you around $10-$20. could perhaps have pages like horoscope blah blah. or hey! create a short video of you and your gf! that is if you've enough photos to make a photo video.
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Originally posted by SnowGiant:Wat kind of love.. u sick f.
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snowgiant,
why not give her a safe deposit box? then put all the memories inside. etc photos, mementos...then tell her that this box will grow with both of you all lah...same concept as joint bank account, but this one cheaper and can put stuffs....every time u got new gifts, she can keep inside also...
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It's ok LatecomerX.Originally posted by LatecomerX:Aiyo, Giant, why you hurl vulgarities at Jojo? She meant no offense in her first post ma.
*walks over to Jojo and gives her a tight hug*
The only successful relationship this SnowGiant is gonna have is with another guy.
Guys like this hor, once girls finds out his true colors will not stay very long with him one lah. -
Hey, ispsy and chris, penning down thoughts is really good, I did that once also, but in letter form cut out in form of a rabbit. Then I perfumed the letter combo with sandwitches...
Chris ah... wah siao eh... u really extreme man, fort canning... RESPECT!
Lastly, LatercomerX, *HIGH FIVE* one more time!!! Thanks man! HAHAAHAHAH!! sneaky guy you.. +4 liaoz, still no productive post, Im gonna win this bet with someone in here soon... free meal ah! *wink*
Thanks for the ideas, continue to contribute if you guys have, Im sure not only me benefitted from this thread, but quite a lot of guys out there too! Thanks guys! -
Snowgiant,
Your childish ways makes no dent in my pride, merely a tickle to make my day.
Didn't your parents teach you ?
If you want something, ask properly.
First you say "please", then you say " thank you".
Sorry hun, ain't not giving you any good advise, not unless you start begging.
Even if you do, I'd consider it still.
So ya, go win that little bet of yours. You still ain't gonna benefit from what I have to offer.
Ciao baby~ -
Yes, please continue to contribute more nice ideas, so this little jerk can steal it all and call it his own.Originally posted by SnowGiant:Thanks for the ideas, continue to contribute if you guys have, Im sure not only me benefitted from this thread, but quite a lot of guys out there too! Thanks guys!
No wonder nice guys finish last. LOL.... -
There was this one time I bought 2 panels of clear glass. (Kinda hard to find, got it from a glass cutting shop near ten mile junction).
Then I used snow spray (the type they use to blind people in town during New Year Countdowns) to make a lot of patterns on one of em and let it dry for one day.
Then I went back to the shop and asked the uncle to seal the 2 panels together using silicone. And Voila! the snow pattern is permanently sealed and sandwiched between the 2 glass panels. You will get a compact, classy and elegant looking gift) -
Handmade cards with heartful tots! ^-^
Works very well for mi! It gives mi to keep it for a long long time.
Jojo, shame on u realli, mi iz a girl i oso tink u are in the wrong, u onli cm in here and flame TS, he iz just trying to do something nice for his love and you onli noe how to argue about how high n mighty u r... i oso tink u got no ideas cos u nvr get ani b4.. tts y u keep posting here n get free +1. I never see TS suan anione juz u onli. I tink TS cant be bothered to reply u le.. coz he noe u attention seeker.. -
just give her ur car keys...
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I pains me to think how far some guys go to impress their gfs. What silly things they do.
Gals dig guys who are confident, manly, and understanding. They don't need another "sister" to help them arrange flowers or fold those little stupid origamis.
Note: I said GFs, not wife... as I believe it is more meaningful to impress your wife than gfs. If you have to do such silly things to impress your gf, then she does not love you enough. I'd say, get the hell out of such relationship! -
i also think jojo's first post meant no harm. she is just commenting that you are asking the wrong group of people in her question, and not in any way answering your suggestions of gift ideas. but you just start attacking her saying she didnt read.
the way you insult her is sickening..a gal who never get any gifts from guys before must be an ugly-looking, slutty, trashy, cheap gal?
and i noticed you edited your first post... is it the last sentence that you have edited? you changed part of your question when you realise jojo is somehow correct in her first post but refuse to admit she is right? that is also damn sneaky of you too.
fyi, not everyone posts here for the sake of post count. -
I bought those small kind of candles, like 30 to 40 of them. Trick her to help me buy food while I decorated the whole chalet room of candles. Light them up and when she came back, she cried.
But she's gone already. -
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i see nothing wrong with getting ideas for gifts here....ok so it might not be totally original but the important thing is that u want to do something special for that someone and u are sincere
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wow. i actually kinda agree..Originally posted by mushigen:I pains me to think how far some guys go to impress their gfs. What silly things they do.
Gals dig guys who are confident, manly, and understanding. They don't need another "sister" to help them arrange flowers or fold those little stupid origamis.
Note: I said GFs, not wife... as I believe it is more meaningful to impress your wife than gfs. If you have to do such silly things to impress your gf, then she does not love you enough. I'd say, get the hell out of such relationship!
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just curious wat did your gf do for u?Originally posted by Furinax:Its true, its not the gift that will touch the girls. Its the sincerity and atmosphere and the words and the feelings as well as the gift is from who.
I can share some gift idea that i gave to my gf. And prove long lasting cause we have been together for 6 years plus.
Some ideas maybe old fashion but still good to use.
I gave her a stone which i engrave the chinese character "Love" on it myself and painted it as well as gloss the surface. And when i gave to her i explained all the meanings on the stone from the word to the colors to her.
I gave her Burger i make myself that is in heart shape for her breakfast.
I gave her bouquet of flowers with rocher. the flowers i made myself one and the bouquet i wrap myself with ribbons and bears.
there is still many many ideas. Most important is it must come from bottom of ur heart.
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to name a few:
emboderied fan, with our names on it and in heart shaped.. next day she gave me that time she also showed me many pricks on her finger.. i laughed and teased her for being kayu, but walao i was sibeh touched, but I cant bring the fan to my work la, its so... sissy, so i hang on my wall.
then handicrafted thread pen with our names on it, so I can use it at work.. its out of ink le, but i still keep it. kinda bulky when u try to write la, but its my personal pen.. haha.. sometimes i suspect she made that pen to keep the female collegues off.. heh.
jiggy puzzles as 1st year anniversary photo... i stupid stupid go shake the gift she warpped, then the 1,500 pieces rattled... alamak
end up whole day at my house putting it back, its a pain when its photo puzzle then black areas u have to try to decipher which is which part.
i got a bottle of mysterious water.. like a mini 75ml clear crystal bottle... i asked her wtf was that, why give me mineral water as prezzie, then ended up she shut my mouth cos she explained each time i hurt her with our quarrels and i made her cry at home, she collected her tears and sealed it tight. But the bottle now only 30% full.. i rem she give me that time its 80% likedat... the lid is on .. dunno how can it be evaporated.. best of all i dunno how she collect her tear wan. still, ya.
Love bites, ya she quite crazy over that..
that, is jus a few i recieved from her la, i cant always let her outdo me, so i summon my brothers in here to help!! hahahaha!
And, she tends to be well with my family, always join our family outings and come along to hang out at my place. Plus, she gives me sex. Lots and lots of sex. that makes me very happy. -
You're wrong my dear. All girls like to be pampered, whether they are girl next door, or women in powersuits. The thing is, as guys, we must be adaptable. I for one, can be downright serious when it comes to planning for our future, career, or any important events. Yet i can be at times cheeky and childish, exuding a certain boyish charm which never fail to captivates my gf's heart. She has seen in in my most formal office attire, due to the requirements of my job, and likewise seen me in my bermudes and shirt on a beach outing. Confidence comes from within, not through gestures of love, but rather the manner in which the guy carry themselves all the time. I've done things that are so original and spontaneous because it is typical of me, to surprise her all the time, to remember our important dates, and it turns out good cos it represents me, creative and cheeky. Likewise, the guys who are getting ideas from others. Nothing wrong with that. However, it has to be typical you, otherwise you will only come across as trying to hard to be something that isn't really you, and bear in mind, the real you is who she fell in love with in the first place..Originally posted by mushigen:I pains me to think how far some guys go to impress their gfs. What silly things they do.
Gals dig guys who are confident, manly, and understanding. They don't need another "sister" to help them arrange flowers or fold those little stupid origamis.
Note: I said GFs, not wife... as I believe it is more meaningful to impress your wife than gfs. If you have to do such silly things to impress your gf, then she does not love you enough. I'd say, get the hell out of such relationship!
