girls, would you....
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date a guy who is very nice and caring to you but the only thing u cannot tolerate is his vulnerability and sensitivity? like he gets emo, jealous and hurt very easily (not angry) over small issues or things you say... whereby sometimes u dont even know that u've hurt him..
because of that, he thinks alot and gets really depressed after that... and comes pouring everything out to you.. and u have to listen him out. in summary, its always the girl who is stronger (emotionally) and the one comforting the guy..
but other than that.. he's seems pretty ok.... like he has pretty gd qualities of a partner.. how?
guys, is it normal to be like that? -
wa, papercut is back
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if a guy is willing to pour his woes to you
that means he trusts you leh
so, good or bad la? -
Hmm... what kind of 'small issues' would you be referring to?
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wah.. who you.Originally posted by gigabyte14:wa, papercut is back haha.. -
ya true he trusts u..Originally posted by gigabyte14:if a guy is willing to pour his woes to you
that means he trusts you leh
so, good or bad la?
but i tot most guy who are.. strong leh.. like... not tat weak emotionally that they get upset over small things and end up confiding in the gal.. haha -
papercut!!! -
To me...
Yes will still date with...
No matter what love will overcome everything...
Being Together we must compromise with one another...
Everyone of us are different we cant expect the person to be perfect to your liking...
Your partner is not made to order...
Have to accept the person good and bad qualities... -
blizzard!Originally posted by seotiblizzard:
papercut!!!
who u? u also another one...
*bad memory*
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yeah after that she will find the guy behaving like a girl and turns her off, then starts to dump him for another guy.Originally posted by Baby_Nutz:To me...
Yes will still date with...
No matter what love will overcome everything...
Being Together we must compromise with one another...
Everyone of us are different we cant expect the person to be perfect to your liking...
Have to accept the person good and bad qualities...
doko -
thx fer d advice..~~Originally posted by Baby_Nutz:To me...
Yes will still date with...
No matter what love will overcome everything...
Being Together we must compromise with one another...
Everyone of us are different we cant expect the person to be perfect to your liking...
Have to accept the person good and bad qualities...
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tsk tsk tsk.Originally posted by papercut87:blizzard!
who u? u also another one...
*bad memory*
Haiya.
nvm la
suan le.
nong nong time no come back.
now liddat.
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erm. not exactly dump him for another guy la. haha. but im afraid the first half might be true.Originally posted by dokono:yeah after that she will find the guy behaving like a girl and turns her off, then starts to dump him for another guy.
doko -
ur welcomeOriginally posted by papercut87:thx fer d advice..~~ -
Will not lah...Originally posted by dokono:yeah after that she will find the guy behaving like a girl and turns her off, then starts to dump him for another guy.
doko
To a girl will not think that a guy behave like a girl...
Being compromising not wrong... It is not a girl Character...
If u talk like a girl then we girls will tot u r ah gua or sissy or what but if you sound like a normal man who will tot of that? -
U know the answer and u just needs comfirmation. Abt accepting yr partner anot. It's all up to yr guideline of what is acceptable and what is not acceptable for yr partner.Originally posted by papercut87:erm. not exactly dump him for another guy la. haha. but im afraid the first half might be true.
Regarding of compromise and accept whatever sh*t yr partner has is plain bullshit. If he likes to gamble. U must compromise to him and accept whatever he has,is it? Clearly crossing the line of being a wuzzy has shaken yr faith of him as yr partner... Pls think carefully what is yr minimal critieria for yr future lifetime partner and think will u continue with him again... -
Originally posted by papercut87:date a guy who is very nice and caring to you but the only thing u cannot tolerate is his vulnerability and sensitivity? like he gets emo, jealous and hurt very easily (not angry) over small issues or things you say... whereby sometimes u dont even know that u've hurt him..
because of that, he thinks alot and gets really depressed after that... and comes pouring everything out to you.. and u have to listen him out. in summary, its always the girl who is stronger (emotionally) and the one comforting the guy..
but other than that.. he's seems pretty ok.... like he has pretty gd qualities of a partner.. how? guys, is it normal to be like that?Originally posted by Baby_Nutz:To me...
Yes will still date with...
No matter what love will overcome everything...
Being Together we must compromise with one another...
Everyone of us are different we cant expect the person to be perfect to your liking...
Your partner is not made to order...
Have to accept the person good and bad qualities...
What i meant to Compromise...Originally posted by CannyOng:U know the answer and u just needs comfirmation. Abt accepting yr partner anot. It's all up to yr guideline of what is acceptable and what is not acceptable for yr partner.
Regarding of compromise and accept whatever sh*t yr partner has is plain bullshit. If he likes to gamble. U must compromise to him and accept whatever he has,is it? Clearly crossing the line of being a wuzzy has shaken yr faith of him as yr partner... Pls think carefully what is yr minimal critieria for yr future lifetime partner and think will u continue with him again...
I say Compromise to the Character of the person...
Character is born with... Accepted
Gamble is a behavior....
Behavior is outside influence... Not Accepted
If I m not wrong TS stated all the emotions by
date a guy who is very nice and caring to you but the only thing u cannot tolerate is his vulnerability and sensitivity?
jealous and hurt very easily (not angry) over small issues or things you say...
These above stated is a person Character not a person behaviour...
Compromise behavior have to depend on situation... -
Originally posted by Baby_Nutz:
One word for TS,if u clearly cannot accept who he is,leave him. Unless he changes for u and best is works toward a 2 sided compromise.. A one side compromise mostly will not work!
What i meant to Compromise...
I say Compromise to the Character of the person...
Character is born with... Accepted
Gamble is a behavior....
Behavior is outside influence... Not Accepted
If I m not wrong TS stated all the emotions by
[b]date a guy who is very nice and caring to you but the only thing u cannot tolerate is his vulnerability and sensitivity?
jealous and hurt very easily (not angry) over small issues or things you say...
These above stated is a person Character not a person behaviour...
Compromise behavior have to depend on situation...
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Papercut!
As you say, he's otherwise alright, and you don't find this irritating, so there you go - unless you find that he's unable to support you emotionally (and I do not mean you suspecting that he is unable to do so). -
I think that a guy can show some emotional side.. after all , a guy is a human!
But there are some situation that the guy cannot show and it is not very good to show..
Date a person , you have to accept the person..
But some intolerable behaviour , smoking , drinking , womanizing , ... I think it is a no no...
so... if u think that the person is a potential partner, then try out!
jia you! Provided he has to be caring towards u!
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wow.... thanks people..
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some people are more emotional that others. while some people have no emotions. or some people just dont show their emotions
i dont get it why pple like to say things like men cant cry etc etc. but that's just mi lar...
and yes i will i prefer guys like this that guys who die die oso refuse to express how they feel if they are upset etc...
butbutbut...this is just me ok... -
papercut is back!
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omigosh!
papercut r back!
easily jealous or hurt, me stil ok.
wan b emo, me tell him to go to hell. -
all the traits about the guy you've described are very negative, like vulnerability, sensitivity, emo, jealous and worse the girl is stronger emotionally...the girl might like you initially, but in the long run it might not.Originally posted by papercut87:erm. not exactly dump him for another guy la. haha. but im afraid the first half might be true.
They seem to be traits of a girl because as you know, girls are more emotional than guys. Time to start being positive.
doko