Guys, If your gf cheated on you ,how would u feel?

• Shanghai_Grand

  3 Dec 07, 23:44

  Sad? Angry?
  
  If i were the guy, i would have broke off, no explanations needed, The relationship cannot be saved. And i would nurse a grudge against the girl, get back at her if the time comes.
• Darkness_hacker99

  3 Dec 07, 23:45

  Depend on the level of cheat lah..
  
  Also depend on the level of remorseful..
• MidnightK

  3 Dec 07, 23:57

  what comes around goes back around..
• [email protected]

  4 Dec 07, 00:00

  For me, i dont really care..
  
  In singapore, there are hundreds of thousands of girls can choose from..
  Not going to let 1 girl make me angry liddat
• jojobeach

  4 Dec 07, 04:48

  Originally posted by Shanghai_Grand:
  Sad? Angry?
  
  If i were the guy, i would have broke off, no explanations needed, The relationship [b]cannot be saved. And i would nurse a grudge against the girl, get back at her if the time comes. [/b]

  Did your gf cheat on you ?
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 16:52

  I've got a friend who is kinda in this situation now, shes with 2 guys.
  i don't know how to help her. she really regrets it now but doesn't want to hurt any of them. What should i do?
• Shanghai_Grand

  4 Dec 07, 16:53

  Originally posted by sand king:

  I've got a friend who is kinda in this situation now, shes with 2 guys.
  i don't know how to help her. she really regrets it now but doesn't want to hurt any of them. What should i do?

  Solution
  
  Tell the two guys, its better than leading on, or feel guity.
• gigabyte14

  4 Dec 07, 16:54

  another thread on how SG girls sucked izzit
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 17:00

  Originally posted by Shanghai_Grand:

  Solution
  
  Tell the two guys, its better than leading on, or feel guity.

  but she doesnt know who to keep and who to let go.
• Shanghai_Grand

  4 Dec 07, 17:08

  In the first place, why take up two guys? FOr fun ah?or for bet?
  
  ;Does she realise the one that will not be chosn will be hurt and even more hurt that she double time him?
• Hello Kitty

  4 Dec 07, 17:34

  obigood loh.
  
  who ask u no treat her gd.
• de_middle

  4 Dec 07, 17:37

  Originally posted by sand king:

  but she doesnt know who to keep and who to let go.

  flip a coin
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 17:38

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  obigood loh.
  
  who ask u no treat her gd.

  i just met her not long ago.
  
  nevermind....
• Daisuke-kun

  4 Dec 07, 17:39

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  flip a coin

  sekali drop roll on the ground den stick into 1 position which is the middle?
  how?
• Hello Kitty

  4 Dec 07, 17:48

  Originally posted by sand king:

  i just met her not long ago.
  
  nevermind....

  oh.
  
  so it's u loh?
  
  nt ur frd lah?
• Shanghai_Grand

  4 Dec 07, 17:53

  Be the decisive fella. Sandking
  
  What if u were the guy who was one of the gal who u choose?
  
  u would feel sad rite? Its better to tell then to be told on.
• EarlNeo

  4 Dec 07, 17:53

  I dun see revenging on ur gf for cheating on u help in anyway. If she cheat on u and u cant get over it, wouldn't it make more sense to just move on then to waste further more effort in coming up with a scheme to get back at her? But if u choose to forgive her, then u have put it all behind, never to raise it up again and start the r/s all over again. If u cant do that, my advice is just move on.
  
  Everyone make mistake and not all can forgive. But to resort to vengeance does really made u any better, morally.
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 17:57

  Originally posted by Shanghai_Grand:

  Be the decisive fella. Sandking
  
  What if u were the guy who was one of the gal who u choose?
  
  u would feel sad rite? Its better to tell then to be told on.

  i was asking for help no asking you to make me feel bad
• Hello Kitty

  4 Dec 07, 17:58

  haha.
  
  dis is sgf leh.
  
  nt sos hotline leh.
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 18:00

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  haha.
  
  dis is sgf leh.
  
  nt sos hotline leh.

  okay okay then nvm. haha. its okay.
• Shanghai_Grand

  4 Dec 07, 18:03

  Originally posted by sand king:

  i was asking for help no asking you to make me feel bad

  The Best solution is to tell the guys.. moreover its your friend who's in the wrong anyway, i hate ppl who two time for fun.
• sand king

  4 Dec 07, 18:06

  Originally posted by Shanghai_Grand:

  The Best solution is to tell the guys.. moreover its your friend who's in the wrong anyway, i hate ppl who two time for fun.

  she didnt two time for fun, alright ill try help her.
  
  thanks.
• dmuse

  5 Dec 07, 00:04

  last time...i really fell in love with a firl and things were going well for the first few months. Then after that something happened...her sis butt into the scene, and her sis wants her out so she can hv a go at me. So she listen to her sis, and had flings with other guys. I beg her to stay for the next few weeks but she was adamant to leave me. Hearbroken, i left with my entire world shattered...totally life changing event...that i never fell in love again for a long long time. 2 years after that she tried to come back into my life. she gave me a call during CNY and i was surprised hear her voice on the other end. she asked to see me but my instant reaction was to tell her that i was not comfortable to see her - it was a very cold response from me...as you see the old me who loved her had died when she left. the remnants of me...barely a skeletion of my oldself has no more of the same fire left for her. at the other end of the line...i can hear her heart dropped...but i had no feeling for that anymore. later she wrote me a letter to say how she cried when she left me...but i cannot feel for her anymore. i reply with a simple note and never write to her again.
  
  was i being too cold? but i had died...
• wonderamazement

  5 Dec 07, 00:06

  Originally posted by sand king:

  I've got a friend who is kinda in this situation now, shes with 2 guys.
  i don't know how to help her. she really regrets it now but doesn't want to hurt any of them. What should i do?

  Pop a round in her head man!
• browniebaobao

  5 Dec 07, 00:10

  seriously, i got zero tolerance towards cheating.