Guys, If your gf cheated on you ,how would u feel?
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rather she cheats on me, than i cheat on her. and i'm speaking the truth.
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pengz u took 3 to 4 years for what?Originally posted by dmuse:joke? no joke man...at the time of desperation to salvage the situation, i drop all sensibilities...willing to find excuses for her and me...and willing to ignore/forgive all her lies to me as she gradually loosened herself from me...as i had loved her too much. i could not bear losing her then. as the days of departure beckons...my days turned dark indeed...losing all of myself...including my memories...as i drifted about aimlessly...not remembering anything else except her presence in my life.
after all the terrible things she did and tried in order to break me...i decided that i had enough...maybe it's because i died because of what she did, as i couldn't believe it that she was so quick off her feet to be with another guy...after all the promises and hopes we made to each other. it was like a stab in my heart and the gaping hole was too big that i bleed all that i had. there and then i bowed out of her life and drifted about aimlessly for 3-4 years. she together with my love for her died away from my heart. i could run on and on for miles and day or night i nv feel tired as i found myself totally cutoff from the physical existence of this world. i was in great pain that no tears can flow...and i existed zombie-like. i became immune to any physical pain that i had experienced before. my thoughts altered dramatically...and ppl said i changed. the aftermath of it...the physical appearance of my face also changed. some said i got myself a warmer smile (worse...they found me more attractive - in agony is attractive???)...but what do they know...i was still reeling from a huge gaping hole in my heart and didn't bother much what was happenning to me...except becoming dramatically philosophical about life and everything else...till this day. she and everything else turned into philosophical objects for my musings. the immediate aftermath of the event found me turning into a soul quick to shoot off sharp philosophical retorts to any conversations i had which i found...ludicrous, illusive and u-dont-know-the-truth. indeed it's true...people dont realize what they are talking about - generally. once we open our mouth, truth never comes out, as u see...Truth is a Delicate Angel that any attempt to speak of it, is vulgarity in itself.
Love died that day, and i have never quite know how beautiful it was again till this day.
The good thing that comes out of it? Truth gave me a good glimpse of her
look around you lar no one will pity you.
Everyone will laugh at you saying that you are too weak and cannot handle a relationship well..
Break lor so what. As long as u did the right thing but she is the one who betray you than why heck so much.
Do not waste time for such a gal, a grown up man like you need only 24 hrs to handle a dumb relationship like this. -
btw karma only works for single people not on the whole.Originally posted by applesweetgirl:the world has changed.
hahahaha!
seems like the girls are the ones fooling around nowadays.
maybe this is karma to all the guys in the world. coz last time husbands always cheat on their wives one...then the wife so poor thing. have to take care of her 4498797 children on her own. have to sacrifice her youth and everything to bring up a home. then cannot remarry because tongues will wag about them being loose women. poor women!
maybe girls have learnt something from their older female counterparts. i think it's something to be joyous about.
and if your girlfriend cheated on you, please listen to her explanation. why women can always listen to cheating boyfriends/husbands and forgive them, but men cannot do the same leh? stupid big ego. you do not really love her.
If your boyfriend is found in bed with another gal will you listern to him?
Are you sure women now days really listen to cheating boyfriends or they are so used to using their bf money so often that they have no choice but to close one eye? -
now like all the same... u also dunno when yr gf and doing things behind yr back or yr bf also... so sometimes dunno is gd
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bottomline is trust..Originally posted by subaru67:now like all the same... u also dunno when yr gf and doing things behind yr back or yr bf also... so sometimes dunno is gd -
weak? 24 hours? maybe...but that was first real love man...loved hard and fell hard, that's how i can see it.Originally posted by Guardx:pengz u took 3 to 4 years for what?
look around you lar no one will pity you.
Everyone will laugh at you saying that you are too weak and cannot handle a relationship well..
Break lor so what. As long as u did the right thing but she is the one who betray you than why heck so much.
Do not waste time for such a gal, a grown up man like you need only 24 hrs to handle a dumb relationship like this.
today? i'm a different breed and probably wud settle it in a month or so...wud u believe it that i'm involved with a married gal right now? and she declares her fervent love for me...but i'm cool about it. she has all the great stuffs, body, looks, and money but i'm cool. trouble is...she wants to leave him for me...including her kid!
man...i was only beginning to enjoy her warmth...but not with her kid along.
females here...what's ur say?
i want to hear what Yunhaier says... -
she can do this.... hmmm what u think ley?Originally posted by dmuse:weak? 24 hours? maybe...but that was first real love man...loved hard and fell hard, that's how i can see it.
today? i'm a different breed and probably wud settle it in a month or so...wud u believe it that i'm involved with a married gal right now? and she declares her fervent love for me...but i'm cool about it. she has all the great stuffs, body, looks, and money but i'm cool. trouble is...she wants to leave him for me...including her kid!
man...i was only beginning to enjoy her warmth...but not with her kid along.
females here...what's ur say? -
yup...fren advise me same thing...backfires. dunno man...but she sound serious and i'm bit worried.Originally posted by subaru67:she can do this.... hmmm what u think ley? -
oh just live for the momentOriginally posted by dmuse:yup...fren advise me same thing...backfires. dunno man...but she sound serious and i'm bit worried.