shld u end a BGR??
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ya man... i got my pros n consOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Can't comment on that...
There is no need to feel inferior about being a little flabby now...just go and make yourself lean...and fit...
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often my limits are kept back down due to my heart talking to me... but my mind is telling me.... give up man u r up there...Originally posted by de_middle:TS, as i have mentioned before....know your LIMITS. Ur GF has already shown what she's capable of. Now u wanna compromise somemore, sooner or later ur bound to snap. I believe ur not the type to give in forever coz u wouldn't be posting here in the 1st place if you are.
So the rainbow after the rain is ur own illusion, she will not be the one changing. even if she will, how long is it gonna be....ask urself this
If i were you, i would tell myself.....the next time i cannot take it anymore, it'll be the END
u know the angel and devil talking beside u... haiz -
U r welcome dude...Originally posted by subaru67:thks for perking me up hahaha -
Focus on your merits and at the time, improve on your demerits...Originally posted by subaru67:ya man... i got my pros n cons -
thks broOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Focus on your merits and at the time, improve on your demerits...
i try not to focus too much on what i want from her... as these days with me sms her... she kept ignoring me.... hahahahah tell myself i did what i can to show her i care... so just do my part lor -
I interact with the opp. gender since young and...I made a lot of mistakes along the way...I still make new mistakes but then again, I acknowledge them and learn from them...Originally posted by subaru67:serious? is there some to share with me? -
Do what u can to improve the relationship...Originally posted by subaru67:thks bro
i try not to focus too much on what i want from her... as these days with me sms her... she kept ignoring me.... hahahahah tell myself i did what i can to show her i care... so just do my part lor
At the end of the day, if the response is really negative then just walk away... -
hmmm... learning till old rightOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:I interact with the opp. gender since young and...I made a lot of mistakes along the way...I still make new mistakes but then again, I acknowledge them and learn from them... -
so how long have u ever set yr limit?Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Do what u can to improve the relationship...
At the end of the day, if the response is really negative then just walk away... -
is it true?
" think getting a guy to listen is easier than getting him to listen AND not try to act hero to suggest solutions.
Sometimes a woman just want to share and yak about her feelings and affirmation from the guy.....
But it is tough for the guy to just sit there and not offer solutions because guys have natural instinct to protect and solve problems. " -
The time frame for the final ending depends on yourself.Originally posted by subaru67:so how long have u ever set yr limit?
How many opportunities are there waiting for you ?
If you surround yourself with many possible options, your limits will be shorter. -
i know as me determine the time frameOriginally posted by jojobeach:The time frame for the final ending depends on yourself.
How many opportunities are there waiting for you ?
If you surround yourself with many possible options, your limits will be shorter.
but what u mean by
"If you surround yourself with many possible options, your limits will be shorter"??? -
Opportunity costs my dear.Originally posted by subaru67:i know as me determine the time frame
but what u mean by
"If you surround yourself with many possible options, your limits will be shorter"??? -
cost? as in?Originally posted by jojobeach:Opportunity costs my dear. -
Subaru67..
i hope this will help.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=297000
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thks broOriginally posted by BadzMaro:Subaru67..
i hope this will help.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=297000
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You can never stop learning...Originally posted by subaru67:hmmm... learning till old right -
Its is not long or short that matters, it really depends on the state of relationship that you and her are in right now.Originally posted by subaru67:so how long have u ever set yr limit?
If you think you have done all you can for this relationship, you communicate with her heart to heart and she still doesn't response, then maybe its time for evaluation...
Evaluate your relationship, if you feel that there is no more thing for you to do...
Then walk away... -
Opportunity cost is normally used as a term in economics.Originally posted by subaru67:cost? as in?
It is the cost or benefits of an alternative that must be forgone in order to pursue a certain action (according to dictionary.com) -
even in bgr issuesOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:You can never stop learning... -
huh meaning... break now earn moreOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Opportunity cost is normally used as a term in economics.
It is the cost or benefits of an alternative that must be forgone in order to pursue a certain action (according to dictionary.com) 
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simple yet hardOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:Its is not long or short that matters, it really depends on the state of relationship that you and her are in right now.
If you think you have done all you can for this relationship, you communicate with her heart to heart and she still doesn't response, then maybe its time for evaluation...
Evaluate your relationship, if you feel that there is no more thing for you to do...
Then walk away... 
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reading this again melts my heartOriginally posted by angel7030:Oh, my God, why you fall in love with a gal like this, this are gals temper or chinese said Xiao mei or Xiao jie pi qi. The funny thing is that some men love xiao jie pi qi type of gal, i guess you must be one of them.
Do you believe in fate, if not, you are fated to be under her control and have to bear with it for the rest of your life if you really love her.
But here is the consolation, as a gal myself have met and spoken with to gals with such temper, they told me deep inside them, they really love their men, and sometime when after an angry fit, they regretted over it, it just that they never want to show off to their bf. And they really admire and appreciate their bf who is able to bear with their bad temper, tho they wanted to change but it just seem like addicted to it, they just wanted to blow off at their love ones even on small matters. If you leave her, she will be very very sad...on the other hand, if she not like this, guess you also love her rite, so it fated.
Sayang her and tell her you understand her temper and know she love you very much, tell her you will bear with her and love her forever. -
another thoughtful quoteOriginally posted by de_middle:u see, less expectations = less disappointment. u do what u can but dun overdo it like she's everything to you. go lead ur own life too, have a balance. but when it comes to her, show her ur dependable & caring amist her unruly behaviour coz u love her, u'll tolerate.
Only time will tell if all ends well, alot of perserverance required for this kinda relationship. also dun be shattered if it doesn't end well becoz ur prepared for this. do this preparation stealthfully.....
so best of luck yah
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haiz... why she cant be like u?Originally posted by rainee:Hmm, last time I also like to throw princess tantrums one
My dear called me the emo queen once...though I didn't know it was as bad as that haha...maybe only the recipient will feel the brunt of it...
But after he lets me know what he can tolerate and what he can't, I have reflected on my action and strive to improve on my temper...so now lesser tantrums le...
Esp on trivial matters, I will try to give in from time to time...