About a girl
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lol, i hate this kinda neither here nor there situation like hell la. she's some sorta scared of a r/s i think, that's why she said you deserve better. she probably just wants you as a good buddy to stay by her when she's hurt. girls need that most of the time cause they very vulnerable at that time. getting close and seeing, hearing her may mean so much to you, cause you like her.but it probably just appears to her that you're an ultimate good buddy.
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jst take it slow. and dun probe about this topic verbally anymore. keep trying now n then to progress bt accept whatever responses she has. dun force it. good luck.
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oh ya..one more thing..dont keep telling her u love her so much etc etc..tht will just scare her away..trust me,i know... =X
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This idiot dumb? or are you retarded cloud?Originally posted by xcloud23x:be patient dude<<< haha stupid advice
oh go ahead and do that. Wait for her. I will laugh at you if u fail. I wanted you to test where you stand in her heart. If you are at the " no chance" area then too bad. She say she got good feeling for you may meant to FU YAn ni ma. Only ask you to test where u stand in her heart also dun want to try. Then u go ahead and invest all ur time in her lo. If u fail then dun cry.
Dont give advice please phuck off.
Anyway, well i feel that you should tell her that you really love her. Then tell her that you will give her 1 week to think through. During the one week dont see her at all. If she really miss you or something means she likes you lor. Yeah -
Thanks guys! Seriously man.
I just called her while she's in Korea. She had a rough day there and told me that I brought a smile with that some idiot comment about snow and detergent fabrication factory.
Yea, I kinda admit that she might be afraid to lose a buddy. But seriously, I dont object to her going out/talking to other guys though I feel alittle jealous at times.
Just before she left, she messaged me that she misses me and I drove all the way down to her place and brought her to Cheesecake cafe or factory..something.
And I don't mind about granting her the freedom to hang out with friends, personally I would object if she forsake her friends because of a relatiionship.
I already held her in my arms and told her that, it's just that both of us had bad relationship experiences which is probably why we are cautiously treading the boundaries.
Btw, can anyone tell me if I make an overseas call via my cellphone to hers, how's the charges? just tell me if it's exorbitant or affordable.
And once again, thanks guys.
Can't really understand how did this end up as one of the featured topics. Ha! -
i thought if u are at sg then u call other country who has the roam thing then u pay the normal charges but then the person overseas pays the u noe..ex one...my gf last time at new zealand say she call home to sg 1 hr is $7..Originally posted by Misogynist:Thanks guys! Seriously man.
I just called her while she's in Korea. She had a rough day there and told me that I brought a smile with that some idiot comment about snow and detergent fabrication factory.
Yea, I kinda admit that she might be afraid to lose a buddy. But seriously, I dont object to her going out/talking to other guys though I feel alittle jealous at times.
Just before she left, she messaged me that she misses me and I drove all the way down to her place and brought her to Cheesecake cafe or factory..something.
And I don't mind about granting her the freedom to hang out with friends, personally I would object if she forsake her friends because of a relatiionship.
I already held her in my arms and told her that, it's just that both of us had bad relationship experiences which is probably why we are cautiously treading the boundaries.
Btw, can anyone tell me if I make an overseas call via my cellphone to hers, how's the charges? just tell me if it's exorbitant or affordable.
And once again, thanks guys.
Can't really understand how did this end up as one of the featured topics. Ha! -
Excellent, you are on the right path.
On the jealousy part.
Here's what you need to do.
Find a good time to broach this topic, maybe after a good meal or during some quality time together.
In a very loving manner....say something to this effect.
"Hun, you know I have very special feelings for you. And when a man has special feelings for someone, he gets jealous when the girl gets too close to another man."
Any girl who is intelligent enough will understand this loud and clear.
If she gets angry, it's a red flag. She might just want to have the cake and eat it too.
I suggest you get a overseas calling card and dial to a land line.
Or you can research Voice Over Internet options.
Or you can use computer to computer voice chats which is free. -
how about using Skype?Originally posted by Misogynist:Thanks guys! Seriously man.
I just called her while she's in Korea. She had a rough day there and told me that I brought a smile with that some idiot comment about snow and detergent fabrication factory.
Yea, I kinda admit that she might be afraid to lose a buddy. But seriously, I dont object to her going out/talking to other guys though I feel alittle jealous at times.
Just before she left, she messaged me that she misses me and I drove all the way down to her place and brought her to Cheesecake cafe or factory..something.
And I don't mind about granting her the freedom to hang out with friends, personally I would object if she forsake her friends because of a relatiionship.
I already held her in my arms and told her that, it's just that both of us had bad relationship experiences which is probably why we are cautiously treading the boundaries.
Btw, can anyone tell me if I make an overseas call via my cellphone to hers, how's the charges? just tell me if it's exorbitant or affordable.
And once again, thanks guys.
Can't really understand how did this end up as one of the featured topics. Ha! -
that means u have chance to progress with her.
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Ai ya. She like you . You Like her. Full Stop. So you just nd to relax abit.