Lonely people fall in to chat your feeling!!
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find bf loh.
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it's pretty normal what ya feeling.. i do feel the same sometimes.. either be comfortable in your company or find new ones as the rest suggest..
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true ma.... its a cycleOriginally posted by de_middle:clap clap clap....so true -
That's nothing to envy at couples in the wedding dinnerOriginally posted by Meilin86:There are quite a number of lonely people. The young and the old.
I agree with the bros here that going for dancing class and volunteering is one of the great way to relieve loneliness. Loneliness is really one of the toughest thing for human to deal with.
I envy with couples in the wedding dinner. How i wish it will be my turn soon.
Though married for 10+ years, we still find loneliness at heart
Hubby & children r always out with their own friends
Only companion is the TV where can daydream watching romantic show
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When i first c ur nick, i thought u are my long lost friend. But a glance at ur email, i know u isn't though we are same age
Go help urself with a nice guy so that u won't feel so bored at least. Romance spices up life. -
Actaully i think you start nuturing yourself by getting to know your inner self and exploring what is available around u. You can try to take up classes that match your interest. You can do something out of the oridinary. Step out of your comfort zone and do something that you thought you could never have done. Life is full of wonders and opportunities.Originally posted by Meilin86:I found out that I grow older, my friends are getting lesser.
Moreover, my close friends never keep promises. They said they would go out this weekends or so, in the end they say they can't make it so weekend is for me to go out alone. They will come and find me when they need help. I am being used by them.
As for not so close friends, I message them, they just reply with a few lines of greetings and that's in the end. I can't do some of the activities such as badminton or tennis, because nobody wants to go although he or she likes the game.
There is no point to know from friendsters or facebook. It's a waste of time. Meet-up is very unlikely.
With technology make things worse, my friends never like to talk on phone or meet face to face. They prefer msn and sms. Why?
Therefore my life is surrounded with busy work in weekdays and lonely life in weekend. The cycles repeat. I afraid I can't take it and jumped off the building.
What shall I do? I haven't done any wrongdoing to people. What's wrong with me?
Anyone have this feelings. Do share your other experiences about yourself.
Try join the CC, spend your time meaningfully by volunteerism, take up a new sport to sculpture your body, join an art class to refine your mind. There are so much things that you can choose to spend your weekend wisely and through these avenue, you get to know more friends with common interests. From there onwards, you can slowly build your networks.
Other than pro-actively seeking out new friends, take some time out for yourself, to nuture yourself. I like to have some time enjoying reading a new book, have a mini-home spa treatment. There has to be a balance between work, social and yourself which is lacking in your current likestyle.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are just at a temporay standstill in your life. You have the capability to change alot of things. Stay happy yeh. -
i tink u need a male partner
a boyfriend to be exact
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Heng I have my batch boys to puay me.Originally posted by Meilin86:I found out that I grow older, my friends are getting lesser.
Moreover, my close friends never keep promises. They said they would go out this weekends or so, in the end they say they can't make it so weekend is for me to go out alone. They will come and find me when they need help. I am being used by them.
As for not so close friends, I message them, they just reply with a few lines of greetings and that's in the end. I can't do some of the activities such as badminton or tennis, because nobody wants to go although he or she likes the game.
There is no point to know from friendsters or facebook. It's a waste of time. Meet-up is very unlikely.
With technology make things worse, my friends never like to talk on phone or meet face to face. They prefer msn and sms. Why?
Therefore my life is surrounded with busy work in weekdays and lonely life in weekend. The cycles repeat. I afraid I can't take it and jumped off the building.
What shall I do? I haven't done any wrongdoing to people. What's wrong with me?
Anyone have this feelings. Do share your other experiences about yourself.
I have a handful of friends dating from JC and now I mostly go out with my NS buddies. -
If you think it's not worth it then don't try so hard to pursue such relationships.
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wanna talk on msn? PM me
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currently my social life is kaput, since im working
but ive know the people at the workplace for about 2-3 years already, so its still ok if i get bored -
TS permission to fall out
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I used to have few relationships in Uni, all end up with sad break-ups. Since ever start working, i have relationship only with computers. I have a friend who never been into relationships before for the past 20 years? Lonely single life for him.
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it so true.. i only end up with 2 close friends..
the rest of the friends are like... acc gf, dunno do wat sh!t. Totally disappointing. but dunno y my girl friends are even closer then my guy friends.. -
unfortunately, life's like that.. haha
thats a pessimist viewpoint.
the fortunate thing is that we can try to change it.
you might as how?
hmm, i suggest you take the initiative to meet ppl up.
just be more pro-active.
i always think that dishing out advices are easier said that done.
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most of my guy friends prefer acc girls moreOriginally posted by r33b0k:unfortunately, life's like that.. haha
thats a pessimist viewpoint.
the fortunate thing is that we can try to change it.
you might as how?
hmm, i suggest you take the initiative to meet ppl up.
just be more pro-active.
i always think that dishing out advices are easier said that done.
how true. -
yaya, thats quite true. esp if the girl is pretty.Originally posted by FBI:most of my guy friends prefer acc girls more
but you shld also have ur buddy buddy friends rite?
those that you can call out talk co*k sing song play mahjong. -
ya a few only.. those zhong she qing you one i don give a fuk to them already.Originally posted by r33b0k:yaya, thats quite true. esp if the girl is pretty.
but you shld also have ur buddy buddy friends rite?
those that you can call out talk co*k sing song play mahjong. -
haha. just be friend friend lor.. those not much commitment those kind. who knows one day you might need their help.Originally posted by FBI:ya a few only.. those zhong she qing you one i don give a fuk to them already.
very late already, i go ZzZ liaos.
Bye. check back this thread tomorrow when i'm free. -
seems like they need me more then i do..hahaOriginally posted by r33b0k:haha. just be friend friend lor.. those not much commitment those kind. who knows one day you might need their help.
very late already, i go ZzZ liaos.
Bye. check back this thread tomorrow when i'm free.
most disappointing is my bday ask them come out in the end.. -
dude, don't be sad lar!Originally posted by FBI:seems like they need me more then i do..haha
most disappointing is my bday ask them come out in the end..
we learnt in life that we can be there for many people when they need help.
yet many a times, where are they when we need them?
practically speaking, we dun get our returns for 'investing' in them.
i know its very disappointing.
pick yourself up.
this also taught you to cherish those that doesn't take you for granted.
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hey thanks.Originally posted by r33b0k:dude, don't be sad lar!
we learnt in life that we can be there for many people when they need help.
yet many a times, where are they when we need them?
practically speaking, we dun get our returns for 'investing' in them.
i know its very disappointing.
pick yourself up.
this also taught you to cherish those that doesn't take you for granted.
really gtg. take care!
sometimes we can'y b too good sometimes if not we will b taken advantage.
nice chat with u, tc
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wowow 20 years LOL !Originally posted by Meilin86:I used to have few relationships in Uni, all end up with sad break-ups. Since ever start working, i have relationship only with computers. I have a friend who never been into relationships before for the past 20 years? Lonely single life for him.
hmm.. wad to advice leh.. ? make new frds.. ? -.- -
u are only 21...u shouldn't have problems making friends...not like pple who are in late 20s, most of their friends already married with kids etc. try taking up more activities, joining clubs etc or getting involved in church (or whichever religious org u belong to). actually i feel church is the best place to make friends because the pple there have similar values.
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hahaha =) i add u kk =)
im facing similar problems with u too =( sad but true =(