what is she thinking ??

• hunky_boi

  13 Dec 07, 21:43

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Dec 07, 21:46

  She treat you as friend and want to mend the friendship. Really.
• hunky_boi

  13 Dec 07, 21:49

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  She treat you as friend and want to mend the friendship. Really.

  did you also encounter a same type of problem ??
  
  seriously, i love her.. even after so many rejection.. i still love her.. as in alot..
  and all i need is for her to get me a chance to prove it..
  
  i seriously dont know wat she is thinking..
  
• SBS3625D

  13 Dec 07, 21:50

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  Think so complicated for what?
  
  She values you as friend lor.
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Dec 07, 21:52

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  did you also encounter a same type of problem ??
  
  seriously, i love her.. even after so many rejection.. i still love her.. as in alot..
  and all i need is for her to get me a chance to prove it..
  
  i seriously dont know wat she is thinking..
  

  No. It's my friend who encounter the same problem as you.
  
  So I went to have a chat with that girl, who is also my friend, and learn that she wants to mend the friendship with my friend.
  
  Because she rejected my friend so many times already and she knew that the friendship is strained, that why she want to find some way to mend the friendship.
• Nadare

  13 Dec 07, 21:52

  friendship ba. but shes leading u on by agreeing to let u send her home
  ask her about her feelings
  
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Dec 07, 21:53

  Anyway friend, I really know how you feel.
• SBS3625D

  13 Dec 07, 21:54

  She probably thinks she's being terrible rejecting you. So she wants to mend the relationship.
  
  I guess nia, you better find out properly.
• CannyOng

  13 Dec 07, 22:54

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  Seriously,u shall not ask her so many times of whether she likes u anot or asking her to be yr gf..
  
  U shall only do yr homework and really confident of the situation between u and her and very sure she is ok with u then u propose to her. It may piss her off with so many proposal...
  
  But I really think u shall give up on her as stead. Move on will be a better solution
• Pitot

  13 Dec 07, 22:56

  why u so kan cheong???
  
  relac la.... slowly...
  
  u cant wait, DON'T.
  
• sLeEpWaLkErInG

  13 Dec 07, 23:13

  got free transport who dun wan? go find another, she ain't the only one out there.
• wonderamazement

  13 Dec 07, 23:14

  You used the word "propose" scare me sia...
• gunner77

  14 Dec 07, 00:24

  she treat u as friend only la
  
  if u don wan me to say nice, then she treat u as bodyguard lor
• Guardx

  14 Dec 07, 00:50

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  Give me 10 good reasons on why she should chose you instead of the guy?
  
  My question is simple " Why you?"
• BrUtUs

  14 Dec 07, 00:50

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  tis confirms u got very thick skin... face it, u jz not her type(maybe u too 'hunky' or character)... she jz treat u as fren so give up on ur ideas to make her urs... theres plenty of gals out there so better luck nx time... + gng out not 100% mean she interested...
• BrUtUs

  14 Dec 07, 00:53

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  did you also encounter a same type of problem ??
  
  seriously, i love her.. even after so many rejection.. i still love her.. as in alot..
  and all i need is for her to get me a chance to prove it..
  
  i seriously dont know wat she is thinking..
  

  jz crush la... no need go overboard jz for it...
• FBI

  14 Dec 07, 01:15

  either normal friendship or she treats u like a dog or rather a male maid.
• boltstorm

  14 Dec 07, 05:43

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  from this, it looks like she is using you. forget about her...she is taking advantage of your kindness to her. did she do anything in return? like buying u meals or something? at least a friend would do that. i advise u to cut contact with her, even if u really love her a lot. if it's meant to be, she will come looking for u
• gLc

  14 Dec 07, 05:48

  propose??
  
  You do what sia? If im the girl i also run lah !
• Hello Kitty

  14 Dec 07, 05:49

  coz ur proposal no big diamond ring.
  
  coz she's makin use of u lah, kuku!
• subaru67

  14 Dec 07, 09:55

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  ok.. this story goes like this..
  
  i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
  i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
  
  i waited for them to break..
  so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
  she say tat we better study first..
  
  a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
  
  but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  she just enjoy yr company
• Uncertain

  14 Dec 07, 09:58

  I dun think she makes use of u but rather wanna befriend u.
  
  Dude, if u truly like a person, really heed the this advice:"Go slow, wait for 2 years down the road and c how. If she is still not interested, dun bother about her anymore and move on to the other target."
  
  Remember it is she who is not worthy of ur love, not u. U have taken all ur courage to confess ur feeling but if she just doesn't care then no point confessing anymore cos the day where she accepts u will never come.
• storywolf

  14 Dec 07, 11:20

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
  
  if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???

  Because - you say it - you the one who ask for it
• de_middle

  14 Dec 07, 11:37

  Originally posted by hunky_boi:

  did you also encounter a same type of problem ??
  
  seriously, i love her.. even after so many rejection.. i still love her.. as in alot..
  and all i need is for her to get me a chance to prove it..
  
  i seriously dont know wat she is thinking..
  

  haven't started always professing ur LOVE
  
  dun rush, not meant to be just leave it.....just like looking for a JOB
• subaru67

  14 Dec 07, 12:33

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  haven't started always professing ur LOVE
  
  dun rush, not meant to be just leave it.....just like looking for a JOB

  maybe a crush