what is she thinking ??
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TS thinking: "if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ??? so she must have like me, but why don't accept me?"
her thinking: "kuku, me u no chemistry, thats why"
but hard to say also la, if u believe in not giving up, u mite touch her heart after a v long chase, but u gt this endurance bo. i guess not, from the way u post this thread. not every ger must like u just becuz u treat her nice de hor. -
i think you are only thinking you're in love with her, since you keep being rejected...something like, "bu fu shu"? don't know la
aiya. take a look at some other girls ba. it's easy to forget people.
i used to think i really really really love this guy.
then someone better came along.
then i found that i didn't like that previous guy that much after all.
just a crush. -
cos she's neutral towards you.Originally posted by hunky_boi:ok.. this story goes like this..
i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
i waited for them to break..
so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
she say tat we better study first..
a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???
liking a person does not necessarily translate into a love relationship.
i have many other friends out there who are very pretty and attractive girls and we meet up from time to time. i do not interpret this normal meeting up as anything more than friendship.
perhaps you should also learn how to be a normal human being and not treat everyone you're crazy about as a target.
as always, take things slow if you are serious. if you want to try try, see fun or not, or to have a fling, just go masturbate your frustrations out. -
old dun go,new one how to come.
it only a gal,dun waste ur time lah.
send her home only waste more of ur time,since he got a bf,ask him send lor.WHY U?
get a gf,den u will find tt wat u have been doing n thinking is abit stupid.
SO.....move on. -
Spend more time on your work lah.
You cannot live on love and fresh air alone.
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i find this gal very strange. if she dun like u, why did she still daring to let u to give her a rise after u confessing a few time?
maybe she's just using u as her driver. -
worst case scenarioOriginally posted by 798:i find this gal very strange. if she dun like u, why did she still daring to let u to give her a rise after u confessing a few time?
maybe she's just using u as her driver. -
Bro, actually I have the same problem as uOriginally posted by hunky_boi:ok.. this story goes like this..
i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
i waited for them to break..
so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
she say tat we better study first..
a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ??? -
I think that you and her have chance...
But if she had a good bf that treat her well , then just be friend with her ! -
Originally posted by Uncertain:I dun think she makes use of u but rather wanna befriend u.
me is ger.
me knw de. -
I simply dun understand, why guys are like that, they like to destroy each other life, look guys, in knowing that a gal is attached to another guy, why keep pestering her to accept you, aren't u going to make the other guy sad when u succeeded? Please lah, have a thot for the other brother of your on the other side of her.
Even if i have a liking for another man, i will not leave my bf as we gal dun like to hurt guy feeling ya. Trust and Love to us is very important. -
Originally posted by hunky_boi:ok.. this story goes like this..
i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
i waited for them to break..
so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
she say tat we better study first..
a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???
You assumed her intention seemed to suggest that she is giving you a chance to 'prove yourself' - but there's absolutely nothing for you to prove because she is already very clear in her positioning - three times to be precise - that there's only enough room for you to be a friend and no further.
You are probably the conventional type of guy who needs absolute answer from your crush to get your butt moving. But the truth is that in Love, is always the grey - you don't normally get black-and-white answers simply just because you need them.
It's not even about hinting - she has blatantly said 'No' thrice - if that isn't enough to let you see the light, I can tell you that the result from further attempts will hardly differ.
Why coerced someone to love you when you are just not the fit?
Why force a piece into a puzzle and make things ugly?
If you are unable to handle rejection and accept a mere friendship, I would suggest you take the initiative to cut contact, than to escalate your situation and pressure her to 'cut your contact'.
Nothing about face issue - if you are not emotionally evolved to handle it, my advice is always to avoid facing the predicament.
Cheers -
friendship ? or she quarrel with her bf and needs someone to pei her
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i think she is making use of you. you have a car, right?
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I beg to differ.Originally posted by Uncertain:I dun think she makes use of u but rather wanna befriend u.
Dude, if u truly like a person, really heed the this advice:"Go slow, wait for 2 years down the road and c how. If she is still not interested, dun bother about her anymore and move on to the other target."
Remember it is she who is not worthy of ur love, not u.
U have taken all ur courage to confess ur feeling but if she just doesn't care then no point confessing anymore cos the day where she accepts u will never come.
I feel that if one waits long enough, that day might really come. Of course I don't mean wait & do nothing. I mean be by her side as a friend, be there when she needs you.
As time passes, who knows she might fall in love with you one day? -
Its not you dun know what she is thinking.. she already given u a clear indication taht she doesnt like u n just wanna keep as frenOriginally posted by hunky_boi:did you also encounter a same type of problem ??
seriously, i love her.. even after so many rejection.. i still love her.. as in alot..
and all i need is for her to get me a chance to prove it..
i seriously dont know wat she is thinking..
Or you dumb enough to not let go a pity gal whos tired of you ? Or you prefer to lose a fren like her ? Grow up. Sometimes You cant get anything you want in your life. Not in love , dude.. I believe she pity you more now cuz you're so desperate. -
You dont leave your bf not bcuz you dun wanna hurt your guy feeling. but its more to love and loyalty. iF YOU have liking to other guy, then perhaps you should know your limit as a fren or more than a frenOriginally posted by angel7030:I simply dun understand, why guys are like that, they like to destroy each other life, look guys, in knowing that a gal is attached to another guy, why keep pestering her to accept you, aren't u going to make the other guy sad when u succeeded? Please lah, have a thot for the other brother of your on the other side of her.
Even if i have a liking for another man, i will not leave my bf as we gal dun like to hurt guy feeling ya. Trust and Love to us is very important. -
I personaly think the gal will like TS more if only he can understand that this is not the rite time for her to be in love again after break-up
BEing so desperate only make the gal feel unsafe -
i got this fren..
we meet over last weekend.. she's attach..
she ask me to send her home..
i never ..
she stay jurung west me central..
so far... -
She's juz treating you as a normal friend lah..........
Your approach to "love" is kinda funny leh.
Seems that you decide to love the girl and want to reserve her first before setting out to develop the relationship with her.......
Shouldn't it be the other way around?
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possible reasons for her treatment towards you.Originally posted by hunky_boi:ok.. this story goes like this..
i met this girl at my work place and i really love her..
i tried proposing to her but was rejected, she say that she love another guy liao... and they got patch back.. so i quietly waited...
i waited for them to break..
so i ask again on my birhday and was also rejected..
she say tat we better study first..
a week back i bring back the question whether she like me or not or will she give me a chance to prove my love the third time and got back the same result..
but last few days, we keep meeting up, every time i am the one who suggested to meet de.. most of the time, i am jus sending her home from work or school..
if she dont really like me, why agree to meet me and allowing me to send her home ???
1) she's using you
2)she's confused if she wana try* you
thats my personal opinion though -
there is a very thin line btw these 2 optionsOriginally posted by Peekabhoo:possible reasons for her treatment towards you.
1) she's using you
2)she's confused if she wana try* you
thats my personal opinion though -
http://youtube.com/watch?v=B2pR_7481vc
TS dont be sad. i specially choose this song for you. Cheer up.