Relationship problem
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Then you take over as her bf ahhOriginally posted by bigdeal:break off la
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Hi there [L]inG_eR !
firstly i sympathise wif ur feelings now
yeah wats the nature of his job? maybe u can go get along with his frens? or intro some some frens of urs with his for some healthy activities?
u gotta find out wat is ur status in his heart then....men at 23 is hard to settle down and u got to choose whether to stay be his side and stress ur importance to him or just move on and find another guy who can really appreciate and spend time with u.
ultimately the answer lies in ur heart u noe
thks for listening anyway
PS: mi just a kapo passerby , a newbie too
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he bo chup u 1 lah, he is gay.
probably have don't know how many dicks up his ass as you're checking this forum.
don't say i'm trying to aggravate the situation, but the evidences are obvious. -
Alwayz with "frens"
Wat frens? U know them?
U sure he's with his frens?
Dun say I unsympathetic~
The way i see it.....
Maybe he's 2-timing~
Scarly 3-timing~ -
Hi [L]ing_eR,
not sure if I'm too late to give advise.
First of all, I must clearified that I'm no expert, non am I trying to influence you thoughts.
Question
Why would a bf not wanting to share his friends with his gf??
You got to let your bf know how you feel. If he had his valid reasons then try work out something that both of you can agree upon. No point playing guessing games. If things don't change for the better then think of something else. Maybe you are not meant for each other. Maybe he is the bo chap type, you are the gan cheong type.
In situations like these, you have to make your own judgement. You can find tons of advise from anywhere. 'Break off lah...', 'Talk to your bf lah....', 'Give him a chance lah....' and many more BUT ultimately, it's YOU who makes the decision.
Hope you make a good decision.