Well,
TO me you are a loser,
wait till 5 years and now only the action
Sory, gals dun like to wait that long .
Tat gal perhaps have some feeling to u in the 1st place but since u lack of action, she might have think u only treat her as good fren... and now only u action.. wtf.. of course she will say its too late or perhaps she already got one bf during these 5 years
BUT
u tried la.. theres nothing more satisfying when u tried. the outcome doesnt really matter, What matters is that u tried.. satisfy now ? now go and get another gal