Heartbroken> =(
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The moment view a girl as beyong an object,you are finish.
The mentality that girl i an object is very safe.
Always know that if she dissapoints u,u can go out and find a new one.
Memories are burden and illusions,do not hang on and cherish for they can always be created. -
but she say she want to feel for me again she jjust dunno how..Originally posted by Isis:I think her heart has changed. What can you do to salvage the relationship ?
Thing happens and perhaps both of you are not meant to be. It is really nobody's fault here cos feelings cannot be controlled. It just happens that the new guy is there at the right place at the right time when she needs someone to lean on the most. Perhaps she is not mature enuff and strong-willed in her heart for you. Perhaps the love that both of you have isn't strong enough to withstand external intrusion. Since this has shown that the love can't be tested, then just forget it.
Quoted: "She was numb about you and him". I am guessing that she had been battling her emotion over you and him and come to a point of time that she became sianz about it. I don't think she deliberately wanting to cheat on you. I also guessed that she had accidentally fall in love with there third guy.
Yeah whatever it is, decide on some thing that lessen the pain for both of you. Yeah, can you stand her talking to there guy infront of you when she is with u? Perhaps, she will realise you are the one she love... just Perhaps
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wad the...
hearing this is sad...
typical..common..
sometimes when u think u cant be so swey,
it happens to u anyway.
25year old guy playing friendster..
lure someone elses gf..
a jerk.
but still u cnt do much rite..
serving NS,
limited time and money.
girl gets lonely,
find another person for companionship.
it a way of life..no matter u like it or not.
u must know this isnt abt trust anymore,
since she has already 'betrayed' u.
Let it go bah...
it will hurt, no matter wad choice u choose.
but still,
zhi de mah?
is she worth it anot.
think hard before doing thing.
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do u dare to take a risk?
leave her alone and see whether she comes back to u.
it seems that she cares more abt him than u leh..
u muz be mentally prepared. -
not much point in making it a big mess when she already strayed from U.Originally posted by nuub1987:arhghhg that cheesepie random 25 yr old friendster guy makes my blood boil to the max when i see your story
... go check your gf handphone for his number and tell the cunning @ss to stop stealing your gf...
there is always someone better out there...question is whether U want to let go of the current one.
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personally I will tell her to save it...but that's me.Originally posted by ahkeat:but she say she want to feel for me again she jjust dunno how..
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agree.Originally posted by browniebaobao:do u dare to take a risk?
leave her alone and see whether she comes back to u.
it seems that she cares more abt him than u leh..
u muz be mentally prepared. -
Maybe she is just confused with her own feeling about you and there guy. Give her some time to sort her own feeling. Don't you need some time for your heart to be heal too?Originally posted by ahkeat:but she say she want to feel for me again she jjust dunno how..
what am i to think ?
There is a possibility that she will stay with you and a possibility that she will leave you. Let time tells you the answer. Whatever it is, it is. -
im already prepared for the worst.. mayb im just not willing to accept it n wan to deceive myself that she will come back...
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A satisfied woman will never be seduced. Know u treasure her alot, but since she betray u in the first place, do u think u still can manage the same kind of relationship as before??
Anyway u r still in NS, still young, there will be lots of chances after u ORD. Be brave and end this to pull urself out of this misery. There are so many things to look forward to beside relationship, hope this helps
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break and learn to forget her.. there's no point.. sometimes when its time to let go, u shld
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u enlist 10 jan?Originally posted by Tian Long Jiu Bu:feel really sad to hear this. And i am scared too
gng navy this yr -
Normal. Don't deem this relationship as a good thing. You want to see it good but it's no longer good as it has changed. It can get better or worse. You don't have to do anything about it. It will change by itself.Originally posted by ahkeat:im already prepared for the worst.. mayb im just not willing to accept it n wan to deceive myself that she will come back... -
just take it as game over & move on
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I think your gf is ridiculous. 2 timing u and another guy.
But still acting like she is the pityful soul.
A good girl doesnt act this way. having a bf shouldnt still date other guys.
Maybe I am old already cannot accept such modern act...
Tsk tsk tsk...
she is just trying to achieve two best world.
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if u think that it is a waste of time to be with her and her heart is not with you anymore , then let her go... and u also would not wear a green hat and look bad..
that girl is so bad , just because u did not have time to accompany her and the relationship is not working well, she leaves u... is really very bad...
can u salvage the relationship and what are u going to do???
very messy... wish u have a clear and big mind and heart to decide...
and dun be heartbroken... it is not healthy for ur body...
ur parents still love u and there are still many girls available...
singlehood is good!
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Just forget about her, get the game.
And in no time you'd be one hell of a guy every guy respects and all girls want. -
today, his family got some baby birthday and his dad invited her to go.
i asked her if she will not go, she said'i mit u tmr?'
i was sad..
as i browse thru my phone, i saw all those lovely sms that she used to send me n thought to myself that its all useless to me but think that at least she should keep them or do whatever with it. i sent all the sms back to her before i deleted them all away..
she reply 'i used to love u so so much eh i wanna love so much again. i stay home u come over?'
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ignore her.. just split for some time and dun call or sms her.. thats so simple..
just say to her, "we both need some time-out" ...but infact, you should know a time-out is already inofficially break-up.
Really. just forget her...Trust me, ur r/s wont be the same like previous since this happened. You will always question her loyalty from now on even though u together
Just leave..
anyway up to u.. many ppl already advice here bcuz from our point of view, your gal always went beyond her limit as a gf.. It hurts but.. right thing need to be done b4 it gets worse..
Ur just dragging dragging dragging like a shyt... yea,, go drag this till another 10 years .. -
I'd say build up a wall and wait for her to break it off. Be nice. Be there when she needs you. But that's it. Yes you're in NS and it'll be difficult but down the line it'll be soooo gratifying when she comes back to you sobbing about the mistake she made.
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NS will nurture you to be a man and where is your fighting spirit? never say never and fight for your girl all the way bro. just think that ue girl is our nation and the other dude is the enemy, fight day and night man!
cmon, i believe NS has instill more fire power in you than this right? dont complain about NS spoiling r/s...it prepares you for the real world.
i hope everything goes well for you and never let your head down, we are the mighty warriors of our land!
never give in, and if the girl is ur destiny, she will be urs.
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let her have some time to her own to collect her feelings ... she might not know what she's talking about. gals are messed up when their heads are messed up..
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yeah. i have broke up with her. i think i'll be more laid back now...
she went out anyway. makes the msg she sent earlier pointless.
thanks yall for ur advices. just that matters of the heart is just so complicated. -
[quote]Originally posted by ahkeat:
[b]today, his family got some baby birthday and his dad invited her to go.
i asked her if she will not go, she said'i mit u tmr?'
i was sad..
as i browse thru my phone, i saw all those lovely sms that she used to send me n thought to myself that its all useless to me but think that at least she should keep them or do whatever with it. i sent all the sms back to her before i deleted them all away..
she reply 'i used to love u so so much eh i wanna love so much again. i stay home u come over?'
She even goes to his family function? That denotes how close they are.
She said she is numb about both of you. if she is numb about him, why is she exasperated when he is angry with her? if she is numb about him, will she be delighted to receive his call that she has to "dash to her room" to chat with him despite you were with her?
Truth is, she is numbt about you, not him.
You asked what you should do. Ask yourself. She does not love you anymore, are you still going to stick around and be a spare tyre? -
Hurray for u dudeOriginally posted by ahkeat:yeah. i have broke up with her. i think i'll be more laid back now...
she went out anyway. makes the msg she sent earlier pointless.
thanks yall for ur advices. just that matters of the heart is just so complicated.
Do learn to let go and remember there is someone out there that much deserved ur love. Dun waste time on someone who don't even give a damn about ur love Get over it soon and move on.