This is what they did to me :(

• jay_rocks

  6 Jan 08, 22:56

  your nick speaks everything we need to know
• Cpt.ZR

  6 Jan 08, 23:08

  hhahahhahah sec 1 is like that their uniform are still new...
  
  and not forgetting their mentality la.. hahah just a couple of kids.. just brush them off and move on..
  
  PS if you are really gay.. maybe you can ask yr friends for advice? lol but i really think is the little kids la
  
  no flaming pls.
• ShrodingersCat

  6 Jan 08, 23:10

  uhh.. lots of good advice.. err i dunno u personally but..
  
  a nick like lalalaworld is really a little kuniang... and if it matters to you, not to be too kuniang.. then mebbe u shd choose a less cute nickname...
• sir_peanuts

  7 Jan 08, 00:09

  the fact that you're concerned about this tells a lot.
  
  that you're not as open-minded as a guy should be, calculating as otherwise.
  
  let it pass, and you'll see new horizons (prisons theme)
• kengkia

  7 Jan 08, 00:46

  The teacher should hit TS with a metal rod then...let him learn the harsh way of the past and some current nations so that he will appreciate....
• Dead_Man_Inc

  7 Jan 08, 00:49

  u tell them wait till they are fully grown then talk to u
• mortified

  7 Jan 08, 00:57

  with a nickname like lalalaworld, you cant blame them for calling you gay
• ikashi

  7 Jan 08, 01:09

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  lalalaworld,
  
  Number 1. Please change your nick.
  
  LALALAWORLD is not exactly a very MANLY name.
  Reminds me of a small little girl skipping around singing " la la la la.."
  
  Number 2 . Next time when your senior tells you don't be gay. Tell him straight off .. " Can you NOT undermine me infront of EVERYONE here ?"
  
  Number 3. Sometimes it's gota do with your looks. I don't know how you look like, so I don't want to comment, because I can be very cruel, if you want you can PM me your pic.
  
  Number 3. CHANGE THAT NICK OF YOURS. To something like " Da BADASS."

  x2, i was about to post this, but you went ahead of me
• Blahhh

  7 Jan 08, 03:58

  Whoa, sooooooooo many macho men here ah? all online and post at sgforums?
• Rejected

  7 Jan 08, 05:31

  Oh, come on mate. Don't fret about it.
  They are still kids, think about it.
• ghimpheng

  7 Jan 08, 06:49

  Originally posted by lalalaworld:

  Just finish the Sec 1 orientation camp. I was the care taker for the NT class. They were horrible and they sucks alot ! But what did I do wrongly that some people called me : Bla-po , gay , or whatsoever shit !
  
  I shouted at them , act normally and did nothing wrong. Maybe I am too friendly to them at first by not shouting at them .. I just did my duty by keeping the lines straight . And my "head" council told me: Take charge of the class lar , don't be a gay here. WTF ?! Too good to them = gay ?
  
  My friend told me that I have a accent , asking if I am Singaporean ? What to do ? Lim Bei born in Sillypore and people asking If I am a sillyporean. Maybe when I speaks , i tend to "curve" me tongue more arr ? LOL
  
  When I talk to the sec 1 , I try to use the "childish" manner cuz if you are too fierce to them , they will give you the black face ad a chicken word for you.
  
  Maybe I have a phycho problem , due to my appearance ? I dare not say that I am ugly or handsome , just having pimples make me feels ugly .. I myself seriously don't know whats going on.. What did I do to let them call me a gay or sissy ????
  
  I am a forgive and forget person , I don't normally pick a fight with people , though I must admit that I don't have much friends .. Just some hypocrites friends maybe ?
  
  And during the CCA tour , I went to my CCA booth , if I am not wrong , someone said : They Gay councillor .. Wah Lau eh ... maybe I am too sensitive ? When My friends don't talk to me or having a late reply in MSN = They trying to act big and ignore you ..
  
  I am a straight , I like girls and never will I love the boys .. =.= what should I do ? If everybody talk bad things at your back. Wow lau eh , call me gay ! WTF ... feel like quitting the council .. any suggestion ?

  If you are so forgiving and will not bear any grudges you will not have posted to complain and whine so much.And not shouting @ them @ first does not mean treating them good.Shouting is the wrong way in any case.
  
  and LaLaWorld Sound more suitable for a female forumer than a male forumer
  
  And from what you type above can see why they have such bad impression of you
• Wankham

  7 Jan 08, 09:05

  I think u are just gay lah. Nothing can be done about it. Why don't u try to accept urself for who u are? Start wearing a skirt to school, it may help.
• Timmay

  7 Jan 08, 09:05

  
  
  Remember that you don't need to talk fiercely or 'childishly'
  
  Just in a normal way, with a little stern face if necessary
  
  If you can't change your behaviour(After suggestions by fellow sgforumers)
  
  Change profession
  
  Lest you're bullied by almost every student in the school
  
  Once they they how you're like
  
  I was in Normal academic before, I know how we used to treat teachers
  
  If you had been our relief teacher/subject teacher
  
  You'd be bullied like hell
  
  Lastly, remember that you're only a caretaker for Secondary 1 pupils
  
• crosshairs

  7 Jan 08, 09:12

  BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLCK TOGETHER. OLD BIRD AND NEW BIRDS MEET, SAME FEATHER, SAME BREED.
• xiaoxui

  7 Jan 08, 09:33

  lalalaworld is just a happy name what... why these sillypores like making fun of people's name???
  
  Anyway, most new teachers will be first posted to NT classes to test if they can ''tahan", that's what I heard from my friends. And, NT classes - seems to be already condemn that they are just there 'creating troubles' and hyper.
  
  Wish u luck to be posted to a better class after this.
• Y_Shun

  7 Jan 08, 11:13

  Originally posted by Blahhh:

  Whoa, sooooooooo many macho men here ah? all online and post at sgforums?

  rawr, we are redirected from pumping irno to help this little boi
• thehappybunny

  7 Jan 08, 11:20

  maybe TS shld try change his music preference
  
  perhaps from pop or whatever to Black Sabbath, LZ, the likes
• pokkagreentea

  7 Jan 08, 11:32

  
  I think someone already said it best.
  
  To sum it up, roughen your appearance, change your body language, do more exercising, speak more sternly and try to take this name-calling thing as a lame joke. good luck.
  
• gigabyte14

  7 Jan 08, 11:46

  u noob then say la
• Tier

  7 Jan 08, 11:59

  I think typing worx behind a sentence sounds girly.
  I will imagine a person striking a girly pose while saying "worx~~"
• dangerboi

  7 Jan 08, 16:43

  you commented that "they sucks alot."
  
  You must have an attitude problem too. Ignore them then
• lalalaworld

  7 Jan 08, 18:07

  First , I must clarify this .
  
  lalalaworld is just a random name and this is a secondary account of mine in SGForums ..
  
  Secondly , my voice comfirm not girlish d . Its rough .
  
  Thirdly , hair not those "Once you see = gay" ... plss .
  
  Maybe I had over exagerated my voice (: .. I tried acting "cute" to them ..And yes I do ... But it must once again be said that ITS NOT "Ehh ~ Dun like that larr" those really sissy voice.
  
  And I forgot to give more details about the camp. My NT class got scolded by the DM during one of the assembly (During camp) , got scolded by the council teacher. I'm not the one saying that the sucks alot but it do. They don't even want to cooperate on the mass dance. There are 27 people in that class , 2 are Chinese (male) , XX are chinese (Female) and there are only 7 girls ...
  
  It's not easy ,mind you.
  
  I have no problem with my appearance and the natural "voice" sound.
  
  I suspect these 2 reasons :
  
  First: I tried acting "cute" to them by like having kee-na (children's) voice ..
  Just to be over friendly with them lar ..
  
  Secondly : Well , I suspect this relates to my appearance too ... I may have phychological (sp) problems .. I am confident in my "Weath" and family background . its like having 95% that no one will say that I am a poor fellow. But its just that I have pimples all over my face :X .. Though its only the cheeks .. And this somehow like makes me feel "lower" than others and not worthy to others .. I dunnoe how to relate this lar ...
  
  And hoor .. I am not like dun have self-confident .. I am confident in doing everything but thinking about appearance somehow makes me like not being good .. and I dunnoe lar .. will start walking weirdly BUT ITS not like shake butt those really chao ah gua lar ... its like "jelly" leg like that .. I dunno if because of the appearance that really link to my behaviour or what ..
  
  Anybody studying phycho can help me ??!! And its not like just appearance lar .. I have this "jelly" leg (which like makes me walk like gay but not shake butt -.-ll) whenever I am near a stranger (normally girls ) ..
  
  Well , I thiNK I have reveal all my problems ... do help thank !
• Demonight

  7 Jan 08, 18:29

  u should have smacked them...show them how 'un-gay' you are
• fused

  9 Jan 08, 11:14

  pimples does not matter with gays... infact, pimples make u manli-er...
  friendliness also doesnt matter, i'm friendly and no one calls me gay...
  try this, walk with chest out, back straight, legs firmly on the ground with more weight placed on them each time they com into contact with the ground(the ground wun collapse, no need to be butterfly feet) when talking, dun gesture too much, listen more den talk, act alittle aloof but not too much. ignore silly comments, show confidence but not too much or people will think u show-off. wait for your turn to talk, dun interrupt.
  mix around wif guys more den gals, be sterner to the kids, scold them if you need to... heck care about their feelings.
  when ur seniors call u gay, just stare at them and say: "hah, look whos talking!" or just ignore them and stare hard at their eyes... remember to show displeasure...
  
  p.s: vulgarities would help alot too... lol
  
  ciao, jia you on the trip to be a man
• justdoit77

  9 Jan 08, 17:22

  hi lala
  
  go and act like you chase that person's gf so they won't call you gay again.
  maybe next time he will say, don't be too man. lol