Would you forgive your wife if she cheated on you?

• OutOfIdeasHusband

  12 Jan 08, 22:22

  Originally posted by aremeis:

  A lot will depend on what actually made her to commit such a betrayal. In a r/s when 1 party falters the other is just equally responsible.
  
  Women by common needs affection, attention and TLC - since you (I assume) had failed in one of these areas then the question will be if you are able to rectify this fault of yours and if you could then whether she will be comfortable coming back to you.
  
  If this r/s fails then you really need to be wary if you will default again on your next gal. In any r/s there is never a true wrong and most of the time the other party is equally responsible.
  
  So I hope that you could come to terms with yourself first before considering and taking the next step. Just my 2 cents worth..

  So, if a husband goes around sleeping, then the wife is to be blamed for not giving him sex?
• dreamykite

  13 Jan 08, 09:44

  character difference. cannot condemn anyone lah.
  
  It is quite frustrating when u find your partner not in sync with yourself.
• dreamykite

  13 Jan 08, 10:34

  Originally posted by OutOfIdeasHusband:

  So, if a husband goes around sleeping, then the wife is to be blamed for not giving him sex?

  if the husband goes around sleeping means he got many choices and no lack of sexx partner outside, cannot blame the wife for not giving him sexx lah.
• angel7030

  13 Jan 08, 11:31

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  Is that an excuse or an reason?
  
  My call.. It's rubbish!

  Ah Ong,
  
  If u said it rubbish then so be it, but it happen, and alway do, some wifeys with lame or old husband tends to do something behind hubbies back, these aunties sometime even asked me got good young bf to recommend or not? They prefer natural good men who can love them, not giggolos that need to pay. But of course i deny lah, good looking one, me take already, where got give old auntie, siao.
• viciouskitty74

  14 Jan 08, 16:03

  Ts,
  
  go do your medical checks for STDs & other possible health problems. You are at a age where you are scepticle.
  
  Then you can decide how you want to continue a relationship with your wife.
  
  Infidelity is common, and there is some articles about that actually tells of stories of how it actually spiced up a marriage.
  
  If you are looking at that issue in a depressed manner, then you get a depressing you.
  
  If she had felt guilt, and still wants to be with you, then there is some saving grace that she will change and stay with you faithfully.
  
  Everyone makes mistake. It takes a wise person to forgive mistake and move on. Now hold on to the mistake and miss out the rest of the world which the mistake teaches us.
  
  Not one person is good all his/her life.