Break off?
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everytime my boyfriend and i have differences, he will always say break off. then after that then he 'regret' and want to be together again. i am very tired of this. yesterday he did the same thing again. i am very tired of this. instead of finding a way to resolve the problem, he is always bringing out more problems and say break up. i am so tired. i have decided that this is final. how to communicate my final intention to him?
i have to make this very clear to him because he is very particular and have a huge temper. if in his opinion, i am still his girlfriend then i go out with other guys and he finds out, it will be disastrous. how can i communicate this effectively with him? -
tell me your name doesnt starts with E.
Anyway, since you have decided on already. just tell in straight and make it clear that you are not fooling around. thats it. -
Just move on!
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how to tell him? what words should i use or say to convey this message?Originally posted by Pitot:tell me your name doesnt starts with E.
Anyway, since you have decided on already. just tell in straight and make it clear that you are not fooling around. thats it. -
Do you still love him? Cos if you do..this thread got no point already
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got 'gan qing' but i want to break off. there is alot at stake as he is a very distant relative and got a very bad temper, that is why i have to make it very clear to him.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Do you still love him? Cos if you do..this thread got no point already -
since u love him so much.. thrash things out with him
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talk to him nicely....Originally posted by tiredtired:got 'gan qing' but i want to break off. there is alot at stake as he is a very distant relative and got a very bad temper, that is why i have to make it very clear to him.
go out for a nice dinner with him... telling him in advance you need to discuss something impt together....
then just tell him how u feel... and no matter wad... don cry in frontof him..or feel sentimental or sad tat both of u r breaking up... u can go girls room later to do tat.... -
what do you think u shld say?Originally posted by tiredtired:how to tell him? what words should i use or say to convey this message?
Tell him how you feel. then make it a clean one. -
lol i was lidat in the past n my gf broke up wif me
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call the police if he makes a scene.
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leave him bah....i mean hes so childish? breakup liao still want to patch back.
once okay, twice sympathy , thrice taking advantage!!! -
wow sounds like my ex, he will say break off in anger.
Then cool down need 1 to 2 days then he tell me angry need a while to cool down is normal.
its really very hurting to say such harsh words. Even in anger also shouldnt say such words its unhealthy to a relationship. will cause mental breakdown.
Thats why it causes you to lose faith in this relationship already. -
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seriously, does ur name start with B? i have a fren who has the exact same problems as you....
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distant relative???
haha, u muz b crazy. -
this is so lame. the ans is so clear.
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Erm. Can you clarify something?
Break off what? relationship or the quarrel? -
my fren has this prob too.Originally posted by Hello Kitty:distant relative???
haha, u muz b crazy. -
when he say break off, find another one immediately and dump him lor.
then you can see if he is truly a man of his words or not. most likely he is not -
put up a show and make him jealous,then if he threaten u call police
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I think you should not let what's at stake muddle up with your decision. If this r/s is makin him have more outburst it will not look good for the both of you.
However, as you have not specified exactly what really cause him to have such a reaction to an outburst - sorry but I just cannot see and accept your going out with another guy as the sole reason for it. Perhaps it has something to do with your past and it is nagging him and / or he is uncomfortable with your date. Besides, why do you need to go out on a 1 - 1 with the other guy(s)?
Maybe you should think along these lines and have some answers for yourself.
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Be firm just tell him its the end and never look back.Originally posted by tiredtired:everytime my boyfriend and i have differences, he will always say break off. then after that then he 'regret' and want to be together again. i am very tired of this. yesterday he did the same thing again. i am very tired of this. instead of finding a way to resolve the problem, he is always bringing out more problems and say break up. i am so tired. i have decided that this is final. how to communicate my final intention to him?
i have to make this very clear to him because he is very particular and have a huge temper. if in his opinion, i am still his girlfriend then i go out with other guys and he finds out, it will be disastrous. how can i communicate this effectively with him?
Thats all! No need anything just be firm! -
that's not a real MAN man. askng for breakup all the time when problem arises. damned sissy way of settling stuff. just tell him it's over for good.
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Originally posted by tiredtired:everytime my boyfriend and i have differences, he will always say break off. then after that then he 'regret' and want to be together again. i am very tired of this. yesterday he did the same thing again. i am very tired of this. instead of finding a way to resolve the problem, he is always bringing out more problems and say break up. i am so tired. i have decided that this is final. how to communicate my final intention to him?
i have to make this very clear to him because he is very particular and have a huge temper. if in his opinion, i am still his girlfriend then i go out with other guys and he finds out, it will be disastrous. how can i communicate this effectively with him?
Only the immature and unenlightened behave and respond in such a manner.
If a relationship is only worth as much as a breakup in a quick temper - the problem lies in the person - not the Love itself.
Cheers