Originally posted by tiredtired:
everytime my boyfriend and i have differences, he will always say break off. then after that then he 'regret' and want to be together again. i am very tired of this. yesterday he did the same thing again. i am very tired of this. instead of finding a way to resolve the problem, he is always bringing out more problems and say break up. i am so tired. i have decided that this is final. how to communicate my final intention to him?
i have to make this very clear to him because he is very particular and have a huge temper. if in his opinion, i am still his girlfriend then i go out with other guys and he finds out, it will be disastrous. how can i communicate this effectively with him?
Break up then. Ladies seem to always know what they want to do already. They just need a person to affirm their thinking. So Break up.
BIG temper in him? so what? Tell him str in the face that you want a breakup, and any subsequent taunting or stalking by him will result in him being arrested because you will call the police. The Women's charter is not there in vain. Tell him if he does not mind being called up by police day in day out, then go ahead.
