Shld i let go even if i still love him?
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Aiya i just lucky guess... Cos even my friends who have nothing to do just Maple whole day along...
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Originally posted by wonderamazement:
Aiya i just lucky guess... Cos even my friends who have nothing to do just Maple whole day along...
really? well...i was hoping u know about it...:)
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Actually..now i have another problem....im trying to contact W for a break up but he seems to be ignoring me...shld i jus hack care and dun contact him anymore?? or shld i say it to him to make things clear???
T.T i duno y but i sort of cant cry over it anymore...but i still feel bitter inside....
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Sms and just hack it i said. Wat for call him .. He will feel shiok u know lol
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Sms and just hack it i said. Wat for call him .. He will feel shiok u know lol
i dun understand y he will feel shiok...but i rather tell him in the face....
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im trying to learn to move on...and live my life differently...
but life is really unfair...
coz im such an emotional person....i think it will take me months to get through...
and it alws irritates by friends that know im like tat....but i jus cant help it...
can anyone let me know how to focus on other things??
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Originally posted by W8:
i dun understand y he will feel shiok...but i rather tell him in the face....
Cos he feel wanted
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Originally posted by W8:
can anyone let me know how to focus on other things??
Is there any stuff that you are interested in? Besides relationships.
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but the friendster account shows C is 20 y/o....
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Originally posted by W8:
i dun understand y he will feel shiok...but i rather tell him in the face....
W8,
Seriously girl, you don't need to break up face to face.
The only reason you want to do so, is to see for yourself how he react. But seeing how he behaves will only confuse/hurt you more. So I suggest not to.
Just send him as email or message or voicemail about your decision to breakoff with him if he is still reluctant to response to your call. After sending the message, don't bother waiting for his reply.
The first step to setting yourself free, is to let yourself go.
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have you had sex with him? better dun do it
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He asked u to wait for him even though he has a gf?... I think he's using u as a sparetyre... It's like... if C and him don't last long, he'll go back to u. =S. Not worth it.
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cut off your ties with him, or it will cause you more hurt in the future.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
but the friendster account shows C is 20 y/o....
well..u jus didnt read everything from friendster did u??
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Originally posted by xavier1979:
Is there any stuff that you are interested in? Besides relationships.
i have my own hobbies of coz...but to me my love life is everything...well...im trying to change tat...so hope i can meet more friends to help me go through this..thanks for asking..:)
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
W8,
Seriously girl, you don't need to break up face to face.
The only reason you want to do so, is to see for yourself how he react. But seeing how he behaves will only confuse/hurt you more. So I suggest not to.
Just send him as email or message or voicemail about your decision to breakoff with him if he is still reluctant to response to your call. After sending the message, don't bother waiting for his reply.
The first step to setting yourself free, is to let yourself go.
well..ya...trying to give myself a chance also...coz most of the time...if meet face to face...ill make them feel guilty...not becoz i will cry in front of them...more like ill be tough in front of them...well...i think ill move on from there...
thanks..:)
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Originally posted by Jamie Zawinski:
have you had sex with him? better dun do it
tat is a sensitive question there...well...dun worry about it..im not tat stupid yet....
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Originally posted by thebunny:
He asked u to wait for him even though he has a gf?... I think he's using u as a sparetyre... It's like... if C and him don't last long, he'll go back to u. =S. Not worth it.
well...i alrdy know im a spare tyre but i still wan to wait...tats y im saying im dumb...dun u think so?
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Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:
cut off your ties with him, or it will cause you more hurt in the future.
cut off ties?? is tat really necessary?? hmm...actually...i prefer to still be friends even if we really break up...im still with friends with most of my ex though...so i dun think i will go tat far...
thanks for caring :)
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Originally posted by Lil Jerrie =P:
Look W8, get a grip on yourself, don't let this angst overtake you and turn you into someone ugly. Clearly you putting her contact info there is if im not wrong, a way of taking revenge, wanting members of the public to flame this girl..
What i feel now is that... there is no pt holding on to things. As you said "
can say coz im not close to my family..not close to friends...all except my bf...
" i can infer pretty much that you are the type who has become over reliant on yr boyfriend for that emotional support, that sense of self worth. Don't invest in him anymore, he is not worth it, break up with him and leave him, spend yr time and effort to grow yr friendships into something deeper and have more meaningful family time with yr family members.
This guy is not worth it because
1. Hes a coward
Its clear he broke up with u over that clara girl but he stills covers up his ass with a whole lot of bullshit excuses eg. family, studies
2. He is indecisve
Cannot decide what he wants, regret after making major decisions.... shows immaturity and if he really treasures the rs he won't be like this
3. Using you
He still hugs you and kiss you despite being with clara... doesn't this show he is using u to satisfy his personal lust?
DONT LET YRSELF BE HUMILIATED THIS WAY
4. INFEDIL
Though he is tgt with clara, he still does such intimate stuff with u... doesn't this show a lot abt his character
5. HE DOESN't LOVE YOU AND YOU DESERVE BETTER
if he loves you he would gladly give up clara (even as a friend) to salvage the relationship
So yea, SMARTEN UP AND LEAVE HIM, when you place more self worth and value on yrself, you would meet better men. DON"T LET YRSELF BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED.
Lastly, he is not yr property... don't interfere between he and clara anymore. With you being a such a stalker, he would want you less. RESPECT YOURSELF AND HIM. From her friendster, i can kind of infer shes a more mild form of a harlet...they won't last long. Your boyfriend is an adulterous faggot and he would eventually get his desserts.
And finally, as one of the wise person said above "
Seriously girl, you don't need to break up face to face. The only reason you want to do so, is to see for yourself how he react. But seeing how he behaves will only confuse/hurt you more. So I suggest not to."
I will always be here for you! I can't stand seeing guys bully girls or girls disrespect themselves. There is more to life than having a bf. You are in a relationship because you choose to not because you need. Its like the "im driving this car, i'd get off as and when i feel that im being disrespected"
Lots of love and god bless!
Jerrie =D
wow...girl u treat it like an exam paper...haha...reminds me of social studies...well...guess it really helps in life sometimes...and not jus to learn and gt gd grades ..:P
it is really wonderful for u to really read through everything girl..i really appreciate it..
hope u can help others too....:)
thanks alot~!
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I jus realise the post is change into AA...thanks administrators...:') im really grateful...
and i really thank all tat have posted here...no matter bad comments or gd comments...
at least u replied..:) some of my friends dun even bother reading it...
and ive alws been the one waiting for replies...it really hurts to wait for ppl u see...
so i really appreciate all the replies..:)
thanks so much~!!
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you are in a same situation as me...2timing and cant let go due to loving that person too much...but..tell yourself..whether can you accept your boyfriend going out wif this girl..behaving intimately...i know it's hard to go throught the stage of being alone and not having someone whom you love to be there for you again..but...once you get over...look! the world is still as beautiful...perhaps you still have a chance..but how long do you wish to wait...why not go for someone who will cherish you more...^^
IM me if you need to talk girl..
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if he is worth it...wait...if not...let go...although i'm a guy...but i had a ex who break with me for another guy...until now i still love her...ok its very sad and heartbroken...no matter what happy or unhappy you have to move on...why not move on happily? why let yourself sad over this guy...but i know your situation...yeah is hard to let go...hope he will back to your side if there's any chances (: