A very lonely life
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Originally posted by Hextar:
Dear TS, i can kind of understand how you feel. I'm also an introvert with a small circle of friends. I lead a lonely life and i find it hard to communicate with strangers.
When i do things alone, i hate it because i feel very lonely. Whenever i look at others life, i envy them..
Its not that we do not want to interact with others, but i find myself always find myself always thinking of others negatively, thus unable to bring myself to trust others. Also my previous experience and childhood cause me to be like this i guess.
However, we should keep trying hard because we only had 1 life. Its short so we should cherish it. Good luck. If u wanna talk u can pm me.
Hello Hextar,
i can somehow relate to what u have said.
In psychology, belief holds the key in how we view things and live out our life. Some of the belief are moulded by our past experience, some which are bad experience that has a negative effect on our current lifestyle. However the unhealthy belief can be changed by what we can do now.
take heart too.
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darn...
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wah angel,
u sure u can make guy kneel infront of you ?
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Let me ask you a question, does thinking about your past childhood bad experience makes u feel better? If your answer is No, y continued to bother it, since u already said is past. Y did u say that pple do not like the way you talk? Have u questioned yourself how to make yourself well-liked? How can you improve in yourself? I think you just need more confident in yourself and stop letting your past childhood affects you in a bad way cause you will not help you in your life.
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woo
nice 1 haha and ts just look on the bight side ba :D cheers for u -
opppps bright *
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I think you are aware of your short comings and I think that is the 1st step towards being successful with relationship.
I think a lot of times people are simply ignorant about their own short comings and flaws - insisting that they are what they are without realizing that they need to be sensitive to what turn offs might be to others as much as to us.
Try and improve yourself. Be positive and read up widely. Catch up with some self improvement books, you may try some of the Dale Carnegie titles for a start. I am sure you have your turn offs which you might not like your future partner to have , so just be mindful that the other party will have them too. Don't try to be another serial drama character, they are just entainment fiction and could not be what you are.
Try not to rush and start off on the right footing.