为何命运总是作弄人?

• T.Ryousuke

  15 Feb 08, 08:13

  算了�... �怎么埋怨, 命�也�回改�的....

  
  1st is life -can't change, 2nd is Luck- It will change, depand 1, 5 or 10 yrs range.
• Tier

  15 Feb 08, 10:24

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

   

   

  无奈.. 看到别人幸�时, ��感�自己的幸�渺茫。

  
  this is what I am feeling also.. haha

  but dun worry we never know when we will bump into happiness.

  be happy, being happy yourself then with all the positive energy around you, it will like a magnet that attract happiness to come to you! V

• Uncertain

  15 Feb 08, 17:47

  BBB statement is only applicable to people who have someone out there loving them. For me, i am not in that calibre but i think loving someone who loved u deeply is much better cos love is reciprocated here.

• *Lord Kang*

  16 Feb 08, 15:49

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• Yunhaier

  17 Feb 08, 15:12

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i know what u are driving at.

   

  i remember our conversation. 

   

  like wat u said, there's a blockage.. duno when then i can evolve and be conditioned..

   

  Really appreciate all the replies here..

   

  I know certain things really have to 慢慢�..

   

  无奈.. 看到别人幸�时, ��感�自己的幸�渺茫。

   

   

   Actually it depends on how determined you are to change your own 'fate'. Either one decide upon calculated wait or you got to initiate a change to an existing chess piece that needs adjustment badly. Most people resigned to themselves without much of a fight and get subjected to all sort of environmental influences that they picked up unconsciously and adopt into their self belief. Eventually, these new assimilated information get entangled into their mindset and they form a distinctive negative outlook and definition towards Love & Relationship. 

   Such negativity actually promotes the notion of 'I-am-like-that-so-I-will-be-like-that' - which, imho, does little good to one's attitude, even to his/her life as a whole.

   A relationship does not mark an end of a journey, but a beginning of a new experience, riding on a continuous growing process that began way back even before the person is attached. One does not learn about Love only when he/she is attached - rather, a relationship spring forth a series of test that seeks to assess your understanding of self love and individual evolution. If such training doesn't exist during your singlehood, then the price you pay for learning certain cosmic lessons will double during BGR and cost will triple (or more) if you are married.

   Take your time to recover, but you must simultaneously seek to liberate this psychological bondage you have cramp yourself into. Adopt what's beneficial to you and remove those that only work to hinder your advancement. Only then you can see results in every aspects of your life.

   Cheers 

   

• browniebaobao

  17 Feb 08, 15:33

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

   

   Actually it depends on how determined you are to change your own 'fate'. Either one decide upon calculated wait or you got to initiate a change to an existing chess piece that needs adjustment badly. Most people resigned to themselves without much of a fight and get subjected to all sort of environmental influences that they picked up unconsciously and adopt into their self belief. Eventually, these new assimilated information get entangled into their mindset and they form a distinctive negative outlook and definition towards Love & Relationship. 

   Such negativity actually promotes the notion of 'I-am-like-that-so-I-will-be-like-that' - which, imho, does little good to one's attitude, even to his/her life as a whole.

   A relationship does not mark an end of a journey, but a beginning of a new experience, riding on a continuous growing process that began way back even before the person is attached. One does not learn about Love only when he/she is attached - rather, a relationship spring forth a series of test that seeks to assess your understanding of self love and individual evolution. If such training doesn't exist during your singlehood, then the price you pay for learning certain cosmic lessons will double during BGR and cost will triple (or more) if you are married.

   Take your time to recover, but you must simultaneously seek to liberate this psychological bondage you have cramp yourself into. Adopt what's beneficial to you and remove those that only work to hinder your advancement. Only then you can see results in every aspects of your life.

   Cheers 

   

  

   

  我真的好累..

• *Lord Kang*

  18 Feb 08, 09:01

  agree with browniebaobao..it can really get very tiring when u see all the effort you put in is not getting anywhere..

• Genie99a

  19 Feb 08, 06:50

  Hi TS,

   

  Its a very warm feeling to be in love, however i feel that it should take 2nd place to your well being.

   

  What do i mean?

   

  Live life for yourself..... create a lifestyle that you enjoy.... and there's no need to go out of your way for love  

   

  Regards

   

  Genie99

• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Feb 08, 09:25

  我的心情。。。

  难�我在你眼里�是个。。大哥�？

  �想懂得
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  如果我能选，我�愿从�认识你。

   

• Darkness_hacker99

  19 Feb 08, 09:29

  Originally posted by Genie99a:

  Hi TS,

   

  Its a very warm feeling to be in love, however i feel that it should take 2nd place to your well being.

   

  What do i mean?

   

  Live life for yourself..... create a lifestyle that you enjoy.... and there's no need to go out of your way for love  

   

  Regards

   

  Genie99

  Different people have different perspective, views, opinion on Love.

  Type 1:
  Some will feel the same like you. Love yourself more than others; Love - 2nd place

  Type 2:
  While for others it's another way round loving others MORE than yourself; Loving others whole heartedly 100% - 1st place.

• Genie99a

  19 Feb 08, 10:30

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Different people have different perspective, views, opinion on Love.

  Type 1:
  Some will feel the same like you. Love yourself more than others; Love - 2nd place

  Type 2:
  While for others it's another way round loving others MORE than yourself; Loving others whole heartedly 100% - 1st place.

  
  Whatever the perspectives are.... you have to love yourself first

   

   

• Isis

  19 Feb 08, 23:36

  Today, i darn suay.. car broke down and can't get my works done properly due to external factors despite i have also tried to recitfy the problem.. So occasionally i have not such a smooth day and i will get impatient and frustrated with myself...... " Why things don't go my way? Why like this and why like that ? Why fate is mocking me ? " in there similar context bbb is having...

  But the fact is life does not always goes the way you want.....

  it just too bad. but not that bad

  Either bend with the will of fate/Adjust or break.

  And wait for the right one to come along or the right time to act.

   

   

   

• Yunhaier

  19 Feb 08, 23:46

  Originally posted by Isis:

  Today, i darn suay.. car broke down and can't get my works done properly due to external factors despite i have also tried to recitfy the problem.. So occasionally i have not such a smooth day and i will get impatient and frustrated with myself...... " Why things don't go my way? Why like this and why like that ? Why fate is mocking me ? " in there similar context bbb is having...

  But the fact is life does not always goes the way you want.....

  it just too bad. but not that bad

  Either bend with the will of fate/Adjust or break.

  And wait for the right one to come along or the right time to act.

   

   

   

   

  

  Cheers

• Isis

  20 Feb 08, 00:03

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

   

   Actually it depends on how determined you are to change your own 'fate'. Either one decide upon calculated wait or you got to initiate a change to an existing chess piece that needs adjustment badly. Most people resigned to themselves without much of a fight and get subjected to all sort of environmental influences that they picked up unconsciously and adopt into their self belief. Eventually, these new assimilated information get entangled into their mindset and they form a distinctive negative outlook and definition towards Love & Relationship. 

   Such negativity actually promotes the notion of 'I-am-like-that-so-I-will-be-like-that' - which, imho, does little good to one's attitude, even to his/her life as a whole.

   A relationship does not mark an end of a journey, but a beginning of a new experience, riding on a continuous growing process that began way back even before the person is attached. One does not learn about Love only when he/she is attached - rather, a relationship spring forth a series of test that seeks to assess your understanding of self love and individual evolution. If such training doesn't exist during your singlehood, then the price you pay for learning certain cosmic lessons will double during BGR and cost will triple (or more) if you are married.

   Take your time to recover, but you must simultaneously seek to liberate this psychological bondage you have cramp yourself into. Adopt what's beneficial to you and remove those that only work to hinder your advancement. Only then you can see results in every aspects of your life.

   Cheers 

   

   

  It kind of true..

  Most people learn most through previous failure in a r/s... if only they are opened to the lessons taught to them.

   As hard as it may be hard to swallow at times, failure opens the blinds to the real world, and reawakens the clarity of vision known only to those who have risked, and tasted disappointment. In a sense, there is no such thing as failure. There is only sweet and sour reality, and more is learned from the sour, often times, than from the sweet.

  And the thing that we can take in comfort is by learning lessons from failure, we are moving a step up the ladder to a more conducive relationship and towards a more evolved self-fufilling self.. finding wisdom and happiness.

• browniebaobao

  20 Feb 08, 00:36

  Originally posted by Isis:

   

  It kind of true..

  Most people learn most through previous failure in a r/s... if only they are opened to the lessons taught to them.

   As hard as it may be hard to swallow at times, failure opens the blinds to the real world, and reawakens the clarity of vision known only to those who have risked, and tasted disappointment. In a sense, there is no such thing as failure. There is only sweet and sour reality, and more is learned from the sour, often times, than from the sweet.

  And the thing that we can take in comfort is by learning lessons from failure, we are moving a step up the ladder to a more conducive relationship and towards a more evolved self-fufilling self.. finding wisdom and happiness.

  
  U really talk like Yun mei mei.

   

• Isis

  20 Feb 08, 00:41

  ERM really ?

  Her english is way powerful than me

   

• Darkness_hacker99

  20 Feb 08, 10:17

  Originally posted by Genie99a:

  
  Whatever the perspectives are.... you have to love yourself first

   

   

  That's the difference between you and me.

• rafTiger

  21 Feb 08, 23:58

  this song can't be more true... forget about mutual and exclusive r/s ==> 

   

  the harsh reality is: more often than not, ppl you like don't like you, ppl you have no feelings for cling on to you instead

• Yunhaier

  22 Feb 08, 00:18

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  U really talk like Yun mei mei.

   

  
  Kanna brainwash by me mah.

   

  Cheers

• Yunhaier

  22 Feb 08, 00:22

  Originally posted by Isis:

  ERM really ?

  Her english is way powerful than me

   

  
   æˆ‘也å�¯ä»¥è®²ä¸­æ–‡ ok?

   

  哈哈哈哈

   

  扯� (Cheers)

• Darkness_hacker99

  22 Feb 08, 15:48

  Originally posted by rafTiger:

  this song can't be more true... forget about mutual and exclusive r/s ==> 

   

  the harsh reality is: more often than not, ppl you like don't like you, ppl you have no feelings for cling on to you instead

  Which song?

• FBI

  22 Feb 08, 15:50

  its always like that one.. the one u like most of the times don like u and the one u dun like will keep pestering u.

   

  so wat to do?

• angelfairy

  22 Feb 08, 17:57

  Originally posted by Isis:

   

  It kind of true..

  Most people learn most through previous failure in a r/s... if only they are opened to the lessons taught to them.

   As hard as it may be hard to swallow at times, failure opens the blinds to the real world, and reawakens the clarity of vision known only to those who have risked, and tasted disappointment. In a sense, there is no such thing as failure. There is only sweet and sour reality, and more is learned from the sour, often times, than from the sweet.

  And the thing that we can take in comfort is by learning lessons from failure, we are moving a step up the ladder to a more conducive relationship and towards a more evolved self-fufilling self.. finding wisdom and happiness.

  i wonder why does this sound v familiar

• browniebaobao

  23 Feb 08, 01:25

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  
  Kanna brainwash by me mah.

   

  Cheers

   

  nvm, dun talk as loud as u can liao. hahahaha.

• browniebaobao

  23 Feb 08, 01:26

  tonight i celebrate my love for you~~~~~~