once and for all

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 14:35

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  via msn

  
  Gal, you gotta start learning not to believe just everything a guy says.  You gotta observe yourself. 

  And if you really like the guy, dont just confess like that.  Observe if he really likes you.  If there are chances, just drop a hint or two and observe further.  If a guy likes you, you will know.  Or to play safer, just drop hints at your end and wait for him to take the initiative.  That will reduce your chances of being rejected.

• Combatus

  10 Mar 08, 14:43

  erh...wat did u confess to...?????

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 14:56

  Originally posted by Combatus:

  erh...wat did u confess to...?????

  
  Confessed to the guys that she likes them

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 15:26

  how to drop hints?

   

  can someone shows some example?

• rainee

  10 Mar 08, 15:54

  have you met those guys before they confessed to you over the MSN that they like you? Or after they told you they liked you then you go and meet them?

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 15:54

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  how to drop hints?

   

  can someone shows some example?

  Like flirt a little with him, drop a little praises here and there, makes him feel good.  Make good eye contact ('fang dian'), body gesture when chatting with him (tap or hold his arm gentlely and briefly at the right moment when chatting with him) and etc....  get it? 

  By 'hinting' to him that you might like him, you encourage him to confess to you should he like you. 

• Midlusionz

  10 Mar 08, 17:07

  Do it like fishing or flying a kite.. Pull and let go abit

• xavier1979

  10 Mar 08, 17:14

  1. They have no feelings for you.

  2. They are not ready to get into a relationship.

  3. They think they deserve someone better.

• 4794

  10 Mar 08, 18:56

  what is yours will be yours

• julietta

  10 Mar 08, 19:10

  jus like wat i say in ur previous thread.did u met them in real life or they only woo u at online nia.mayb wat they perceive abt u in online is different from real life. I guess is u met them le then they reject u cos mayb u fall inside their catergory of 'not so interested'.online can b very deceivin one.i dun ask pple to b my gf or accept any request to b their bf when i nv met them b4.
• Darkness_hacker99

  10 Mar 08, 19:49

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  I ve been rejected twice

   

  Im sick of rejection and I want to know all the reasons why would a guy reject a girl after her confession

  In this way, i dont have to spend time and tears figuring why i am rejected and could use the possible reasons for self-improvement

  Yes. I hate it when I got rejected and didn't know the reason why. It's like giving a death sentence without explaning why.
  
  Some times when (s)he didn't say the reason, it's because they don't want to hurt you deeper.

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 20:50

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Yes. I hate it when I got rejected and didn't know the reason why. It's like giving a death sentence without explaning why.
  
  Some times when (s)he didn't say the reason, it's because they don't want to hurt you deeper.

  
  I'm sure if you reflect hard enough, you probably know the answer.  And seriously, what reason do you need?  Isnt the reason that she/he doesnt like you enough to reject you?  What more reason do people need?

   

  You dont need a reason to fall for someone, neither do you need a reason not to love someone.

• sebosebo

  10 Mar 08, 21:05

  i dont knw this if wud help, but im a guy whos in my late teens.

  personally, i feel tht theres 2 ways to get the girl i like. either id be sincere and lay it out on the table and confess my feelings, or id be abit despicable and play the game, make myself so attractive to her till theres no way for her to resist when i ask her to be my girl.

  if i get rejected, id kick my own a** and move on. grumble over it a little, but not so much till you become totally unattractive to all the potential mates that come after that. be positive and you'd get rewarded with the most positive relationship. :D

• Isis

  10 Mar 08, 21:37

  Hey there is absolutely nothing wrong with you 

  Most of the people in the world kenna rejection before.

  So it is beri normal de loh.

   

   

   

• magical_wen

  10 Mar 08, 21:54

  make sure u confirm she will accept first,

  before u ask.

  its will save ur face :)

• skeujin

  10 Mar 08, 21:58

  rejected twice cannot be summarised as being rejected all your life.

  you have along way ahead of you. take each day as it comes

• henshin

  10 Mar 08, 21:59

  I had the same problem like you, but I got more times. 5 times, the first one took 4 years and the second one took 1 year, the rest took months.

• wonderamazement

  10 Mar 08, 22:16

  Try harder then...

• rainhawk87

  11 Mar 08, 00:09

  lol 1 phrase to describle "in a same boat"

• caleb_chiang

  11 Mar 08, 00:11

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  I ve been rejected twice

   

  Im sick of rejection and I want to know all the reasons why would a guy reject a girl after her confession

  In this way, i dont have to spend time and tears figuring why i am rejected and could use the possible reasons for self-improvement

  
  Try looking into the mirror...

• aremeis

  11 Mar 08, 01:05

  Rejected twice and you are paniking!!?? I think you should go easy on yourself for a while. Just relax and be yourself. You are still young and you should not forget that such things needs and takes time.

• Cool-gal

  11 Mar 08, 01:08

  or maybe u confessed abit too late?

  tat feeling fade..

• digicharat

  11 Mar 08, 04:19

  i bet you are not pretty.

  arbo guys wont reject you.

• Ed11790

  11 Mar 08, 05:22

  sometime u cant just walk up to a person and confess..........people could think that u are desperate fore them or something.............u have to wait calmly for someone to come to u
• Uncertain

  11 Mar 08, 08:49

  lol i got reject 5 times consecutively leh.. how ar? I must be fugly and fat meh?

  TS, just improve urself first. Getting a bf now, won't last lol... but if got chance go ahead but dun go anywhere further than hug hug can liao.