Confused about love
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I am so confused. It is a very long story, I like this guy and he has been my classmate since primary school. He offered to walk me home today as we both study in Woodlands and we both live at Yishun. I already had a big crush on him since primary four just that when I told him he always rejected me. But it was really different today. I knew I had to muster up the courage to tell him again that I liked him and asked him to give me a chance. Instead of the usual rejecting by acting blur, he said, "I really like you but I have a phobia of something." Then I was already really sad because I am getting rejected again. I asked him what he said he doesn't know too! I really like him and I really wish we could be together, our friends said that we are very compatible to. I really need and like him and that like has already blossomed into a love. How can I pursue his heart?
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he's afraid of commitments maybe
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this thread should be posted in here instead..
but since you're new, you're forgiven..
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simi luv?? study 1st
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I know that I have to study but, its hard to explain.....
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tat's why u confused
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you both should sit down & have a chat..
ask him what is his phobia 1st..
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hmm.. study first lo, then communicate then resolve
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We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
I am so confused. It is a very long story, I like this guy and he has been my classmate since primary school. He offered to walk me home today as we both study in Woodlands and we both live at Yishun. I already had a big crush on him since primary four just that when I told him he always rejected me. But it was really different today. I knew I had to muster up the courage to tell him again that I liked him and asked him to give me a chance. Instead of the usual rejecting by acting blur, he said, "I really like you but I have a phobia of something." Then I was already really sad because I am getting rejected again. I asked him what he said he doesn't know too! I really like him and I really wish we could be together, our friends said that we are very compatible to. I really need and like him and that like has already blossomed into a love. How can I pursue his heart?
seems short to me as compared to other longer ones.. how old are you?
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.
then wait till you graduate lo
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
We did, he said he doesn't know. I could manage my time between love and studies, that's why my dad never really worried about me getting a boyfriend and all.
well, no offence here but most pple will say that they could manage thier time between studies & r/s but seriously, I still think you should put your focus on your studies 1st then talk about r/s at a later stage..
If he's willing to wait then I'm sure after your studies, he'll still be there waiting for you no matter what..
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I am in sec 1....
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
I am in sec 1....
so young! pls wait lo.
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
I am in sec 1....
sec 1.. you like him now but he won't be with you yet... tell you what, he'll come to you soon.. when he starts to think about having a girlfriend..
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hmm.. just study first hor.
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Originally posted by Sheungjoysam:
I am in sec 1....
all the more you should concentrate on your studies 1st..
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so poor thing... i take u ba!
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sec 1 is like that one.. puppy love.. don't be blinded by your liking for him ah.. next time he come back must see if he is genuine or not.. well how to explain to you.. some guys take a girl who liked him before as always have feelings for him even though it's already over on the girl's part.
and he might become persistant..
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Originally posted by extra one:
so poor thing… i take u ba!
don't try anything funny..
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when i was sec1, i didnt have these "problems", just lugging all my textbooks to school and back
anyway learn to move on. this girl i had a major crush on basically rejected me, but we're friends now. those feelings dont run that deep anyway
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
when i was sec1, i didnt have these "problems", just lugging all my textbooks to school and back
anyway learn to move on. this girl i had a major crush on basically rejected me, but we're friends now. those feelings dont run that deep anyway
at least you're still friends, unlike some who will ignore you totally or treat one like enemies..
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
when i was sec1, i didnt have these "problems", just lugging all my textbooks to school and back
anyway learn to move on. this girl i had a major crush on basically rejected me, but we're friends now. those feelings dont run that deep anyway
it depends la, when I was sec 1, a girl classmate was very friendly with me. I sort of mistake her friendliness as liking, so I sort of secretly liked her. until I know I'm just not her type. :)
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Originally posted by cuddles:
it depends la, when I was sec 1, a girl classmate was very friendly with me. I sort of mistake her friendliness as liking, so I sort of secretly liked her. until I know I'm just not her type. :)
be friendly with you can le ar?
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Wait. not till you are older. But wait till he's ready to commit.. wait till he knows what he is afraid of. let him clarify his thoughts.
BUT, if you find another, den go with him.. good for you.. but bad for us. coz we will have a new guy forummer coming in to AA saying he kena put aeroplane..