Originally posted by newcomer:y u don't just reply her sms, " +1"?
ROFL!!!!
being at the wrong place at the wrong time sucks big time...
you have been put under the test by our holy GOD !
Originally posted by Hanagata:
ROFL!!!!
HANA!!!!!111
Originally posted by SquarePants:you have been put under the test by our holy GOD !
AYE AYE CAPTAIN!!!!111
i thought you're attached trix ?
i wonder if this is true o.0
Give your ex classmate a firm pat on the back and the both of you should say bye bye to the girl.
in such situation, i can only give you one piece of advice:
Chicks before bros.
:)
ahmitoufo ... I grant u a slap for ur soul to return !!! ..
She's gonna using you.
Thanks for all the replies.
I realized there isn't too much
of solutions to this problem, like almost all the replies suggested,
its either throwing the girl or the guy, or throwing both.
But
time is one of the best solution imo. Everything seemed to have calmed
at this moment and the thing now is to just 'take one step, look one
step'.
Originally posted by Karma88:i wonder if this is true o.0
I myself too found the whole incident over dramatic, but unfortunately it is true. Can assure you will my small bit of credability over here.
Originally posted by kiseki:i thought you're attached trix ?
Erm my three year relationship came to standstill about half a year ago.
Thanks guys. ![]()
Originally posted by TrixCereals:I've decided to edit the story such that it is more brief and summarises the whole thing.
A month ago, a girl who asked for my number told me she was very interested in me but i sort of replied that i really wasn't. After a week of constant smsing, we lost contact and have not seen each other till..
A week ago, i met the girl again, but with a guy who coincidentally was my ex-classmate. I came to know that they were in a fresh relationship.
I chatted with my ex-classmate for a quick moment before taking my leave due to the awkward and bizzare atmosphere.And few hours later, i became the reason they broke up. The girl said in an sms to me, 'If i didn't see the person i liked today, i might have forgotten about him alr'. And actually the girl had already told the guy she had somebody in mind, but they worked it out and decided to try out the relationship.
So, allthough i knew it was not my fault, i couldn't help thinking that it is my fault, for appearing in the wrong place at the wrong time. I feel guilty towards my ex-classmate. And i am sure, this incident will still affect the friendship between me and my friend in the future. I have already tried to explain to him, but he still seems to still bear a grudge against me.
I was asking on advice on what can i or should i do.
Thanks guys for the advice given, it was helpful and made me think.
Cut off all communications immediately between you, the girl and your friend. This spells the beginning of a very dangerous situation that the girl has gotten you into.
Best way is to pull yourself out of her entrapment and forget about the two of them, and I really meant forget about the two of them. Knock yourself stupid if you have to!!!
The reason?
1) You do not and must not hinder or be the 3rd party in another person's relationship or destiny.
2) You should stay away from unfaithful girl or women, cos they can betray others for you, they can betray you for others.
3) You should avoid mixing with false friends, friends who misunderstood you easily is because you were never considered as a friend to he/she.
Remember, completely cut off all communications with this couple and you will save yourself alot of unwanted trouble and misery and leave all this conspiracy to the couple. Once you have taken your leave, the remaining conspiracies will conspires against the couple and you will see the truth of all this.
You must practice the ultimate skills of 乾�大挪移 ! and you will always be fine.