If loving means leaving, I will
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Originally posted by FirePig:
Hmmm interesting. Any gals want to comment on the sentence?Hmmm~Well, Im a gal & it comes from me. Issit enuf??
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Time to learn how to move on , dude. but u can still wait for her though, i have a fren who attached back with his ex after 4 years , dude. Nothing is impossible. If u wanna wait, then its all up to u. But u need to bear the torture lor.. and prepared if she already find a guy.
But honestly, to me, when a gal said she doesnt love u anymore, thats it. It shows how terrible u had been previously and u didnt give more to be understanding till its too late. Theres no one to blame but u. If u somehow be together with her again, there's already a scar inside her. No matter how many times u swear that u changed, the scar is still there. So, i would normally just move on and changed for a better person and be better bf for my future gf. To me, i see no point torturing myself when i can still see other more important roads for me to drive rather than just wait at a place hoping for the best when u hardly know whether it will be the best or worst. Life is too short, remember that. Dont waste it hoping things to get better when it doesnt. Nothing will changed if u do nothing now. Life is never meant for anyone to wait for some miracles to happen.
Be positive and learn this experience to make a better u.
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Hi Zarks,
thx for the encouragement, 4 years is a long time but it`s a happy ending,
i`m not doing nothing while waiting for her to come back..
i`m finding a job, upgrading myself so that when she comes back, i`ll be ready.. i`m not doing anything more to show my desperation for her love, if she wants to come back, she will...
i`m not torturing myself, i`m just giving the r/s another chance...
i agree that the scar will be there even if she comes back,
but it`ll not be for her to remind me of my bad,
but to consistantly remind me that i need to be even better than b4 to be worth her love..
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
Hmmm~Well, Im a gal & it comes from me. Issit enuf??
just a side note thou,my gf said she didnt want a rose on v day too..
but look what happened....
i ended up giving her a brilliant rose....
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Well, It would be clearer if you tell us what wrong you have done her. Did you whack her or ban seh her or u went flirting around?
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the bad things i did to her were too numoerous...many to be accounted..
but i`ve learnt my mistakes.. and they`ll nv happen again..
one thing to note is that there was not any third party involved..
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why are there so many breakups.
felt so miserable after reading so many of this..
i feel for those who had lost their love. really do
its damn ouch n painful.
it'll be quite a long, painful n lonely healing process.
but if u have friends, get them out. talk, laugh n pass time.
i've cooping myself in my room.
going crazy soon. damn hurt.
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dunno why...
already made a pact not to go and find her,
but still ended up at her doorstep ytd.. didnt get to see her, but left her a small gift there..
hope she feels better already
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
dunno why...
already made a past not to go and find her,
but still ended up at her doorstep ytd.. didnt get to see her, but left her a small gift there..
hope she feels better already
omg, you so sweet
if only my dotter got bf like you
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i know i gotta stop thinking of her now...
i cant call her...
i`m missing her so terribly now,
i`m really lost for actions, words, whatever...
the world just feels like it`s tumbling down and killing me with poison.. just read through our old emails and letters, we were just so sweet... this thinking of her really makes my day hard to pass by..
will i ever get a chance to see her smile ever again?
only heaven knows..
Til then, i`m here, waiting with a heart in million pieces
waiting for her to save me..
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
i know i gotta stop thinking of her now...
i cant call her...
i`m missing her so terribly now,
i`m really lost for actions, words, whatever...
the world just feels like it`s tumbling down and killing me with poison.. just read through our old emails and letters, we were just so sweet... this thinking of her really makes my day hard to pass by..
will i ever get a chance to see her smile ever again?
only heaven knows..
Til then, i`m here, waiting with a heart in million pieces
waiting for her to save me..
BaByBoY
just move on & find another better ger lol
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u might call me stubborn or stupid, or whatever u all wanna call me,
but after all that we`ve been throu,
i really wanted to spend the rest of my life w her
had i treated this r/s lightly, i would had moved on...
just hope that one day, we`ll realise that life gives a second chance and that people do change for love. and we`ll be happy together.
for her, i had given my everything
i`ll continue to give her my everything, including freedom
if she decides not to come back, i`ll just be a bystander observing and caring for her afar,
but i`ll be waiting still
BaByBoY
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yeah.. get going dude!
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
u might call me stubborn or stupid, or whatever u all wanna call me,
but after all that we`ve been throu,
i really wanted to spend the rest of my life w her
had i treated this r/s lightly, i would had moved on...
just hope that one day, we`ll realise that life gives a second chance and that people do change for love. and we`ll be happy together.
for her, i had given my everything
i`ll continue to give her my everything, including freedom
if she decides not to come back, i`ll just be a bystander observing and caring for her afar,
but i`ll be waiting still
BaByBoY
you sound just like a friend of mine back in secondary school.
please don't be so hopeful and dreamy. A man face the facts and reality and make changes to his life. Wallowing in such emotions is a waste of time. not to say can't feel sad or what, but since you know you're the one who done many wrong, you have no right to ask for her return.
Set yourself free. if she will come back, she will. But then again, you have no right to expect her return since you done wrong.
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
u might call me stubborn or stupid, or whatever u all wanna call me,
but after all that we`ve been throu,
i really wanted to spend the rest of my life w her
had i treated this r/s lightly, i would had moved on...
just hope that one day, we`ll realise that life gives a second chance and that people do change for love. and we`ll be happy together.
for her, i had given my everything
i`ll continue to give her my everything, including freedom
if she decides not to come back, i`ll just be a bystander observing and caring for her afar,
but i`ll be waiting still
BaByBoY
I myself waited for 3 years and when both of us decided to try it out one more time.. All things have changed.. I hope that dun happen to u.. I dun like disappointment.. So i decided to let it go and move on.. But dude personally i suggest u move on..
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oh just in case, if you're just trying to portray as a love devoted man who's oh-so-sweet and waiting for his love, forget it. it's not working.
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Originally posted by cuddles:
you sound just like a friend of mine back in secondary school.
please don't be so hopeful and dreamy. A man face the facts and reality and make changes to his life. Wallowing in such emotions is a waste of time. not to say can't feel sad or what, but since you know you're the one who done many wrong, you have no right to ask for her return.
Set yourself free. if she will come back, she will. But then again, you have no right to expect her return since you done wrong.
Hope is the only thing that keeps me alive now,
I know i`ve no right to ask her to come back now,
for the wrongs that i do..
I just hope she`ll forgive me, and start things afresh..
thou i had done wrong, i realised my faults and i`m really remorse over it. i had learnt my mistakes, i`ll change back to my original self.
i`m just preparing myself, in case she comes back, i`ll be a better man.
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
I myself waited for 3 years and when both of us decided to try it out one more time.. All things have changed.. I hope that dun happen to u.. I dun like disappointment.. So i decided to let it go and move on.. But dude personally i suggest u move on..
It`s ok,i`ll just be a cushion just in case she needs me, i`ll be there for her. i know it`s just crazy, but that`s the least i could do for her now.. Move on? i`ll try, but tink will be hard. i know it sounds fake, but my love for her is becoming my life now.. loving her akins to breathing.. wo it, i cant survive. i know she still cares, i know she still loves, but for whatever reasons she have to leave me, i`ll still be here for her.. i`m a willing party..
my only agony now is the pain from missing her..
waiting for her is willingness on my part..
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by cuddles:
oh just in case, if you're just trying to portray as a love devoted man who's oh-so-sweet and waiting for his love, forget it. it's not working.
what is there to portray??i`m not trying to prove my love for her to anyone?
why would i even care how others think of me?
i love her and i love her..
other ppl need not know why nor agree w me..
i hope u understand,
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
what is there to portray??i`m not trying to prove my love for her to anyone?
why would i even care how others think of me?
i love her and i love her..
other ppl need not know why nor agree w me..
i hope u understand,
BaByBoY
point taken. advices plenty by everyone. I think can stop the emphasis on love." i know it sounds fake, but my love for her is becoming my life now.. loving her akins to breathing.. wo it, i cant survive." like these kind of description, no need.
two conclusions from all
1. wait all you want. end topic
2. move on with your own live. end topic
since you've apparently chosen to wait for her. good for you. take good care.
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love always selfish ,u must fight for it
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Yes i will,
thx for your encouragement,
meanwhile i`ve been looking for a job..
hopefully i`ll be ready when she comes back to me..
for a very long time, i finally felt some relief..
i`m gonna work soon..
hopes that tmr will be better..
thou i miss her so much now, it`s the closest i can get to her now..
and i`m contented to know that i love her and miss her..
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by cuddles:
you sound just like a friend of mine back in secondary school.
please don't be so hopeful and dreamy. A man face the facts and reality and make changes to his life. Wallowing in such emotions is a waste of time. not to say can't feel sad or what, but since you know you're the one who done many wrong, you have no right to ask for her return.
Set yourself free. if she will come back, she will. But then again, you have no right to expect her return since you done wrong.
i dun think he was wrong.at least, im standing by him. BBB do not want to reveal wat actually happened.. so stop saying he's wrong etc, tho he dun mind carrying all the blame.
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SInce TS has decided to look at her from afar.. My blessing to u TS, hope things get better for u.
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yet another day without her,
non of our common frens are online,
guess they must have had some event and left me out altogether..
it`s ok, i can bear w the pain, as long as she`s happy, i`ll be contented..
yet again another sleepless night and another day without appetite..
when will the day ever come?
perhaps only heaven knows...
BaByBoY