If loving means leaving, I will
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You don't have a choice to choose the facts in life...
But you have a choice to choose how you wanna life your life, how you gonna be happy in your life...
You have a choice to make options, how are you gonna make yourself happy...Don't just stay on one option, love...
There are other things out there that will make a person happy...Although, nomally effort will lead to result, but this is not all the time...
It is just a fact in life, people must face...When you watch time goes by,
it really just go by... without waiting for you...
You don't have all the time in the world to become finally awake and move on...If you really want to move on,
If there is a time, this is the time, now is the time, delay no more...Past is something history...
And yes, everyone will feel hurt...
it's same for all...
you... or me...^^
Cheers
Life only be live once...
Live it well, live it happy, without regrets ^^ -
just awaken from a dream, as i say, i really cannot slp.... cuz i`ll dream of her, everything still looks so fresh and we`re so happy together... really regreted letting her go...
so nice we the days we can stilll hold on, and love and care for each other..
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just awaken from a dream, as i say, i really cannot slp.... cuz i`ll dream of her, everything still looks so fresh and we`re so happy together... really regreted letting her go...
so nice we the days we can stilll hold on, and love and care for each other..
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Har, u still holding on to her ah?
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been a long time eh.. still not yet move on
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sien la.. why u be like this..
sigh up to u then, u wan continue be sad wussy rat or be better.. heck care whether u die or not just becuz of gal who dont deserve your love..
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once again, i really cannot let her go, i dreamed of the situtation where she was about to get married to another person, i cried and i cried... i really wanted to stop it from happening,
she`s my gal, and i love her so much.
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It's really all up to u .. Seriously, no one can help u here .. U wanna choose to be sad all your life then be it .. I know the feeling of it and i snap out of it, I hope u do so too.
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
once again, i really cannot let her go, i dreamed of the situtation where she was about to get married to another person, i cried and i cried... i really wanted to stop it from happening,
she`s my gal, and i love her so much.
dun turn your lovely life into a fatal one ya. Boy dun cry unless parents pass away ok, dun be a sissy and also dun be a prey of Love. -
Listen. We all here ( or maybe just I ) have no idea, how much you both have been through and shared together. It is only natural that the more one person has gone through with the other, it is harder yet to forget the other person. However, I somehow do encourage you crying and letting all your emotions out. Rather than suppressing it and running away from it. But one day you will have to wake up and realize that its all close to useless, but that's really up to you.
You have every reason to be upset. We won't know things are a mistake till it causes us some sort of detriment. So meet up and get closure. If not, then carry on with life. You're smart enough. You'll figure it out.
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hi peeps,
very soon, i`ll be sent to a far away land, perhaps i`ll nv be able to remember anyone of u all, just want to thank u all for all the great support u all had been to me.. i really enjoyed the extra days of hope u all had given to me..
seriously, i too did not want to live in such agony, my mind tells me that, but my heart keeps on bleeding... now he`s v v tired. time to take a gd break from all these mess. sometimes the ability forget something isnt really a bad thing afterall...
Love always,
BaByBoY
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
hi peeps,
very soon, i`ll be sent to a far away land, perhaps i`ll nv be able to remember anyone of u all, just want to thank u all for all the great support u all had been to me.. i really enjoyed the extra days of hope u all had given to me..
seriously, i too did not want to live in such agony, my mind tells me that, but my heart keeps on bleeding... now he`s v v tired. time to take a gd break from all these mess. sometimes the ability forget something isnt really a bad thing afterall...
Love always,
BaByBoY
You are just very insisting on your on beliefs, cramped up yourself in this tiny box of misery.Recall what I have said.
Don't far away land with me - for you only: if you want, we can meet up.
Cheers
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Read somewhere that trying to forget someone is like euthanasia.
It’s a condition, like a disease. You ache for that person, want that person to live on in your heart, dream of her, and dream of bliss. You can’t breathe, torn between having to let go and not wanting to.
Not as if there is a choice anyway, because being apart forces you to cut it loose. So you try throwing that person off your mind because you know the relationship has run it’s course. That’s the hardest part to understand.
My advice to TS is, go travel, for as long as you can. Gain new perspectives.
Then when you come back, inevitably, you’ll realise that all memories collapse in time. Like splinters of ember. -
~ Hang in there Babyboy ~
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Babyboy,
Don't give up on yourself. If you really still love her so much, then you have to regain the confidence in yourself. I believe that she wouldn't want to see you this way too. You should do something to win back her heart. I believe she would be touched by your sincerity one day so don't give up!
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Originally posted by ~.~ �� ~.~:
~ Hang in there Babyboy ~
Harlow Xiao Jun!long time no see ur post.
suddenly u come with 'another' nick.
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Haha! No difference in my nick ��~
Just that its in Chinese now. Cool upgrade they did to the site!
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it`s been nearing 4 mths, i still cant really let go, everytime i`ll think of her and miss her, i`ve been doing real badly.. there seems to be no ending to this misery, yes, i`m the one who refused to let it go and hide in this self denial.. i really don wanna let her go... Darling, i can`t live without you
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She is gone... she move on 4 mths ago but you din realise it.
Her heart is dead that's y she left you.
She gives you a lot of chances but you din cherish it.
She forgives and forget .. you took it for granted.
When she feels tired abt the relationship, she find reasons to carry on....
When the reasons run out; she felt it time to move on.
Then you realise you cant live without her ...... it is too late.
She realise she deserve someone better than you.
Forgive is generous but forget is divine.
Even you have the courage to commit suicide , like the hints you left in the post.
Do you think she will come back becos you want to died.
Even she come back to you now, it maybe becos she pity you , wanted to do her last effort to let you move on.
It is no longer love.
Maybe I am wrong....
Anyway it just a thought...
you should be grateful. you are just at this stage.
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perhaps.. sometimes a sincere second chance , can bring about true happiness ?
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some people deserve the second chance. but unfortunately... things just dont happen the way it couldve.
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:
I don not know how i shall start with,
recently, i broke up w my gf of 3 years,
i`ve to admit that i`ve had the greatest time in my life all these time
regrettbly, i wasnt such a good bf
many times had i taken our love for granted and that it`ll always be there.i`ve been feeling very terrible and helpless ever since i couldnt see her or hear her.
someone that was once so intimate in our lives were just gone out of a sudden
i couldnt take it,
i knew what happened today was a result of my faults.
had i been more understanding, i would not have been like i was today..
yes, many times had i abused our love. i took the word of break up too easily.
i nv knew it`s real consequences.... til now.many are the times i`ve tried to win her back to my side,
but many times was i rejected badly,
hurt as i am, i was hurt even more deeply.ppl had all asked me to move on,
but if i could had moved an inch, i would
the more i try to forget her, the more i`ll love her
and the harder it`ll be to move on...yesterday, i went to her place to find her
although i could not see her
i finally got the chance to hear a voice so nice and familar
i apologized, but it was too late she says
she told me that she didnt love me anymore,but havin known her for so long, i know she still does...
all that i could had done, i did
i cried my hearts out...thou there had been offers to help me
there could be no help
for non compares to herfor this relationshio,
i thought i gave 100% n i thought she gave 101%
but i was wrong, i gave 102%even if i know she still loves me, she`s still angry w me...
perhaps the words is fear. for fear i`ll not be able to protect her
she wanted to be alone.there was nothing else i could had done to make her stay.
so i shall set her free...If loving means leaving, I will...
Good bye to you my dearest darling,
BaByBoYAiya you think too much. What I shall set her free... wad protect her... U think you are the duke of edinburgh?
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You are seeking help here but you are not helping yourself...
So why is this thread still here where you don't wanna help yourself by forgeting and moving on?
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It's all up in his head..
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
perhaps.. sometimes a sincere second chance , can bring about true happiness ?
I always believe that in order for others to give u a chance 1st u must give urself a chance, i`ve thought it really through, n i`ve decided to forgive myself, while still responsible.. i will ask for her forgiveness.. n i will give myself and this love another chance.. we all went through so much together, i believe that when there`s love, there`ll be hope and that will be the hope of my life for her i will.