US grad trip: Friends or gf?

• w.eikaas

  18 May 08, 02:50

  Originally posted by darknessfall:

  big mistake to ask her along unless she can get along well with your frens, and they are bringing their gfs along too! then she will have company.

  did you tell her beforehand that its more on sightseeing? U must let her know clearly whats the trip for, and let her decide whether she still wants to go or not..but be tactful, cos they are super sensitive. One wrong word, they will think you dont want her to be around..ops.

  true

• Noughticated

  20 May 08, 13:57

  I need to know what your girlfriend is like before I can advise you good and proper. Blatant ideas usually lead to more or less a worse situation.

  My suggestion is to leave her here and go to the States. For now, I believe time apart would be a good thing. I'm more worried about what she might do in Singapore when you're gone, and the aftermath when you get back. 

• jojobeach

  21 May 08, 07:11

  You either

  a) take her along,

  b) choose not to go USA, or

  c) you drop this relationship.

  Choose one.

   

   

• rey619

  21 May 08, 07:41

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  You either

  a) take her along,

  b) choose not to go USA, or

  c) you drop this relationship.

  Choose one.

  and

  d) RHK her

   

   

• newcomer

  21 May 08, 07:52

  nb follow tour group is the last thing i want to do lor. free and easy better. explore and navigate with map, shiok mah.
• Lorry`

  21 May 08, 20:54

  so how is it now?

• monoslayer

  21 May 08, 21:05

  ur gf obviously needs a good spanking.

  u have to show her who is the boss in tis relationship.

• HyperionDCZ

  22 May 08, 01:34

  yes. time to play hardball

• vincentguy

  25 May 08, 04:07

  What does this say?

   

  You don't love your girlfriend enough to pass up on this trip.

  Yes. You will be disappointed if you were not able to join your friends on the grad trip, but pls realise that your friends (13 of them) can indeed do without you and still have fun along the way.

  Im not saying that your girlfriend is right in making a big fuss out this situation. But the answer is actually pretty clear. Make a choice. Who is more impt to you? If its your friends and the US trip... den go for it.

  If its your girl, then I would say pass up on the trip and have fun with her in BKK. You can always arrange another trip to the states.

• crystalsheep

  25 May 08, 09:09

  My suggestion to you is to bring her along - since the ticket already purchase. Now then you ask her not to go, I think she will definately very unhappy. You shouldn't ask her to tag along in the first place. However, you can solve this easily by arranging a day tour with her just for shopping. 

  Well. As you said this will be the free and easy tour, which means that you very super flexible with your timing right. No need to feel that you are stuck in between, no need to think that situation is so bad la. Since there are some gals in your group, you may suggest to put in a day or 2 day shopping tour in your intinery. 

  Just open it for discussion, don be so sad ok~!

  Problem can be solve, is just the mathod on how you solve it. cheers~!