Feel like crying but can't cry it out!

• Hitakogi

  2 Jan 03, 16:49

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  its up to u now girl
  
  be strong - fight now and u win
  be weak willed and lose
  only u can decide the outcome
  we can only try our best to push u in what we feel is the *right* direction.
  keep us updated hor and get a nice guy soon!!

  Qoo is a gal?...
  opss .. i thou his a guy ...
  anyway ... be stronge ... if fight still lose .. how?
• caramelgal

  2 Jan 03, 16:50

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  yah u can chose to be hapy or sad
  in the past i chose to be sad
  bt tinkin sad for wat
  wasting my time oni..no one will care
  
  i shld be happy
  heeee see i nw so happy
  

  ^5 same for me
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 16:50

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  ........i'm afraid of the same thing ...
  'into the picture and everything back into sq one'
  rite now i jus wanner feel better .. ...

  ok.. make up yr mind and set off...for the sake of yrself...
• Xiao Long Nu

  2 Jan 03, 16:51

  Originally posted by Qoo`~`:

  slowing... actually i still have this kind of feeling now.. but then it is dimishing now...

  *hughug
• Peppermint

  2 Jan 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  Qoo is a gal?...
  opss .. i thou his a guy ...
  anyway ... be stronge ... if fight still lose .. how?

  i suppose u are not the 1st one
  
  fight and still lose?? then fight again!! thats the true measure of a *fighter*
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  Qoo is a gal?...
  opss .. i thou his a guy ...
  anyway ... be stronge ... if fight still lose .. how?

  alamak.. u long leh u...
  heee... nber mind loz...
  if fight still lose then continue to fight lor.... dun worry... everything can solve one.. if u fight liao still lose that means u not try hard enuff...
• Hitakogi

  2 Jan 03, 16:52

  Originally posted by Qoo`~`:

  ok.. make up yr mind and set off...for the sake of yrself...

  I been telling myself that ..
  but i think u hav the problem b4 .. i'm sure u know how it feel at the beginning...
  i'm afraid ... it would jus came back ...
  actually i dun realli know how to face it ..
  maybe i'm realli weak ..
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 16:53

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  *hughug

  
• Hitakogi

  2 Jan 03, 16:53

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  i suppose u are not the 1st one
  
  fight and still lose?? then fight again!! thats the true measure of a *fighter*

  hand and legs broken liao .. how to fight?
• Xiao Long Nu

  2 Jan 03, 16:54

  y a guy can be so weak haiz
  
  /me remind me of my fren
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=31953
  
  anyone can helpm e
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 16:56

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  I been telling myself that ..
  but i think u hav the problem b4 .. i'm sure u know how it feel at the beginning...
  i'm afraid ... it would jus came back ...
  actually i dun realli know how to face it ..
  maybe i'm realli weak ..

  ya.. me understand.. just take things easy... let nature and time take its own course and u will feel better.. if u cannot then dun force yrself... but REMEMBER live on,dun ponder and let it affect you... after sometime u will find yrself forgetting about this issue liao... dun say u are weak, coz im sure u are not...
• Peppermint

  2 Jan 03, 16:57

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  hand and legs broken liao .. how to fight?

  friend, dun really dun what your prob is but this kind of thing mental strength is important...
  
  for example, in army, everyday kena tekan, if your mental not strong u would have broken down...but no wah right u still survive it hor?
  
  u cant fight is only because u believe u cant fight
  start simple 1st
  say u wanan get your master degree
  u dun go straight away go for it right?
  must build from pri, sec, jc, uni, hor?
  dun aim so high,
  aim for manageable things...so that u can build confidence and go from there
  
  another example - quit smoking
  u dun one shot quit wah...
  maybe from 2 packs u go to 1 1/2packs
  then 1 pack then 5
  then no more
  
  right?
  
  
• Hitakogi

  2 Jan 03, 16:59

  Originally posted by Qoo`~`:

  ya.. me understand.. just take things easy... let nature and time take its own course and u will feel better.. if u cannot then dun force yrself... but REMEMBER live on,dun ponder and let it affect you... after sometime u will find yrself forgetting about this issue liao... dun say u are weak, coz im sure u are not...

  thx alot ... u realli understand how i feels ....
  i will try to be stronge .. and hope the matters end soons...
  and again thx ... !!
• Hitakogi

  2 Jan 03, 17:01

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  friend, dun really dun what your prob is but this kind of thing mental strength is important...
  
  for example, in army, everyday kena tekan, if your mental not strong u would have broken down...but no wah right u still survive it hor?
  
  u cant fight is only because u believe u cant fight
  start simple 1st
  say u wanan get your master degree
  u dun go straight away go for it right?
  must build from pri, sec, jc, uni, hor?
  dun aim so high,
  aim for manageable things...so that u can build confidence and go from there
  
  another example - quit smoking
  u dun one shot quit wah...
  maybe from 2 packs u go to 1 1/2packs
  then 1 pack then 5
  then no more
  
  right?
  
  

  AgreeD!! thx oso!!
  i'm feeling abit better .. but c the sky raining .,... i hope i can still can drop my tears like the rain ...hiaz ..
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 17:03

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  thx alot ... u realli understand how i feels ....
  i will try to be stronge .. and hope the matters end soons...
  and again thx ... !!

  no prob! good to hear that from you.. at least there is some glimpse of a positive side of hitakogi... anything can pm me or anyone here.. i am sure they will be more than happy to help.. if u cannot dun force yrself, but at least must try lor.. u neber try u nber know mar right?? hope to hear from yr good news soon.. meantime, i will be trying also..
• caramelgal

  2 Jan 03, 17:12

  just checking.....how are all of you now? esp hitakogi?
  
  hope you are fine liao
• Peppermint

  2 Jan 03, 17:13

  Originally posted by caramelgal:

  just checking.....how are all of you now? esp hitakogi?
  
  hope you are fine liao

  i need a back massage badly...
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 17:13

  caramelgal, me fine... thanks for ya concern... wonder how is hi doing...
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 17:14

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  i need a back massage badly...

  aiyo.. what happen to you??
  */me massage for peppermint*
• caramelgal

  2 Jan 03, 17:16

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  i need a back massage badly...

  me steps on peppermint's back...feels good?
• caramelgal

  2 Jan 03, 17:16

  Originally posted by Qoo`~`:

  caramelgal, me fine... thanks for ya concern... wonder how is hi doing...

  
• Peppermint

  2 Jan 03, 17:19

  Originally posted by Qoo`~`:

  aiyo.. what happen to you??
  */me massage for peppermint*

  wall collasped on me....
• Peppermint

  2 Jan 03, 17:19

  Originally posted by caramelgal:

  me steps on peppermint's back...feels good?

  with/without high heels?
• zacken99

  2 Jan 03, 17:20

  i always encouraged sad ppl to cry..although crying cant help but it at lease helps to release some grivances....
  
  if really cant cry..think of ur sad past..think y u so ke lian...think u r the worst..think u r good for nothing....think u r the worst..think u r.....
  sorry to agitated.....sorry....
• Qoo`~`

  2 Jan 03, 17:21

  Originally posted by Peppermint:

  wall collasped on me....

  serious ar??
  or yr lady boss make u so angry.. u cannot take it till the walls fall on you...