If u really love him or her .
Why not ?
Now wat era already . Even gays get married why not a person who is divorced .
its so common to divorce nowadays ... so why not ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:So will you continue the relationship if she gave you her heart. But the kids don't get along with you ?
If you marry her.. will you keep the mother and send the kids off somewhere else ?
.....if the kids can't get along with me then it's a problem even though we love each other. There'll be thorns in the fresh, hard for the relationship to thrive. Can you imagine the scene when we go outing, the kids will give you problems. How to enjoy and have fun like that? Also must see and find out why the kids can't get along with me. If I knew the reasons and with my girlfriend's help and support, try to win over them. And not just chicken out.
Nothing is impossible, you just need to find someone really really special.
Definitely need to solve the first problem first before thinking about marriage..
Originally posted by mochou:sometimes it’s not up to you.
Even you can accept it, the next thing you need to “fight”, is how others look at it.
You accept doesn’t mean your parents/family accept naturally. You need to do alot to make them accept him/her also.
.....don't think you need to fight, people who knows and support you will understand
you're right, the family must accept him/her too. Even a not divorcee also must gain acceptance from the family, no two ways about it. That's why you need a person with strong charactors to date a divorcee wth kids