can't let go ... really cant
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Oh wait.. he already thanked the people ahead of us for the advice and will start concentrating on his current gf now. So... NO thanks to YOU and ME. So how now brown cow ?
oh btw, i only however disagreed with you on that point alone. About the man of justice and wisdom stuff.. and the hate part. Thats pretty much it. U know, not everyone HAVE to agree with whatever u think right ? U may like it in the ass does not mean i like one in my ass too.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Well, i am not really telling him to do. I am just responding to your post. Maybe shed some light on my perspective. Like i said, i said like most ppl and his close friends telling him to focus. I am explaining in my perspective of an alternative to 'hate'. I can give advice in an alternative point of view yes? This thread isnt about me. Its what I think. Based on what I think. It is up to TS to believe, but it is a genuine advice under the circumstances.Why are you so agitated?Aren't u also trying to force your views on him?Are i doing exactly what u are doing?So you think that 'hating' is the only way? how did u come withit? its not about u right? I can ask these same questions to you. How would u answer them ?
I already explained my reason why i think he can use other ways instead of hate. Pls read my post carefully. I wrote mostly about self awareness. And the possibilities. I am laying out the cards. Laying out the alternatives. Laying out what could be the reason. I am laying it out for him, cause he is the one that really knows whats going on. Every single action he see's can help him in my intepretation and hopefully allow him to rationally think that 'yeah.. wtf i was thinking!'
There are reasons why some people give the advice they give. Because some people may have experience something similiar. And sometimes the reason we give our advice has to be slightly explained so TS or whoever that is being advised on can consider whether my advice is sound under those circumstances. I pretty much only bothered to explain in more detail in Threads like this. Others i really cant be bothered. So if u like long explaination posts, feel free to, 'attack' my views. But i prefered it after u read more carefully what i wrote.
I can ask u very simple question . Why hate ? why ? Why cant u just..forget. Since u say ppl with wisdom and sense of justice will naturally get frustrated ... n then hate. So, if TS did not hate at all does that make him a person with no sense of justice and a person extremely lack of wisdom ? I'm just saying.. i can ask these questions too.
Why? Arent i telling him something different from the rest of the people here including u ? So.. whats so same about it ?
Explain your reason why u think my advice is a load of crock and bull, and is not going to help TS to let go of his reamining love for his ex-fg and allow him to better appreciate his current gf, and if you can convince TS that you're right, then i'll agree with YOUR advice.
I have advised HATE but you have suggested forget, so why are you now embracing HATE instead of forget?
You have already shown me, you have subconsciously agreed with me.
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dun let yr past become yr burden
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whom i feel is most pitiful is not you but yr current gf. tsk tsk.
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move on with life...
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Originally posted by confused heart:
its like i can never let go... its like a part of my heart is dead ... its with her ..
Get a heart-transplant, line yourself up at the national cardiac centre.