I am gay, but am I not ur best friend?

• Gackt247

  15 Jul 08, 13:39

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  look guys, the formation of friendship is based on informed choices .......

  doesn't this constitute mis-representation ? .....

  so what triggers would end a friendship for you ? ...

  that a chap's slept with your wifey ?

  that a chap's a terrorist ? ...

  that a chap cheated your money and ran away ? ...

  different people have different triggers that's all .....

  so you're a brokebacker, fine, but you have to accept that you cannot make the whole world like you, or even accept you ..... now that you've chose to come out of your closet .... deal with it ...

   

  
  fatumified

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 13:57

  Originally posted by Netbearbear:

  I told my best friend that I was gay.

  He told me that our friendship was over. We've been best friends for about 11months.

  
  I was driving him to pick up smth urgent even though I was with my family in the night of sunday even though I had work tml.

  So what if i'm gay, am I not ur best friend?

  I'm so sad now, I have to pretend i'm someone I'm not which hurts. my frend dun accept who i am but i did all those things just becos i really treat him as my best friend.

  can anyone advice me what to do???

  even 11 years of marriage can break up, don't say best friend la...

  maybe his passion for you, died down. honeymoon over, ya?

   

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 13:59

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  look guys, the formation of friendship is based on informed choices .......

  doesn't this constitute mis-representation ? .....

  so what triggers would end a friendship for you ? ...

  that a chap's slept with your wifey ?

  that a chap's a terrorist ? ...

  that a chap cheated your money and ran away ? ...

  different people have different triggers that's all .....

  so you're a brokebacker, fine, but you have to accept that you cannot make the whole world like you, or even accept you ..... now that you've chose to come out of your closet .... deal with it ...

   

  pwned.

  but i agree la. we all take responsibility for the choices made.

  you chose to come clean, which is respectable, but it doesn't mean that he should feel comfortable for you coming clean.

  next time, don't come clean lor, but i never agree that friendship, or any relationship should be built upon lies la.

• domonkassyu

  15 Jul 08, 14:06

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Hi, my Pub needs Gays for some pervert Uncles, are you interested to join in, can earn about 5 to 6 k or even more. Interested please PM me, thank you.

   

  Today lunch, Porridge and tou Gay, good diet for slimming

  
  lol..nice puns..but not very nice.ppl sad liaoz mahz..but actually gays can change revert back to normal anyway..

• val.

  15 Jul 08, 14:28

  omg. a faggot.
• 16/f/lonely

  15 Jul 08, 14:28

  Same advise to the heart-broken group: find a new buddy.

• Karma88

  15 Jul 08, 14:28

  11 months only ?

  U got no other friends mea ?

  I also got a friend who`s best friend was gay .

  After he told him he was gay my friend stright away siam him .

  I guess that`s normal human reaction . Just find another jie mei

• shade343

  15 Jul 08, 14:45

  Originally posted by Netbearbear:

  I told my best friend that I was gay.

  He told me that our friendship was over. We've been best friends for about 11months.

  
  I was driving him to pick up smth urgent even though I was with my family in the night of sunday even though I had work tml.

  So what if i'm gay, am I not ur best friend?

  I'm so sad now, I have to pretend i'm someone I'm not which hurts. my frend dun accept who i am but i did all those things just becos i really treat him as my best friend.

  can anyone advice me what to do???

  All homophobes are idiots. Would you want an idiot as your friend?

• verocity

  15 Jul 08, 14:51

  guess, i am a bit new in this thread, care to share with mi a bit?

   

• shade343

  15 Jul 08, 14:55

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Hi, my Pub needs Gays for some pervert Uncles, are you interested to join in, can earn about 5 to 6 k or even more. Interested please PM me, thank you.

   

  Today lunch, Porridge and tou Gay, good diet for slimming

  
  Are you already pandering to the needs of the old uncles in your pub? Have you got your backside fondled and spanked yet? Have your dick been pulled ad teased by those old uncles yet?

• angel7030

  15 Jul 08, 14:56

  Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:

  
  You have a personal vendetta against gays is it?

  
  yes, i do, cos last time i met a guy, and when i start to have feeling for him...he told me he is not interested in me, becos he is a Gay, shit me cockeye see the wrong guy, it a gay gay gay....dun laugh hor

• angel7030

  15 Jul 08, 14:59

  Originally posted by shade343:

  
  Are you already pandering to the needs of the old uncles in your pub? Have you got your backside fondled and spanked yet? Have your dick been pulled ad teased by those old uncles yet?

  
  Huh??? i got dick meh...hjahahahaha...u really makes me laugh..hahahahaha... but the customers request mah, look, i am running a business here, and some customers ask if got Gays, they paid high prices, so i just wonder if any Gays out there are interested, if not, nevermind.

   

  I got diploma in BA ok, me learn about Total Customer Satisfaction.

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 15:01

  piak piak

• Lorry`

  15 Jul 08, 15:05

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  yes, i do, cos last time i met a guy, and when i start to have feeling for him...he told me he is not interested in me, becos he is a Gay, shit me cockeye see the wrong guy, it a gay gay gay....dun laugh hor

  bold in red.

  I think the straights will also have the same reaction?

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 15:16

  http://www.sgforums.com/forums/1381/topics/323965

  maybe this will help

• Lorry`

  15 Jul 08, 15:20

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  http://www.sgforums.com/forums/1381/topics/323965

  maybe this will help

  LOL eternal hope.

  That means it will not help. 

   

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 15:22

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  LOL eternal hope.

  That means it will not help. 

   

  lol!

  ya, actually i don't know if it'll help, or if it is even legit to begin with.

  but i know there are actual help out there la.

   

• dumbdumb!

  15 Jul 08, 15:22

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  bold in red.

  I think the straights will also have the same reaction?

  definitely.

• Lorry`

  15 Jul 08, 15:25

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  lol!

  ya, actually i don't know if it'll help, or if it is even legit to begin with.

  but i know there are actual help out there la.

   

    Not to say what u posted is no good la.
  But anything with bible + homosexuals, 99.9% is no help wan~

  I go make a call first, then I go read. 

• angel7030

  15 Jul 08, 15:29

  Originally posted by Lorry`:

  bold in red.

  I think the straights will also have the same reaction?

  
  u tell me, in this world, where got straight men??

   

   

  it either crooked on side or swayed the other side or go upward or go downward.

• angel7030

  15 Jul 08, 15:30

  Originally posted by dumbdumb!:

  piak piak

  
  wha! very pain lor...run...

• Lorry`

  15 Jul 08, 16:19

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  u tell me, in this world, where got straight men??

   

   

  it either crooked on side or swayed the other side or go upward or go downward.

  huh? No straight men? Are you livin in a cave or what

• Dezhou

  15 Jul 08, 17:12

  Singapore is still not ready to accept gay for majority. Im not suprised your friend distance away. Its a normal reaction, if he treasure this friendship, and you show no interest in him, he will be your friend again. But i doubt the friendship will be as close as it used to be :(.

• Master -_-

  15 Jul 08, 17:16

  i dun mind having a gay for friends..i have 2 close gay friends and though i'm straight and engaged, i love em to bits..they understand both sexes and easily, they are very approachable..i thinking of making them my best men..coz for sure, they have been so for the past 15 years...

• White_SoulReaper

  15 Jul 08, 17:22

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  yes, i do, cos last time i met a guy, and when i start to have feeling for him...he told me he is not interested in me, becos he is a Gay, shit me cockeye see the wrong guy, it a gay gay gay....dun laugh hor

  
  wah... can get so unlucky?