Suspicion of Cheating
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Originally posted by charlize:
CB, when I say fragile means fragile.
Oh, did I also mention that women are very gentle creatures too?
so fierce sia.. doesn't seem gentle a single bit. :P
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Originally posted by cuddles:
so fierce sia.. doesn't seem gentle a single bit. :P
Me fierce?
NOoooOooo.
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then u should let her cheat u
as a friend
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Originally posted by RachelSniper:
Seriously, I hate men who use females like used tissues as a sort of rebound, and the worse thing is: the female thinks lowly of herself and is willing to be manipulated.
How you so sure.. the female is not enjoying the affair ? -
Your girl friend .. is not cheating on anyone.
The one who is cheating is her boss.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
How you so sure.. the female is not enjoying the affair ?For those females who enjoy humiliation/ degrading thing, I understand because I am one too at times.
But not to the type of girls who are naive to think such men's 'affections' are for real. And these men are making use of them for lust only.
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Men.
Pffftttt.
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Originally posted by gunner77:
then u should let her cheat u
as a friend
le kong smlj?
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Originally posted by charlize:
Then again, it is not confirmed and I may be reading too much into it.
The male boss might be the one trying to get fresh (CB, family man with kid some more).
She might really be working.
I will chat more with her and drop indirrect hints and see what happens.
Cause only suspicion, better go the indirect method, if direct method turns out she not, then you left in awkward position.
Provided she not as dumb as some folks here, she will get the hint.
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Just give her advice , not really anything else you can do ...
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Originally posted by maurizio13:
Cause only suspicion, better go the indirect method, if direct method turns out she not, then you left in awkward position.
Provided she not as dumb as some folks here, she will get the hint.
Yeah, I get the feeling too that some folks think she is a dumb blonde.
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Originally posted by charlize:
le kong smlj?
gong jiao wei -
Originally posted by RachelSniper:
Seriously, I hate men who use females like used tissues as a sort of rebound, and the worse thing is: the female thinks lowly of herself and is willing to be manipulated.
Same here ... but the girls are stupid enough to fall for it.
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If not why people say love is blind.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
If not why people say love is blind.
Love is blind.
But marriage will open your eyes.
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Originally posted by Evangel:
If not why people say love is blind.
love is not blind, peoples are blind -
Originally posted by charlize:
I have a good friend and I suspect she is "cheating" with a married colleague at her office. I put "cheating" in quotation marks because it may not be sexual in nature.
Met up with her a few times and she mentions out of the blue that she has a "boyfriend" of a year or so, something which I was not aware of.
She also mentions in bits and pieces during our conversations that there is a guy boss in her office that has got this thing for her and that he will send her flowers with no card attached as a present for her birthdays. But she knows it's from him. The guy boss is married and has a young son. You know something is amiss when girls lament that guys are all the same, with their roving eyes and need to flirt from one girl to the next.
Why I suspect there might be more to it than meets the eye is that she occassionally tells me she needs to go back to the office over the weekends to work. And she apparently goes back quite often either on a saturday or sunday. Yes, to work. To meet up with him, I do not know.
I am her good friend and I do not wish to see her hurt in any way.
So what should I do?
make frens w security n chk the survelliance cameras. thn again. why bother?
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Originally posted by skeujin:
make frens w security n chk the survelliance cameras. thn again. why bother?
then later fall in love with security officer...another affair?? -
Originally posted by angel7030:
then later fall in love with security officer...another affair??im saying if TS wana know. go n chk w security. not anyone else...
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Originally posted by charlize:
Women are actually very fragile creatures.
Despite their ambitions.
Really.
So are guys...
Despite their tough appearance.
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i see familiar nicks...
and i got a feeling it's gonna turn into a man bashing thread...
so much for AA...
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Originally posted by shade343:
So are guys...
Despite their tough appearance.
Yes, men are fragile too.What's the word people use?
Wuss? Pussy? Gu niang?
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:
i see familiar nicks...
and i got a feeling it's gonna turn into a man bashing thread...
so much for AA...
Who bashes men?
Come on, tell me.
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this should be in shoutbox
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Originally posted by RachelSniper:
For those females who enjoy humiliation/ degrading thing, I understand because I am one too at times.
But not to the type of girls who are naive to think such men's 'affections' are for real. And these men are making use of them for lust only.
Here's an exerpt from someone famous." All young ladies of spunk and massive intellect sample life with a rich codger- it's a rite of passage."
When she is done and through with her rite of passage.. she'd dump him and get on with life.
Only the stupid ones becomes a home wrecking hussy.