Suspicion of Cheating
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nonetheless, it's her life and she has the right to live the way she likes. She'll come back and inform you when she's hurt.
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Originally posted by RachelSniper:
Seriously, I hate men who use females like used tissues as a sort of rebound, and the worse thing is: the female thinks lowly of herself and is willing to be manipulated.
Seriously , I hate Women who use males like ATM as a sort of a right thing, and the worse thing is: the male thinks highly of himself and is willing to be a money tree.
haiz...waste time..
U can have 1001 reason to tell the world how bastard a men can be , we as a men have the same amount of reason to tell u how screwed up a women is? We r not perfect , Live and let live..U enjoy the time / process and pls! don regret/blame anyone for it, remember u r the one who choose yr own path not like the 'used tissues' U and yr BF have used. =)
peace!
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Originally posted by charlize:
I have a good friend and I suspect she is "cheating" with a married colleague at her office. I put "cheating" in quotation marks because it may not be sexual in nature.
Met up with her a few times and she mentions out of the blue that she has a "boyfriend" of a year or so, something which I was not aware of.
She also mentions in bits and pieces during our conversations that there is a guy boss in her office that has got this thing for her and that he will send her flowers with no card attached as a present for her birthdays. But she knows it's from him. The guy boss is married and has a young son. You know something is amiss when girls lament that guys are all the same, with their roving eyes and need to flirt from one girl to the next.
Why I suspect there might be more to it than meets the eye is that she occassionally tells me she needs to go back to the office over the weekends to work. And she apparently goes back quite often either on a saturday or sunday. Yes, to work. To meet up with him, I do not know.
I am her good friend and I do not wish to see her hurt in any way.
So what should I do?
Not girlfriend =/= cheating.
She's free to do what she want.
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Fragile guys = S.N.A.G
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It depends on the person. Some people are more likely to cheat than others while others may cheat once due to circumstances. Usually the serial cheaters can be seen by reading their bazi or zi wei dou shu (zwds). see this example: http://fengshuiforward.com/forum/personal-requests/need-help!/0/
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this is the traditional minority report way.
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How come divination comes into play...?
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Why life so complicated?
Why?
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Originally posted by charlize:
Why life so complicated?
Why?
Because we make it complicated!
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Originally posted by charlize:
Why life so complicated?
Why?
"Emptiness" is the word..When human felt "empty" they came out with all sort of things to inject "excitment" into their life but if the result turn negative they start blaming/complaining others.*or is this just singapore style*?
=p
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Originally posted by [3Dd|E]:
"Emptiness" is the word..When human felt "empty" they came out with all sort of things to inject "excitment" into their life but if the result turn negative they start blaming/complaining others.*or is this just singapore style*?
=p
very good observation!
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Originally posted by [3Dd|E]:
"Emptiness" is the word..When human felt "empty" they came out with all sort of things to inject "excitment" into their life but if the result turn negative they start blaming/complaining others.*or is this just singapore style*?
=p
Singapore must be very boring.
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Originally posted by deathwish:
Fragile guys = S.N.A.G
Fragile guys = wimpy ah guas ....
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Originally posted by Fatum:
Fragile guys = wimpy ah guas ....
Fcuk.That's what I say too.
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My mind is at ease now.
At high tea today, she mentioned that she broke up with her "boyfriend" who apparently is not the married guy boss perv.