shut up.
you see that soap? pick it up.
back to topic please.
Peace!
Originally posted by Rulzgboi:back to topic please.
Peace!
Still no news from TS and here we are still concern about her. May be she is already enjoying herself with the guy overseas. Let her be.
Originally posted by Fantagf:Still no news from TS and here we are still concern about her. May be she is already enjoying herself with the guy overseas. Let her be.
weeping after being dumped after the trip?
kena played out by a player playboy?
u mean dumped into bin like used toilet paper?
Originally posted by Rednano:
weeping after got dumped after the trip?
. . . .. . and dare not come here, too paiseh, too embarass to appear here.
dont see what the big problem is...afraid of getting raped? get separate rooms then. it's no more dangerous than going on a date alone with some guy you dont know that well. soon you'll be told not to go on dates without a male family member present.if you dont want anything to happen get 2 rooms and lock the door at night. you'll be spending most of your time in public with loads of other ppl around anyway.
Originally posted by kikq:dont see what the big problem is...afraid of getting raped? get separate rooms then. it's no more dangerous than going on a date alone with some guy you dont know that well. soon you'll be told not to go on dates without a male family member present.if you dont want anything to happen get 2 rooms and lock the door at night. you'll be spending most of your time in public with loads of other ppl around anyway.
tell that to a wife when her husband goes on a business trip with a female colleague. vice versa.
Originally posted by Rednano:
tell that to a wife when her husband goes on a business trip with a female colleague. vice versa.
i dont think that has anything to do with the current situation
Originally posted by kikq:i dont think that has anything to do with the current situation
being colleague in the company is longer than just a guy with 3 dates. and y is still the wife is worried?
insecure? and anyway 1) there's a general consensus that guys are the bad ones all the time - you're talking about the guy being unfaithful, TS is a girl... 2) she's not cheating on anyone if she does, 3) there's nothing to say what you're suggesting isn't consensual on both parts anyway...
i agree with kikq lol
Originally posted by Jezmeister:insecure? and anyway 1) there's a general consensus that guys are the bad ones all the time - you're talking about the guy being unfaithful, TS is a girl... 2) she's not cheating on anyone if she does, 3) there's nothing to say what you're suggesting isn't consensual on both parts anyway...
i agree with kikq lol
1) murphy's law: anything that can go wrong, will/can go wrong.
even if the guy is a good guy, one thing will leads to another 1..
2) we just want her to be on guard, cautious.
3) even if the feelings r mutual, u will to be aware of the after action, dont regret the decisions u made.
Originally posted by Rednano:
being colleague in the company is longer than just a guy with 3 dates. and y is still the wife is worried?
im just trying to show how retarded it is to think that every guy you meet will try to rape you like most ppl seem to think on this forum. what worries me is that most of those ppl are guys...so guys...is what you really mean when you ask a girl to go abroad with you "i wanna rape you over and over again"? if so you really are sick..and if not then why do you assume all guys think like that? i kind of feel you're offending my fiance here. i went to stay with him in his home country for more than 2 weeks. and we'd had only one date before that. and a couple of weeks later we took a holiday together..another 2 weeks abroad.
if you're afraid he might hurt you buy mace, carry it with you all the time and dont stay alone with him in the same room. then you should be perfectly safe. if he really is a psycho out to get you then you wont be safe at home either.
other forum members:it doesnt seem like you just want her to be careful, seems like you're trying to scare her to death. plus a lot of you called her stupid for even considering it..thats just rude.
Originally posted by kikq:im just trying to show how retarded it is to think that every guy you meet will try to rape you like most ppl seem to think on this forum. what worries me is that most of those ppl are guys...so guys...is what you really mean when you ask a girl to go abroad with you "i wanna rape you over and over again"? if so you really are sick..and if not then why do you assume all guys think like that? i kind of feel you're offending my fiance here. i went to stay with him in his home country for more than 2 weeks. and we'd had only one date before that. and a couple of weeks later we took a holiday together..another 2 weeks abroad.
if you're afraid he might hurt you buy mace, carry it with you all the time and dont stay alone with him in the same room. then you should be perfectly safe. if he really is a psycho out to get you then you wont be safe at home either.
other forum members:it doesnt seem like you just want her to be careful, seems like you're trying to scare her to death. plus a lot of you called her stupid for even considering it..thats just rude.
if the girl initiates the trip, a typical guy is bound to pack condom for the short getaway.
Originally posted by kikq:im just trying to show how retarded it is to think that every guy you meet will try to rape you like most ppl seem to think on this forum. what worries me is that most of those ppl are guys...so guys...is what you really mean when you ask a girl to go abroad with you "i wanna rape you over and over again"? if so you really are sick..and if not then why do you assume all guys think like that? i kind of feel you're offending my fiance here. i went to stay with him in his home country for more than 2 weeks. and we'd had only one date before that. and a couple of weeks later we took a holiday together..another 2 weeks abroad.
if you're afraid he might hurt you buy mace, carry it with you all the time and dont stay alone with him in the same room. then you should be perfectly safe. if he really is a psycho out to get you then you wont be safe at home either.
other forum members:it doesnt seem like you just want her to be careful, seems like you're trying to scare her to death. plus a lot of you called her stupid for even considering it..thats just rude.
He is your "Fiance" , obviously you know him alot better
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
He is your "Fiance" , obviously you know him alot better
like i said..we'd only met once before my first trip
Originally posted by Rednano:
if the girl initiates the trip, a typical guy is bound to pack condom for the short getaway.
so? it's always good to be careful. but she doesnt have to do anything if she doesnt want to. esp if she's paying for her own room. she's not actually obligated to do anything..thats my point. and she's not a baby anymore..she's a grown woman. it's actually safer than travelling alone
Originally posted by kikq:like i said..we'd only met once before my first trip
That's a risk you took, i sure wouldn't do it , not all guys are like your fiance. Some guys will take advantage.
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
That's a risk you took, i sure wouldn't do it , not all guys are like your fiance. Some guys will take advantage.
you cant go through life being scared of everything. there are ways you can protect yourself when travelling with a stranger which i already mentioned in my previous post. and it's not like he's a total stranger. it's only a couple of days, to a neighbouring country and it's still safer than travelling alone. if they get separate rooms she should be perfectly safe. she can also book the room herself and give her family and friends the address of the place and tell them exactly who she's going with. let's face it..it's not that big a risk. i dont think he'd try to force himself on her in a public place.
Originally posted by kikq:you cant go through life being scared of everything. there are ways you can protect yourself when travelling with a stranger which i already mentioned in my previous post. and it's not like he's a total stranger. it's only a couple of days, to a neighbouring country and it's still safer than travelling alone. if they get separate rooms she should be perfectly safe. she can also book the room herself and give her family and friends the address of the place and tell them exactly who she's going with. let's face it..it's not that big a risk. i dont think he'd try to force himself on her in a public place.
I really don't see the point of travelling with a stranger, i don't think many girls carry maces with them, yes a seperate room makes it safer but i doubt they are going to stay in the room 24/7. He can force himself on her in another place. What can family do when they are miles and miles away ?
you take a very dim view of the general public if you think only family would help someone... if i saw someone in trouble like that i wouldn't stop to check if it was my sister before doing something about it...
oh and 1) murphys law has nothing to do with what I said... you're just avoiding admitting your situation was irrelevant... jeez lol
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
I really don't see the point of travelling with a stranger, i don't think many girls carry maces with them, yes a seperate room makes it safer but i doubt they are going to stay in the room 24/7. He can force himself on her in another place. What can family do when they are miles and miles away ?
no point in travelling with a stranger? what's the point of travelling with friends then? i thought the point of travelling was the see new places, make new friends...silly me.
if she doesnt have it shecan get it..thats the point. she can be prepared.
nobody said they have to stay in their rooms 24/7. do you really think he'd try anything in public and nobody would do anything.?it's always good to notify ppl where you're going and give them the exact address and names of the ppl youre going with. it makes the guy less likely to try anything..he'd know he'd be the one held responsible if anything should happen.
Originally posted by kikq:no point in travelling with a stranger? what's the point of travelling with friends then? i thought the point of travelling was the see new places, make new friends...silly me.
if she doesnt have it shecan get it..thats the point. she can be prepared.
nobody said they have to stay in their rooms 24/7. do you really think he'd try anything in public and nobody would do anything.?it's always good to notify ppl where you're going and give them the exact address and names of the ppl youre going with. it makes the guy less likely to try anything..he'd know he'd be the one held responsible if anything should happen.
Question answers itself , they are your friends , you know them.
Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Question answers itself , they are your friends , you know them.
like i said..the point of travelling is to see new places...no harm going with someone new. if you just want to hang out with your friends you can do that at home.
You can see new places with friends , if you really think there is no harm going somewhere with someone you hardly know, you must be living on another planet.