you can't move on even from something that didn't happen. What do you want us to do? do guy B this favour, tell him you acn't get over guy A even though you guys never amounted to even a Single date and don't waste guy B time.
Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:yes, i cant even move on from something that didnt happen. very stupid eh. i cant even stop myself from being stupid.
oh my gosh, that was what someone told me too. she said i was wasting B’s time. but im not trying to do anything. you mean hanging out with a friend is a waste of time? we are normal friends anyway.
but the prob is... u didnt make ur stand firm to him... how is he going to noe? he is not a mind-reader...
this is unfair to B. You got no feeling for him y u still go out with him?
Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:B hasnt told me anything yet, just that all my friends thinks hes interested in me. for all we know its just a mistake. so its nothing wrong going out with him treating him like a friend right? u mean i have to have feelings for that person before going out with him?
sometimes i wished i was the mind reader.
platonic boy-girl r/s is hard to maintain.
if 1-to-1 outings too many times, feelings r slowly develop... whether is 1-sided or not...
Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:arent there just pure friendship in the mean time?
i feel so bad having to think that im giving him the wrong idea.
thats y platonic friendship is hard to maintain...
just watched a korean comedy...
"its hard to be friends with girls once u start to sprout pubic hairs..." lol...
Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:yes, i cant even move on from something that didnt happen. very stupid eh. i cant even stop myself from being stupid.
oh my gosh, that was what someone told me too. she said i was wasting B’s time. but im not trying to do anything. you mean hanging out with a friend is a waste of time? we are normal friends anyway.
I guess you are not stupid, sometimes feelings couldn't be controlled.
Follow your heart.
Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:what if i tell you i have been liking A for like 7 years. now it looks stupid right.
i thought i got over him until that day. luckily hes not in singapore now. can take my time to erase him.
Liking someone isn't something wrong. So you are not stupid my dear.
If you are stupid i more stupid way from you.
some girls tend to think too much....why?
i dunno....i'm not a girl...i'm just wondering...
Originally posted by dcx:some girls tend to think too much....why?
their brains r wired this way... too much = paranoid liao...