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don't ask parents go, go there yourself to meet the parents
Originally posted by jojobeach:wont,
You seem like a good catch with financial stability... but..
Can you cook ?
Can you clean ?
Can you take care of babies ?
Can you take care of old people ?
Can you do marsargee when I come home from work every night ?
You no good looking never mind.. as long as you no habit sleeping with lights on.
Dude, fresh grads are earning about $3k now, and those with distinction, averaging $3.5k.
http://www.salary.sg/2008/smu-fresh-grads-make-4k-to-10k/
This guy is 30 y.o., so I am assuming he is not a fresh grad. If he work for 5 years (after NS and Uni), earning $40K is not really considered having financial stability...
Try benchmarking your salary here... http://www.salary.sg/2008/compare-your-income-by-age-gender/
Originally posted by skythewood:don't ask parents go, go there yourself to meet the parents
Cool...skythewood, that suggestion is great....more sincere
waa...30 liao ah?...
i'm like 11 years to go if i'm in your place...
will end ur misery
http://www.reuters.com/news/video?videoId=60975
earning $40k per annum isnt enough ma...........
i earn only about $20k a year but i still get on with life (- -)
maybe always dont have much cash with me but im happy with wat i have now ^^
Originally posted by Hwaimeng:earning $40k per annum isnt enough ma...........
i earn only about $20k a year but i still get on with life (- -)
maybe always dont have much cash with me but im happy with wat i have now ^^
When i started my first job at age 22, its only 12k a year.
I dont think its how much u earn to find yourself a mate. its about who you are, what you do, how you attract. Saving is more important. i got a friend who is a fresh grad, 3 years younger than me, better looking and he is earning 10k a month and he is still single. - of course he is good catch.
After much consideration, i think its better to stay single and survive. Thanks.
Originally posted by zerocool85:will end ur misery
http://www.reuters.com/news/video?videoId=60975
Im not a freak, thank you.
Stop being desperate. You don't need a girlfriend...so think, what do you really want one for?
Why?? Because you dun dare to date me
hm some advice, go out and learn from the guys who are just dam good with girls
then meet more girls and when you meet one whom you like, make her like you, simple as that =D
Originally posted by nikas:hm some advice, go out and learn from the guys who are just dam good with girls
then meet more girls and when you meet one whom you like, make her like you, simple as that =D
Making somebody like you is a worse form of manipulation than getting into a relationship.
Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Stop being desperate. You don't need a girlfriend...so think, what do you really want one for?
some ppl might not need a GF ATM but when u think of old age and u r still single
dun u feel lonely.
Originally posted by nikas:hm some advice, go out and learn from the guys who are just dam good with girls
then meet more girls and when you meet one whom you like, make her like you, simple as that =D
I am 31 yrs also single...
was cahsing this teacher for 1 yr...can click go out very often 1-1 date.I earnign abt 60k pa, not consider financial stable, has a car
Even sent me birthday card with love and hearts, but when i pop the qn to be my gf..and was rejected..
reason cos i am ugly looking...
so...sg gers just look for good looking guys...destined to be single.....cos of looks
Originally posted by seaworld:I am 31 yrs also single...
was cahsing this teacher for 1 yr...can click go out very often 1-1 date.I earnign abt 60k pa, not consider financial stable, has a car
Even sent me birthday card with love and hearts, but when i pop the qn to be my gf..and was rejected..
reason cos i am ugly looking...
so...sg gers just look for good looking guys...destined to be single.....cos of looks
How do u know is ur looks ?
Might be other reason ?
Originally posted by seaworld:I am 31 yrs also single...
was cahsing this teacher for 1 yr...can click go out very often 1-1 date.I earnign abt 60k pa, not consider financial stable, has a car
Even sent me birthday card with love and hearts, but when i pop the qn to be my gf..and was rejected..
reason cos i am ugly looking...
so...sg gers just look for good looking guys...destined to be single.....cos of looks
got try to improve? go gym? go spa? go facial?
confirmed..cos she say it..
cos i got birthmark on my face....all i say is if she really mind in the 1st place..she should not ahve gone out with me and dun send me that kind of birthday card.....dun lead me on...
so guys like me destined to be single.....
SG gers - looks matters...others are secondary..u can be the most sweetest guy..no looks= bye bye
too bad... life sucks...
Originally posted by seaworld:confirmed..cos she say it..
cos i got birthmark on my face....all i say is if she really mind in the 1st place..she should not ahve gone out with me and dun send me that kind of birthday card.....dun lead me on...
so guys like me destined to be single.....
SG gers - looks matters...others are secondary..u can be the most sweetest guy..no looks= bye bye
seriously i dun agree for a guy no looks = no gf
Take a look out there, i am sure u see lots of guys with below then average looks have gd looking gf. I think they juz know how to tok.
and even with gd look u still got to know how to tok else the ladys with u will be bored.
Originally posted by WontwannaieSingle:Im sad, im already 30 years old recently and i couldnt find a girlfriend. the only target i could find suitable is not interested in me. im hopeless. please teach me what to do..
1. Firstly, can I ask, do you have a stable career. At the age of 30, you should be earning above 50K annual at least. Also becoming a maestro in at least one field of discipline. If you have a good career, how do you balance your career and your social life?
2. Do you have a pleasant personality? How to gauge?
(a) Do you have a lot of people not on good terms with you at work?
(b) How's the relationship between you and your family?
(c) Can you confidently say you have good friends? And these friends are the sort who will visit you should you be hospitalized, trust and stand up for you should you be maligned?
3. Do you have a good social circle? As in having people asking you out or you have a healthy list of people whom you can invite for dinner or outing?
4. Given a day off eg. Sunday, how do you spend it?
5. What are the factors you ask for before deciding to know more about the girl?
6. Do you fool around with girls? That means never serious about girls before? ie. Active ONS player.
Maybe after answer these questions, it should shed some light on the condition of your social life.
1. Im working on that. Should see 50k / Annum or more within the next 2 years. (i just swtich line, very "green" to this new job, hence the pay is not up to the "standard" yet)
2. Do you have a pleasant personality? How to gauge?
Im a gentle person, not tough. still boyish looking. how to gauge? people commented so. ex boss told me i looked like a boy. never thought im 30..
How?
(a) Do you have a lot of people not on good terms with you at work?
No, im on good terms with the people. even some ex colleagues.
(b) How's the relationship between you and your family?
Not on good terms with Father, treat my mother nicer. gave money to both parents.
(c) Can you confidently say you have good friends? And these friends are the sort who will visit you should you be hospitalized, trust and stand up for you should you be maligned?
A. I have some good friends (not really alot), most nice girls that i know are already attached. There is this female friend whom i liked, and on the verge of breaking up with her bf. i consoled her and gave her insights to good relationship from books i read. (I liked her before, expressed my feelings, but was rejected. I checked out her friendster, the BF is much..much better looking.)
There are people who stand up for me. yes( i took some time to think this question honestly yes)
3. Do you have a good social circle? As in having people asking you out or you have a healthy list of people whom you can invite for dinner or outing?
No, i dont have a good social circle. most of the time, i would spend on video games and time at uncle's place where I play with his kids. occaionally once in every 3 months, I would be asked to join in karaoke or drinking session by friends.
4. Given a day off eg. Sunday, how do you spend it?
Play games or go uncle's place to spend time there.
5. What are the factors you ask for before deciding to know more about the girl?
Attractive.
6. Do you fool around with girls? That means never serious about girls before? ie. Active ONS player.
Never fooled around with girls before, Been to disco less than 10 times in my life. By the way, i couldnt drink. 1 glass of beer is enough to make me sick and puke.
Im serious in the girls im after, never succeed. perhaps i picked the wrong ones
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