Release of frustrations...
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
so, u mean waiting will make her know that u rike her?
not wad i mean. . i did say get in touch with her. let ur feeling be known.
My ex said she would have gotten back with me, but due to the fact that i "moved" on and got into another rs, she didnt.
i tot i had moved on. but wad i did was try to replace something irreplaceable -
gigabyte14: she already knows my intentions, my waiting is simply the only option that i have now
maskedangel: yeah, initially i tried to break off all contacts, but now resumed back normal chatting, so i guess its back to square one again
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there's a book about style's method, i forgot the name of the book. . .
style had a one-itis, and he wait about 6 months, before coming back, demonstrating value and all. .
what a comeback, i muz say. . im trying to do that now.
so far 2 months of no contact -
Just keep your options open. I dunno, but I don't think it is right to wish for other people's relationship to collapse so that you can get a way with her. I think the girl needs to be shot for leading you on. I don't know about the rest, but I think she is just trying to give you false hopes into waiting for her while she is enjoying herself with her current boyfriend.
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Chuck Norris once shot a German plane down with his finger by yelling "Bang!"
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maskedangel: style made a comeback? i didn't know about that, i thought he was still happily in love or something
rainee: its really a lot of imagination on my part, as i had seen somebody post before, men tends to imagine a lot more things than they can handle. I won't say its her fault, it should be mine for barging in like an idiot
rey619: your point being?
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Originally posted by AFC:
rey619: your point being?
There is no chin behind Chuck Norris's beard. There is only another fist.
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Originally posted by rey619:
There is no chin behind Chuck Norris's beard. There is only another fist.
pls ignore this chucknorris slave
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anyway, the book i told u about, its called annihilation methods. jus asked my friend about it. Cost 7thousand dollars. . .
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Originally posted by rainee:
Just keep your options open. I dunno, but I don't think it is right to wish for other people's relationship to collapse so that you can get a way with her. I think the girl needs to be shot for leading you on. I don't know about the rest, but I think she is just trying to give you false hopes into waiting for her while she is enjoying herself with her current boyfriend.
I agree that nobody has the right to ask anyone to wait for him/her. That, to me, is a little selfish..... How much time have we got on earth?
AFC, you can choose to wait but you must know when to stop waiting and living in the past...
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Originally posted by AFC:
maskedangel: style made a comeback? i didn't know about that, i thought he was still happily in love or something
rainee: its really a lot of imagination on my part, as i had seen somebody post before, men tends to imagine a lot more things than they can handle. I won't say its her fault, it should be mine for barging in like an idiot
rey619: your point being?
If she didn't feed into your hope by discussing the "what if both of you were single" stuff, then you would be back at square one again?
What's the point of discussing the what if? The fact is that she is already attached, and since she says she is going to work hard in her relationship, why would she want to entertain any what if stuff? Sounds like major leading on to me.
I would stay a thousand miles away from someone like that, and best if you don't contact her again for time being...meanwhile open up your world to new people.
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Originally posted by rainee:
If she didn't feed into your hope by discussing the "what if both of you were single" stuff, then you would be back at square one again?
What's the point of discussing the what if? The fact is that she is already attached, and since she says she is going to work hard in her relationship, why would she want to entertain any what if stuff? Sounds like major leading on to me.
I would stay a thousand miles away from someone like that, and best if you don't contact her again for time being...meanwhile open up your world to new people.
Sometimes I just wish I can listen to my own advice.... -
Originally posted by cherrycola:
Sometimes I just wish I can listen to my own advice....You just need to shut him out of your life and your mind. Go to the gym, work out, read books, go out with other friends...meet new people and one day you will meet someone who will take him away from your heart and mind.
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Originally posted by rainee:
If she didn't feed into your hope by discussing the "what if both of you were single" stuff, then you would be back at square one again?
What's the point of discussing the what if? The fact is that she is already attached, and since she says she is going to work hard in her relationship, why would she want to entertain any what if stuff? Sounds like major leading on to me.
I would stay a thousand miles away from someone like that, and best if you don't contact her again for time being...meanwhile open up your world to new people.
mayb she is as confused??
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
mayb she is as confused??
A guy who really loves you will not let you feel confused as to what he is feeling towards you. If he causes you to feel confused, then he is not that into you. And that's a sign you should move on and don't waste time waiting for him.
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Originally posted by rainee:
Just keep your options open. I dunno, but I don't think it is right to wish for other people's relationship to collapse so that you can get a way with her. I think the girl needs to be shot for leading you on. I don't know about the rest, but I think she is just trying to give you false hopes into waiting for her while she is enjoying herself with her current boyfriend.
INDEED. This way she has a spare tire to use as and when needed. So when things go badly she can come crying to you. This is not uncommon.
And remember, she may be unique....but so is everybody else.
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Release of frustration can be a simple RHK to the head.
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im not a gal, i wouldnt noe, but i sometimes, its not that easy to just let go like that.
get my drift? we're human after all, some tend to get caught in their emotions -
Originally posted by rainee:
You just need to shut him out of your life and your mind. Go to the gym, work out, read books, go out with other friends...meet new people and one day you will meet someone who will take him away from your heart and mind.
I went to the gym quite regularly. I read a lot too. A friend once introduced a a someone to me. But when I went out with the guy, all I could see was him. As I talked to the guy, in my mind, I was thinking if only he was the one talking to me.....The guy even mentioned that I seemed to be looking for something/someone when I am out with him. I felt so guilty but I just can't help it.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
I went to the gym quite regularly. I read a lot too. A friend once introduced a a someone to me. But when I went out with the guy, all I could see was him. As I talked to the guy, in my mind, I was thinking if only he was the one talking to me.....The guy even mentioned that I seemed to be looking for something/someone when I am out with him. I felt so guilty but I just can't help it.
are you looking for Chuck Norris?
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
im not a gal, i wouldnt noe, but i sometimes, its not that easy to just let go like that.
get my drift? we're human after all, some tend to get caught in their emotionsYes, you think I have never been through that?
If I have never been through it before, I wouldn't dare putting down the advice I have dished out above. I know it is hard, but you have to put it behind you. Although it is hard, it is no excuse to be trapped in this situation for years and years...there gotta be some efforts put in to let go.
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Originally posted by rainee:
Yes, you think I have never been through that?
If I have never been through it before, I wouldn't dare putting down the advice I have dished out above. I know it is hard, but you have to put it behind you. Although it is hard, it is no excuse to be trapped in this situation for years and years...there gotta be some efforts put in to let go.
hi babe how was ur wedding?
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
I went to the gym quite regularly. I read a lot too. A friend once introduced a a someone to me. But when I went out with the guy, all I could see was him. As I talked to the guy, in my mind, I was thinking if only he was the one talking to me.....The guy even mentioned that I seemed to be looking for something/someone when I am out with him. I felt so guilty but I just can't help it.
Keep going out...maybe this guy is not the one for you. The guy for you will make you giddy with excitement and fill your mind with his images and take away all the images of your ex-crush.
So keep meeting new people, one day you will be able to meet that person who will make you forget :)
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Originally posted by rey619:
hi babe how was ur wedding?
Great...now looking for house haha...not that simple...
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Originally posted by rainee:
Great...now looking for house haha...not that simple...
i see
now house is so expensive