Originally posted by AFC:Stupid me, knowing that she has a relationship going on now, went on to ask her if i stood any chance at all if things were different now (as in both are singles). Her answer lifted my spirits up, but the main thing is that she is in a relation, and she wouldn't risk it for anything. I respect that, and my plan now is just to wait for her, to see if her relation might crack up and I can be given a chance at all. I know it is bad to think of other people's relation this way, but after so long of yearning, i couldn't help it.
She's adamant to committing to her current relationship. Perhaps that's part of her that's attractive to you?
The highest form of love imho, is to love her from a distance and let go. Wish her all the best.
And pardon me, this might seem crude, but I saw this quote somewhere that I agree with very much and just want to share here:
"Stop talking about love. Every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. It means nothing. It still doesn't mean anything. What you feel only matters to you. It’s what you do to the people you say you love, that’s what matters. It is the only thing that counts." - unknown
CrabbyShaSha: Thanks for your comment, yeah i guess that is part of what attracts me. Regarding the quote, its true to an extent. Humans are selfish emotional beings after all. In regards to my situation, what could be the best thing i could have done to her?
Originally posted by AFC:CrabbyShaSha: Thanks for your comment, yeah i guess that is part of what attracts me. Regarding the quote, its true to an extent. Humans are selfish emotional beings after all. In regards to my situation, what could be the best thing i could have done to her?
Let her concentrate on her current relationship. Be happy for her if she is happy in it. That's the best thing you can do at the moment.
rainee: Very true. I shouldn't harbour any more thoughts on it then.