Love/Money, which to choose?
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Originally posted by parn:
Love is never about forcing any individual to change and neither it is about robbing any individual their individuality as a person.
If there is a need to force and impose changes on your loved ones, it means you does not love them at that point in time. You are just trying to make him into the person that you want to love.Love is about acceptance, forgiving, serving but not self-realisation of self-sacrifice.
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Originally posted by sataygal:
a bit surprised to c so much comment-advices :D
anyway here's the twist...
actually im with B for almost 7 yrs alr..., life's gd..., no worries..., nv argue, more like spending time with ur buddy like tat, very boring though coz he's the guai2 type .... until i knw A (3 yrs ago)......, as angel7030 said, A IS fun, funny, handsome, sweettalk, but he do worry abt me, always ask where i go, call everyday etc....,
with A, happy, heart like flowery2 :P, but sometimes argue (mostly abt $$), he asked me to leave B n be with him; he asked me to make a choice...
but i dun hav the heart leaving B..., coz feel he's a bit kolian...., feel like its unfair to him....
but i knw i must make a choice..... which i cant ..........
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u leave B n join A, u'll regret it... instead u should treat A as a buddy only.... B is the type u will hope for in the future... A is jz a temporary joyride... -
MONEY!
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Originally posted by BrUtUs:
nv try to change(big change) a guy cos high chance it wun work... many gals hv fell for it but end up suffering even more cos they reali tink they can change a bad boy(esp he looks cool)...
tis
is not like movies so gals should b play smart rather believe in
fairytales...Changing a person chracther may change the person feelings and emotion too.
That person might not feel much for you after a change...
And, time change things...
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BEST solution. Marry the rich and divorce and find the next victim. lolx