True Love

• Sakuraflower

  8 Sep 08, 01:36

  There are true love when you are young.

  But when you grow up, the love is more complicate...

• Beaten_And_Damned

  8 Sep 08, 01:36

  Originally posted by cherrycola:

  
  Gd luck...! let me know your results when they are released.....

  thanks ba

   

  i regret slacking off the whole year and spending my time at te arcade instead of going to school, had no drive ba

• Detached

  8 Sep 08, 01:40

  Originally posted by cherrycola:

  
  Too bad it is no longer in production..... do you mind e original coca cola?

  
  

  Okay.. coco cola beats nothing

• parn

  8 Sep 08, 01:56

  Originally posted by cherrycola:

  
  I agree that there really are sincere folks around

  
  I know people won't believe me if I tell them I'm sincere too.

• skythewood

  8 Sep 08, 01:58

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  I know people won't believe me if I tell them I'm sincere too.

  i believe you.

• parn

  8 Sep 08, 01:59

  Originally posted by popikachu:

  True love exist but it can never work out in this materailistic world anymore...

  
  Find a girl with money, then you can try to have your true love with her.

  Cos she got money, she won't care if you don't have any.

   

  But you got to make sure that you're good enough to convince her that you're true love first.

• Kuali Baba

  8 Sep 08, 02:22

  There is no such thing as true love as you'd like to believe it. You're just making use of each other for your own pleasure and personal gain by mutual consent. Marriage only adds promises to ensure it stays that way forever and adds guilt when it breaks down.

• parn

  8 Sep 08, 02:29

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  There is no such thing as true love as you'd like to believe it. You're just making use of each other for your own pleasure and personal gain by mutual consent. Marriage only adds promises to ensure it stays that way forever and add guilt when it breaks down.

  
  If you choose to believe that as your true love, then you are already denying yourself from true love even there's a girl out there who truly have true love for you.

  It's always good to have a correct perspective and understanding of true love, so that you can identify it when it comes upon you.

  Let go of your definition of your version of true love if you find it to be negative and hopeless, and empty that space so that when the real true love befallen upon you, you will know it cos it will automatically occupy that empty space in your heart called true love.

  And you will know for sure when you have found true love.

  When that time comes, please don't forget to share it with the people here. They need alot of help in their hopeless worlds.

• Kuali Baba

  8 Sep 08, 03:11

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  If you choose to believe that as your true love, then you are already denying yourself from true love even there's a girl out there who truly have true love for you.

  It's always good to have a correct perspective and understanding of true love, so that you can identify it when it comes upon you.

  Let go of your definition of your version of true love if you find it to be negative and hopeless, and empty that space so that when the real true love befallen upon you, you will know it cos it will automatically occupy that empty space in your heart called true love.

  And you will know for sure when you have found true love.

  When that time comes, please don't forget to share it with the people here. They need alot of help in their hopeless worlds.

  I don't see how it can be any other way, but I've accepted it, since one can't divorce personal gain (including outcomes such as "feeling good" and the assurance that one does the right thing) from any deed and it benefits both persons.

  I am a part of it and yet aware of it at the same time.

  *Grammatical mistake edited, refer to solea's post for original text

• Detached

  8 Sep 08, 03:50

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  I know people won't believe me if I tell them I'm sincere too.

  
  Actually, I'd believe you.

  Parn, parn, parn.. Oft harmless, but misunderstood

• Detached

  8 Sep 08, 03:53

  True love is only possible when both parties are generous and selfless; it'd no longer be a give-and-take scenario. True love is give-and-give

  Of course, that is only in theory. The world has too few altruists

• soleachip

  8 Sep 08, 04:23

  Like an old friend once said, women don't get the emotional support of their men, nor the men the kindness of their women.

  Keep the lovin coming!

• soleachip

  8 Sep 08, 04:28

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  There is no such thing as true love as you'd like to believe it. You're just making use of each other for your own pleasure and personal gain by mutual consent. Marriage only adds promises to ensure it stays that way forever and adds guilt when it breaks down.

  After a fight always make up before going to bed.

   

   
• soleachip

  8 Sep 08, 04:30

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  I don't see how it can be any other way, but I've accepted it, since one can't divorce personal gain (including outcomes such as "feeling good" and the assurance that one does the right thing) and from any deed and it benefits both persons.

  I am a part of it and yet aware of it at the same time.

  I think you are pretty much sold on the fact that love is for having children and beyond that too many expectations. *pats*

• cherrycola

  8 Sep 08, 12:25

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  I know people won't believe me if I tell them I'm sincere too.

  
  I believe you are sincere.

• Kuali Baba

  8 Sep 08, 12:36

  Originally posted by soleachip:

  I think you are pretty much sold on the fact that love is for having children and beyond that too many expectations. *pats*

  That is not what I meant. "Love" is not this ethereal, wishy-washy concept that people want to hear about; it can be reduced to a relationship of mutual benefit. All these feelings are just the result of chemical reactions inside your head.

  While I do not like kids, "grown-ups" are no better. "Adult" is also a misnomer for many.

• RedizAlertz

  8 Sep 08, 15:06

  Actually i believe true love exists, but dun believe it wll happen to me, cos i dun understand wat exactly is true love. 

  I thot i know..but in actual fact, im jus an attention seeker.  Treat me better than I expected & Im taken.

• cherrycola

  8 Sep 08, 15:12

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

  Actually i believe true love exists, but dun believe it wll happen to me, cos i dun understand wat exactly is true love. 

  I thot i know..but in actual fact, im jus an attention seeker.  Treat me better than I expected & Im taken.

  
  You mean you will just fall in love with a person who treats you well?

• Short Ninja

  8 Sep 08, 15:13

  True love is when two people grow old together and still hold hands.For those of you who wants true love,I guess you have to learn to be patient and wait a long time.

• cherrycola

  8 Sep 08, 15:15

  Originally posted by Short Ninja:

  True love is when two people grow old together and still hold hands.For those of you who wants true love,I guess you have to learn to be patient and wait a long time.

  
  I will wait. I will wait.

• RedizAlertz

  8 Sep 08, 15:16

  Originally posted by cherrycola:

  
  You mean you will just fall in love with a person who treats you well?

  Yea~~Now, isnt tat pathetic?

• Short Ninja

  8 Sep 08, 15:26

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:

  Yea~~Now, isnt tat pathetic?

  
  and end up marrying the Bhai doorman from Raffles Hotel>LOL

• RedizAlertz

  8 Sep 08, 15:49

  Originally posted by Short Ninja:

  
  and end up marrying the Bhai doorman from Raffles Hotel>LOL

  Is he TAT nice or do u really think my expectations are low??

• cherrycola

  8 Sep 08, 22:04

  Originally posted by Detached:

  True love is only possible when both parties are generous and selfless; it'd no longer be a give-and-take scenario. True love is give-and-give

  Of course, that is only in theory. The world has too few altruists

  
  Agree!

• Beaten_And_Damned

  8 Sep 08, 22:26

  Originally posted by cherrycola:

  
  Agree!

  i cant be bothered when females ask laogong can give me  some marnie?

  puts me off marriage