My guy betray me
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I shower him with care n take care of his everything. did everything for him. i dont mind him being poor. i always scrimped for him.for the past 2 years, i always ask him to bring me to foodcourt. i never ask him to buy anything for me. n we nvr stay out late, cos i dont wish him to spend on midnight cabfares.i never buy any expensive things for myself. i save up all my money to buy things for him.always make sure he has got his favourite food and stuffs. all these years, i never spend on myself. nt even a piece of new clothing, i cant bear to buy things for myself. but for him, hundreds n thousands i will be most willing to spend. but he betray me!i felt so sad, very upset. why must he treat me like that?am i not doing enuff? am i really not good enuff?he really broke my heart so badly. i cant bring myself to forgive him. NEVER!
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Dear, i have to say then that the guys is a jerk.. how could he treat u like that!!! Girls are meant to be treated like angels not like slaves!!! after so much u have done for him and he did that to u.. u can have my shoulder if u wan.. dun dwell on it.. there r many other guys left in this world.. like sgboy la.. parka la.. kohanson la.. not me la thoughOriginally posted by Ringy:I shower him with care n take care of his everything. did everything for him. i dont mind him being poor. i always scrimped for him.for the past 2 years, i always ask him to bring me to foodcourt. i never ask him to buy anything for me. n we nvr stay out late, cos i dont wish him to spend on midnight cabfares.i never buy any expensive things for myself. i save up all my money to buy things for him.always make sure he has got his favourite food and stuffs. all these years, i never spend on myself. nt even a piece of new clothing, i cant bear to buy things for myself. but for him, hundreds n thousands i will be most willing to spend. but he betray me!i felt so sad, very upset. why must he treat me like that?am i not doing enuff? am i really not good enuff?he really broke my heart so badly. i cant bring myself to forgive him. NEVER! -
from what i have seen, i think you have been very good to him all this while during these 2 years..Originally posted by Ringy:I shower him with care n take care of his everything. did everything for him. i dont mind him being poor. i always scrimped for him.for the past 2 years, i always ask him to bring me to foodcourt. i never ask him to buy anything for me. n we nvr stay out late, cos i dont wish him to spend on midnight cabfares.i never buy any expensive things for myself. i save up all my money to buy things for him.always make sure he has got his favourite food and stuffs. all these years, i never spend on myself. nt even a piece of new clothing, i cant bear to buy things for myself. but for him, hundreds n thousands i will be most willing to spend. but he betray me!i felt so sad, very upset. why must he treat me like that?am i not doing enuff? am i really not good enuff?he really broke my heart so badly. i cant bring myself to forgive him. NEVER!
but i think you have committed too much into this relation until he betrayed you.
Sometimes relationships need to be balanced well for both sides..
e.g, he treat you well at times, and you treat him well sometimes..
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kohanson can be ur next candidate.. see his answer.. so gd..
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how did he betray u?
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i think he LDR with her lor..Originally posted by sgboy2004:how did he betray u? -
Originally posted by Master -_-:kohanson can be ur next candidate.. see his answer.. so gd..
we'll wait for yunhaier's reply.. -
why his reply?? are u a girl?? ooopsOriginally posted by kohanson:
we'll wait for yunhaier's reply.. -
thks for consoling. but smhw, i felt worse now..... i cried when i saw ur reply. even outsider can knw that it is wrong, but why he never think of it? why he never knw how to treasure me? why he neve realised that he is going to hurt me so much so much!i am sorry.i got to go.the pain is killing me.i love him so much. i did so much so much for him. but he never will realised.i felt really terrible.he always dont think much of what i did for him. bcos he felt that alot of other girls would also do those things for him.
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just dun dwell on it k dear?? get over him as fast if u canOriginally posted by Ringy:thks for consoling. but smhw, i felt worse now..... i cried when i saw ur reply. even outsider can knw that it is wrong, but why he never think of it? why he never knw how to treasure me? why he neve realised that he is going to hurt me so much so much!i am sorry.i got to go.the pain is killing me.i love him so much. i did so much so much for him. but he never will realised.i felt really terrible.he always dont think much of what i did for him. bcos he felt that alot of other girls would also do those things for him. -
wat is LDR?Originally posted by Master -_-:i think he LDR with her lor.. -
early break up.. i read from the other forumOriginally posted by sgboy2004:wat is LDR? -
hey, please dont cry.. if not this thread will be flooded.Originally posted by Ringy:thks for consoling. but smhw, i felt worse now..... i cried when i saw ur reply. even outsider can knw that it is wrong, but why he never think of it? why he never knw how to treasure me? why he neve realised that he is going to hurt me so much so much!i am sorry.i got to go.the pain is killing me.i love him so much. i did so much so much for him. but he never will realised.i felt really terrible.he always dont think much of what i did for him. bcos he felt that alot of other girls would also do those things for him.
Maybe sometime guys need abit of freedom?
don't think too much about it.. you'll feel better tomorrow. -
Originally posted by Master -_-:Dear, i have to say then that the guys is a jerk.. how could he treat u like that!!! Girls are meant to be treated like angels not like slaves!!! after so much u have done for him and he did that to u.. u can have my shoulder if u wan.. dun dwell on it.. there r many other guys left in this world.. like sgboy la.. parka la.. kohanson la.. not me la though
Wha. Anyhow put my name in. But this thread never mind.
Geesh. Ringy......Also don't know what to say to you...It's just part of life. Learn to move on.
and..."Smile."
You will definitely be happy one day. It's just a matter of time. So why not make it earlier? -
Originally posted by Master -_-:early break up.. i read from the other forum
LDR = Early break up???
Don't seems rite leh, Master... -
paiseh la.. LDR = Long Distance Relationship..Originally posted by sgboy2004:
LDR = Early break up???
Don't seems rite leh, Master...
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i c, LDR = Long Distance Relationship...
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heheOriginally posted by sgboy2004:i c, LDR = Long Distance Relationship... -
to love is to understand that a sacrifice has to be made....
but to love is also not to control....
to love is also not to give in too much
there's so many rules to the game of love... but nothing is absolute....
since he doesn't treasure ur love for him, u can let urself forget abt a heartless person....
a guy who can really appreciate u will come into ur life sometime later, but do not fret abt when he will come... because.... u have to heal ur wounds b4 starting to love again..... -
Originally posted by Ringy:thks for consoling. but smhw, i felt worse now..... i cried when i saw ur reply. even outsider can knw that it is wrong, but why he never think of it? why he never knw how to treasure me? why he neve realised that he is going to hurt me so much so much!i am sorry.i got to go.the pain is killing me.i love him so much. i did so much so much for him. but he never will realised.i felt really terrible.he always dont think much of what i did for him. bcos he felt that alot of other girls would also do those things for him. Some things just aren't meant to be......
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yeah.. like my disastrous relationship with cecilia cheung.. she told me over the phone that she doesn't like guys more handsome then Nicholas.. sigh.. i was soo sad but lucky Christy Chung consoled me la..Originally posted by Parka: Some things just aren't meant to be...... -
poor ger.....i think u treated him too well alrdy...so much that he took u for granted...he doesnt realized what u have done for him.....but ger....look this way....when he left u, he lost someone who loved him dearly....which is his lost....and for u, u simply lost someone who no longer loves u.
take a deep breath and start all over again....find someone who really deserves ur love and attention....dont dwell on that lousy fella anymore...
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Originally posted by Master -_-:yeah.. like my disastrous relationship with cecilia cheung.. she told me over the phone that she doesn't like guys more handsome then Nicholas.. sigh.. i was soo sad but lucky Christy Chung consoled me la.. save it.
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save wat?? its true lor.. but then i woke up too early laOriginally posted by Parka: save it. -
i saw his sms to that girl. mushy stuffs.what i love u, miss u.i never check his hp or emails b4.but it jst so happen i saw those sms in inbox.it crushed me so badly.he hasnt knew that i had found out. my frd told me to 4get it, pretend that i dont knw.jst as long as he treats me well, even if he go freefuck outside, jst close 1 eye.but i cant take it. i i give him my heart n soul. everything is HIM come first.im jst a simple girl, i dont go for for glam, cars, money. i jst want him to be true to me. is it so hard? are all guys so flirt?