My guy betray me
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Originally posted by Ringy:i saw his sms to that girl. mushy stuffs.what i love u, miss u.i never check his hp or emails b4.but it jst so happen i saw those sms in inbox.it crushed me so badly.he hasnt knew that i had found out. my frd told me to 4get it, pretend that i dont knw.jst as long as he treats me well, even if he go freefuck outside, jst close 1 eye.but i cant take it. i i give him my heart n soul. everything is HIM come first.im jst a simple girl, i dont go for for glam, cars, money. i jst want him to be true to me. is it so hard? are all guys so flirt?
Hey hello. Don't discriminate all guys, please.
Your friends want you to act blur? Hiaz... Maybe you should face him and ask what he wants...Again, it's just a matter of time. -
Originally posted by Master -_-:save wat?? its true lor.. but then i woke up too early la Oh. dreaming ah. hahaa.
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WAH LAU EH.. NOW THIS MAKE ME DU LAN LIAO!!!! HOW THE HELL CAN HE TWO TIME YOU!! KAOZ.. HE MAKE OTHER GUYS FEEL SO SMALL LIKE THAT!!!! EVEN THOUGH I AM A GUY, WHEN I FLIRT I DO HAVE LIMITS LEH...Originally posted by Ringy:i saw his sms to that girl. mushy stuffs.what i love u, miss u.i never check his hp or emails b4.but it jst so happen i saw those sms in inbox.it crushed me so badly.he hasnt knew that i had found out. my frd told me to 4get it, pretend that i dont knw.jst as long as he treats me well, even if he go freefuck outside, jst close 1 eye.but i cant take it. i i give him my heart n soul. everything is HIM come first.im jst a simple girl, i dont go for for glam, cars, money. i jst want him to be true to me. is it so hard? are all guys so flirt? -
Originally posted by Master -_-:WAH LAU EH.. NOW THIS MAKE ME DU LAN LIAO!!!! HOW THE HELL CAN HE TWO TIME YOU!! KAOZ.. HE MAKE OTHER GUYS FEEL SO SMALL LIKE THAT!!!! EVEN THOUGH I AM A GUY, WHEN I FLIRT I DO HAVE LIMITS LEH... You flirt. You have no limits. Whaahhaa
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i felt that i will never be able to luv again. i lost the trust.even though i treat him so nice, treat him like a god, he still find me a trash.i washes his clothes, cook him meals, buy him breakfast, stock up his snacks, accompany him to watch wwe and soccer.i never grumble once. bcos i jst want him to be happy.i will do anything he pleases.he never buy me any gifts for my birthday, xmas, valentine, but i dont mind, i really dont mind. i knw that he is not very rich.i thoz that he will appreciate that. but he never.
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i got limits la.. NO BELOW THE BELT.. thats my limit when flirting.. and btw, cmon la.. dun let one stupid twig ruin the forest or one stupid ikan bilis spoil the ocean or one stupid rain cloud blacken ur horizon...Originally posted by Ringy:i felt that i will never be able to luv again. i lost the trust.even though i treat him so nice, treat him like a god, he still find me a trash.i washes his clothes, cook him meals, buy him breakfast, stock up his snacks, accompany him to watch wwe and soccer.i never grumble once. bcos i jst want him to be happy.i will do anything he pleases.he never buy me any gifts for my birthday, xmas, valentine, but i dont mind, i really dont mind. i knw that he is not very rich.i thoz that he will appreciate that. but he never. -
Originally posted by Ringy:i felt that i will never be able to luv again. i lost the trust.even though i treat him so nice, treat him like a god, he still find me a trash.i washes his clothes, cook him meals, buy him breakfast, stock up his snacks, accompany him to watch wwe and soccer.i never grumble once. bcos i jst want him to be happy.i will do anything he pleases.he never buy me any gifts for my birthday, xmas, valentine, but i dont mind, i really dont mind. i knw that he is not very rich.i thoz that he will appreciate that. but he never. Honestly, you deserves someone better.
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What's the relationship between your bf and the other ger? If you would like to continue this relationship with him, i would advice you to ignore him for a few days and see what he'll do.. maybe he'll be thinking of you and he'll come looking for you and goes back to you.. who knows..Originally posted by Ringy:i saw his sms to that girl. mushy stuffs.what i love u, miss u.i never check his hp or emails b4.but it jst so happen i saw those sms in inbox.it crushed me so badly.he hasnt knew that i had found out. my frd told me to 4get it, pretend that i dont knw.jst as long as he treats me well, even if he go freefuck outside, jst close 1 eye.but i cant take it. i i give him my heart n soul. everything is HIM come first.im jst a simple girl, i dont go for for glam, cars, money. i jst want him to be true to me. is it so hard? are all guys so flirt?
not all guys are filrt.. maybe some are. -
Originally posted by Master -_-:i got limits la.. NO BELOW THE BELT.. thats my limit when flirting.. and btw, cmon la.. dun let one stupid twig ruin the forest or one stupid ikan bilis spoil the ocean or one stupid rain cloud blacken ur horizon... No below the belt somemore!!!
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hehehOriginally posted by Parka: No below the belt somemore!!! -
how could he do that to you.. And he doesn't even buy you gifts on your birthday?Originally posted by Ringy:i felt that i will never be able to luv again. i lost the trust.even though i treat him so nice, treat him like a god, he still find me a trash.i washes his clothes, cook him meals, buy him breakfast, stock up his snacks, accompany him to watch wwe and soccer.i never grumble once. bcos i jst want him to be happy.i will do anything he pleases.he never buy me any gifts for my birthday, xmas, valentine, but i dont mind, i really dont mind. i knw that he is not very rich.i thoz that he will appreciate that. but he never.
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ok. seemingly, u have just learnt your lesson. i have learnt mine 6 months ago. i think we kinda experience the same thing. i treated this girl so bloody nice like im ready to marry her anytime. i even saved to buy her a ck watch on her bday and in the end, she still went with another guy. let me tell you what i've learnt. sometimes, love is an irony. if you put in 100% dont expect to receive 100%. that would be pure recipocation out of obligation. true love is unconditional and that's why love is free. and in this human race, you never get back what you give. (if you're lucky u probably would)
you sound really sad in your tone. take some time to cool off like what i did. if u really hate him, well, (feelings are so real), but you can't really hate him for life. take all those things that reminds u of him and trash them away. and take some time off alone. don't bother to contact that jerk. we know most men are jerk but bitches do exist too fyi. be determined to stay away from him. he doesn't deserve you AT ALL FOR GOODNESS SAKE ! if what you mentioned earlier is really true, then i believe soon, or someday, someone will behold you. someday, someone will be the one whom deserves you a million times more than mr jerk.
i hope u take some time to consider what i said. i hope i dont sound like i'm counselling. take comfort in the fact that almost everyone has gone through what u experienced. some encounter worst situations. i read earlier in the forum of this man who lost his daughter cuz his wife ran away and took her away. the man did nothing wrong. he was a good man. bad and good things happened everyday. but most importantly, God loves you. take care. -
he betray me, we can never get together. i wouldnt trust him anymore.i really thotz we will be together for good. my frds kept urging me to leave him.he dont treat me nice even in normal days. but i jst discard it as he is in a foul mood.i felt so abandoned. suddenly, my whole world collaspe. the one u luv most betray u.that kind of feeling is really terrible.nobody would understand hw i really feel now. i really luv him so much. everynight, i cant go to sleep. i cry til the next morning.i m going crazy. i m tired of pretending that i still dont know anything.
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Sheesh. I don't think you can ever forget this incident. But I do hope you learn from this though. Life goes on, amico. There's someone better out there waiting for you.
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blue_kelvinsg, i think his reply is good,
Ringy, this is a jerk you are talking about. HE DOESNOT DESERVE YOU AT ALL! do you think being all sad will help you? No! Apparently this guy is just taking you for granted, he treated you so bad. If you cry for this guy, it is worthless. Raise your shoulders, throw all things abt him, learn to move on.
This is life, life is hard, but life is abt lessons to be learnt. You got to move on with your life. But i understand this will take a long while cos i believe you really love this guy. It is okie, healing takes a while...what i can say is be brave, move on. -
i have a feeling.. that guy is ur first bf.. am i rite?? first loves are hard to let go..Originally posted by Ringy:he betray me, we can never get together. i wouldnt trust him anymore.i really thotz we will be together for good. my frds kept urging me to leave him.he dont treat me nice even in normal days. but i jst discard it as he is in a foul mood.i felt so abandoned. suddenly, my whole world collaspe. the one u luv most betray u.that kind of feeling is really terrible.nobody would understand hw i really feel now. i really luv him so much. everynight, i cant go to sleep. i cry til the next morning.i m going crazy. i m tired of pretending that i still dont know anything. -
it doesnt matter anymore.my heart is shattered. i really really treat him with all my best. i knw i m not good enuff for him.if not he will not fall for other girls. i will never be good enuf for anyone.
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=(Originally posted by Ringy:it doesnt matter anymore.my heart is shattered. i really really treat him with all my best. i knw i m not good enuff for him.if not he will not fall for other girls. i will never be good enuf for anyone. -
Originally posted by Ringy:it doesnt matter anymore.my heart is shattered. i really really treat him with all my best. i knw i m not good enuff for him.if not he will not fall for other girls. i will never be good enuf for anyone. Hey. Brace up yourself!!!
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i think you were so good to him till the point that he got sick of it.. some pple are like that, you treat them too well they will 'fan gan'.. for guys.. if girls too good rite, they might feel as though they lost the place in the relationship cos it's suppose to be them who are the one who help you buy food, look after you.. bla bla blah.. they want to be in control in the sense.. so if the girl too good, they also dun like.
basically it's very hard to understand.. too good, too independent, too nice, too emotional.. everything also must strike balance..
me also treat my past bf very well.. than he said something like i don't make him feel like a man, cos i do too much for him liao.. than as though he no need to do anything for me like that..
now i think you should just go do something, something so bad that it's like a slap to the face, like appear out of nowhere and tell the other girl the truth, hope that she dunnos and gives the boy a tight slap. it really hurts la.. but you have to live through it. fill your life with your friends.. dun think about guys first.. just some time of fun.. slowly u will forget one take care -
yes yes. those curses and words of hatred are suddenly so familiar to me. i'm still using them now. (less seldom of course) now girl, the best thing to do now is to calm down your mind. talk to your parents about it and let them help u. (it might sound weird but they're a good source of strength and love fyi) i remembered when i lost her, i got so caught up with my emotions that i really went haywired. it was really bad .. how bad ? bad enough that my parents received letters from my school due to my absence and i failed two freaking modules for my first semester that i had to repeat. im in my 2nd semester now studying real hard. then, i was so afraid to go home after school cuz i was simply just afraid that those memories will haunt me when i'm alone. it was a terrible period of time. BUT HEY ! thinking about it right now, it isn't worth it yar ? for someone who doesnt deserves my love yar ?
now what you can really do for yourself is to pick yourself up ! and YOU CAN'T do it alone ! NEVER ALONE ! you'll just find yourself falling deeper if you try. go mix around with those friends you once neglected (during the period when you had that jerk). mix around with people and build up your confidence. not all men are bad. at least i dont think im bad. (im not good either, learning to be better) as time passes, you'll soon get over him. it's a sure thing. but for the time, we won't know. maybe a year or two. but take heart that you will see this to pass. it will probably happen when you least expect it. get all your tissue papers now and cry all you have to tonight. tomorrow will be a better day. tomorrow will be a stronger and firmer day for you. don't say no. don't tell yourself you can't. those are just lies generated by your emotions. you're a stronger girl now because you've learnt something that so valuable. love isn't a fantasy. love is genunie care and concern. take heart. God cares. -
Dun be sad la... Luv always start wif a smile, grows wif a kiss and ends wif a tear... It is true for all cases... Just let it go... Make him feel regret by hafing a happy life...
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well welcome to your 1st day of a real relationshipOriginally posted by Ringy:he betray me, we can never get together.
what blue_kelvinsg said is totally right...
that's just how it is...
Relationships, well its really is a game, when ur married... stuff like this still happens...
anyway in a game there are rules..in a relationship... its abit like fishing...you cannot just reel in the fish when u feel it biting.. you got to pull and push, pull abit and push abit
cannot give in too much....
cos u give in too much.. well pretty much your making the other person feel too secure... when we are too secure.. we take advantage..this is human nature...
i bet if he treat u tooo too nice.... u would think..hmmm... since this guy treat me this nice.. i must be very happening...when some other guy give u attention... very hard for you to turn it down...as
bec your previous guy...well u already conquered... (game already)
like the areoplane game
(u already feel like u reach the 'home') whats the point of waiting for the other player to game too right??
bet this is how he feels..
he already won u over...
now he wanna try wif another girl..
well also remember..
love is blind...
thats why u can do all those even when he treat u bad..love has this effect...
but ... to get over it.. is never easy...
me.. my first love too me almost 1 year...
but how to make the pain stop.?
hang out with friends.., try to go out on dates (just for fu)
what u need now is a rebound guy...some guy to have fun with, to forget your ex..
anyway the theory... why it hurts so much..
when u love someone too much...u actually already gave ur heart to the person..ur hear is at his mercy..if he dont treat it right or if he crushes it..Ouch ,,,, u will feel the pain...
and after that...welll... the hurt dont stop....cos... crushed bleeding heart take tim to heal...while its healing...you will of course feel empty...somehting is missing, you feel there is a gap a hole in your life..
why?
well ur heart is missing...its hurt... its slowly finding its way abck to u
but it takes time..
so u got to wait..but dont give up...
why?
cos Time Heals Everthing...
someday...all the hurt will go away...slowly pain will become pleasure..ur heart will be back with you'...and finallu u will get closure..
ull be ok again...
and remember ... all this experience is part of life..the next time u will be smarter and stronger
remember what dont kill you will make u stronger!
and remember....you cant lose all the time....one day....your day will come..mine.... not yet also....but someday
so cry your heart out.. for now..its ok..
but remember let the healing process begin...
last quote from jimi hendrix..
"the story of life is quicker then the wink of the eye,
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wah wah !! MAKE HIM FEEL REGRET BY HAFING A HAPPY LIFE ? that's dangerous man !! you dont have not make that person regret of anything seriously ! if he leaves you, that's his loss !! AND FULL STOP ! have nothing to do with him anymore !! if u want him to regret or to make him feel bad, you aren't actually letting it go ! you;re like plotting revenge sub-consciously ! and u know whats the danger ? if u try hard to be happy (just to make him regret and feel bad) but u fail to, oh man, i'll promise that you will feel even worse ! you'll feel that you're even more useless than before. i think you should just leave go everything and just CUT IT. two separate lives and that's it. seek happiness for yourself. don't think about mr jerk. he's unworthy. and the more u try to hate him, the more he will be embedded in your heart. so just let go and let God. He cares.Originally posted by IcEbLuE84:Dun be sad la... Luv always start wif a smile, grows wif a kiss and ends wif a tear... It is true for all cases... Just let it go... Make him feel regret by hafing a happy life... -
Why should you cry?Originally posted by Ringy:thks for consoling. but smhw, i felt worse now..... i cried when i saw ur reply. even outsider can knw that it is wrong, but why he never think of it? why he never knw how to treasure me? why he neve realised that he is going to hurt me so much so much!i am sorry.i got to go.the pain is killing me.i love him so much. i did so much so much for him. but he never will realised.i felt really terrible.he always dont think much of what i did for him. bcos he felt that alot of other girls would also do those things for him.
You should be HAPPY cos you found out his true colour now and not when you are more committed into the relationship.
When cry for lossing something BAD? Be happy... there are more people out there who is worthy of your tears. Not him.
It's him who should cry for lossing someone who shower him with love and care. Be happy... he won't bother that you are sad. If you feel sad.. he won by hurting you.
Need I say more?