Oo. Haha, okay then. Good luck making the right decision, alright ? All the best. :)
Why are some people just so presumptious that she should 'get a better guy' or that the guy is at fault? It could just really be because he needs time or space from this relationship.
There are girls who ask for the same things too either during or at the end of the relationship as well. So is it the girl's fault or should the guy 'get a better girl'?
Can't stand how some people put feminism to such a farce.
Anyway jusagerl, it may really be case of him needing some time from this relationship and cool off. Probably you and him could really use the time to think whether you guys are really meant for each other. Or are you just clinging on because you are scared of moving on.
Of course maybe you should check again with him after a while whether he still has feelings for you. If he really has decided by then to be 'out' of this relationship, maybe you should let go too.
It's all still guessing from what I see at the moment so maybe just wait a while and then try to talk to him again. Talking to him may not necessarily mean getting back together with him, but at least maybe you both might know better where you guys stand.
i wont do any first move now.. if he wants he will be the one making the move..
right now, im trying to concentrate on forgetting about him rather waiting for him. the only difficult part is when im trying to move on, thats when he starts popping out of the blue....
duno wads his purpose. im away in sg rite now.. so i hope this few days will help me to forget.
sorry to say this, jusagerl....
but somehow, i feel you asked for it in a way.
i think you need to mellow down a little and give in a little more in your next relationship.
don't always try to win in petty squabbles or quarrels. the more you try to win in these petty things of little value, the more you stand to lose on the more important things in life.
if you really want to win, win in life's bigger things..... fo example, winning people's hearts and trust?
and giving in appropriately is also a way of winning.
all the best in your next relationship. this one's over. so, please more on ya.
cheers! :D
wilson
yup.. its over...
but im ohk now. (=
Originally posted by jusagerl:you mean.. he is not worth the wait.. or im not worthy to wait for him??
move on, doesn't matter whose worthy or not. learn from this & not repeat it again...