Girls making use of guys normal ?

Karma88

9 Oct 08, 05:54

Argh i had enough of seeing girls making use of guys . In ways like fetching them home and fetching them here and there .

Well i say this because i`m a victim recently .

So just one question to the gals out there . Do u find joy in making use of guys ?

And wat kind of guys are u most likely to make use of .

BadzMaro

9 Oct 08, 06:05

We are all victims . Dont worry. Not just you. In the end we ourselves let them use and abuse us willlingly. ;p I also a victim yesterday lol! A willing victim. hahahaha

Girls making use of guys , u can say is quite normal. But its getting worse nowadays. lol! Taken for granted.

In the end u can really say no and come up with lame excuses not able to do so. Aiya... in the end me and you will know the intentions of the girl la. Its situations like these u slowly get to know the real her la.

BUt seriously, think of it as helping them when u have the time lo. e.g if u are doing something now, u weight the importance lo, finish ur own stuff before doing her stuffs ah.

Go

9 Oct 08, 08:36

It is human nature. We make use of each other. Well, the fact is that you get to date her out while she get to enjoy free ride.

Hellraiza

9 Oct 08, 09:20

this kind of guy, i call them 'ah hai'. Gian song then don't kaopeh when never get...

Hanagata

9 Oct 08, 09:29

what's new?

Xcert

9 Oct 08, 10:10

Originally posted by Karma88:

Argh i had enough of seeing girls making use of guys . In ways like fetching them home and fetching them here and there .

Well i say this because i`m a victim recently .

So just one question to the gals out there . Do u find joy in making use of guys ?

And wat kind of guys are u most likely to make use of .

this type of gals always there...especially if U drive...

its knowing when to say "No" and mean it.

Hellraiza

9 Oct 08, 10:30

some guys enjoy being taxi driver, you also cannot stop them

aHGer^83

9 Oct 08, 10:33

guys enjoy being taxi driver to gals as long as the gal give them sex wad.. guy make use of gal for sex, gal make use of guy for driver....

fair enuff wad...

BadzMaro

9 Oct 08, 10:35

If got sports car... no pick girls, buy the car for fuk ? LoL! hahaha

She is part of my car accessory k. To complete the car. In the end its the man that makes the car... LOOL!

=x

NoobUnited

9 Oct 08, 10:35

Originally posted by aHGer^83:

guys enjoy being tai driver to gals as long as the gal give them sex wad.. guy make use of gal for sex, gal make use of guy for driver....

fair enuff wad...

Yeah it's a fair game, so don't blame the girls if you seem to have been shortchanged by the girls..

Hellraiza

9 Oct 08, 10:40

Originally posted by aHGer^83:

guys enjoy being taxi driver to gals as long as the gal give them sex wad.. guy make use of gal for sex, gal make use of guy for driver....

fair enuff wad...

sex in exchange for a lift home? interesting...

Hellraiza

9 Oct 08, 10:42

Originally posted by BadzMaro:

If got sports car... no pick girls, buy the car for fuk ? LoL! hahaha

She is part of my car accessory k. To complete the car. In the end its the man that makes the car... LOOL!

=x

Disagree. My good friend got caught for speeding in his souped-up honda...end up crying to the policeman to let him off....lol...

CrabbyShaSha

9 Oct 08, 10:45

Originally posted by aHGer^83:

guys enjoy being taxi driver to gals as long as the gal give them sex wad.. guy make use of gal for sex, gal make use of guy for driver....

fair enuff wad...

A very bad trade imho. Eh...

mistyblue

9 Oct 08, 10:57

stupid trade. priorities all wrong.

LatecomerX

9 Oct 08, 11:00

Originally posted by Karma88:

Argh i had enough of seeing girls making use of guys . In ways like fetching them home and fetching them here and there .

Well i say this because i`m a victim recently .

So just one question to the gals out there . Do u find joy in making use of guys ?

And wat kind of guys are u most likely to make use of .

They can always say "no" to the girl. But they didn't.

motoway

9 Oct 08, 11:01

Originally posted by Hellraiza:

this kind of guy, i call them 'ah hai'. Gian song then don't kaopeh when never get...

X2.

00king00

10 Oct 08, 00:05

i don't agree at all, it works both ways, we guys make use of gals too

I dun believe in being 'gentlemanly', even if i'm helpful, i'm doing it as a fren, not because that person is a gal

actually girls make use of guy scenarion not that common, unless the guy is one of those spineless Mr. Yes guys who never says No, then it's juz dat guy who is dumb

u can ask any gals ard, where got so easy to make use of SG guys

soleachip

10 Oct 08, 00:08

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Grow up please.

youyayu

10 Oct 08, 00:09

hahah my gf stay with me =)

tinuviel07

10 Oct 08, 00:17

well as long as you allow the girls to take advantage of you, then you will always be taken advantage of.. personally i hate it when guys offer to pay too often or send me home.. but obviously dislike guys who live off you

youyayu

10 Oct 08, 00:23

Originally posted by tinuviel07:

well as long as you allow the girls to take advantage of you, then you will always be taken advantage of.. personally i hate it when guys offer to pay too often or send me home.. but obviously dislike guys who live off you

its so hard to please girls now adays.. =.=

tinuviel07

10 Oct 08, 00:24

well the key word is moderation.. don't you do everything in moderation too?

parn

10 Oct 08, 00:42

I don't shortchange guys....I drive and they can all take their MRT/Buses.

BangHong

10 Oct 08, 01:36

can always reject lah..... dont like just reject. not much problem for me here...

ghast.

10 Oct 08, 04:19

i think there should be a give and take. i believe quite strongly in that. it works pretty well.