U double posted ur story.
So its only half the length.
Originally posted by labbishLife:
ya.. i tried before. but i don't know why i just find myself going bck to find him and kind of beg him to stay. haiz...
i tried to tell him about this indirectly just now but he replied say he is busy and that he don't want to argue with me. and ask me weather what i argue with him am i right? and say that a tiger don't roar does not mean he is sick cat. what does that mean? that he wants to shout at me again? he say i never see where is my own fault line... really?
one time i told him he likes to avoid problems, he say not all things need to be solved. really there are problems better be left unresolved?
Im curious, how old are u?
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:Im curious, how old are u?
20 this year... i sound childish?
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:U double posted ur story.
So its only half the length.
erm.. its the whole thing alr.
labbishLife labbish post
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my friend as u can see this guy is not good maybe he is a player in love game or mind games
he also got his ex gf abortion, and he left her due to what ever reason he give u. do u think is the true he speak off and dun u think sometimes his actions is like he dun care about u at all n only care about u when he need you.
u can chose to listen to it or not is up to u. but u r still young n there is alot more good guys out there.
Originally posted by labbishLife:how? i always can't seem to balance out things well. there was a period of time i tried to keep to myself abit and he told me he feels that i'm withdrawing away from him. am i wrong to do that?
plus, i can't seem to get over his past r/s with one of his ex and their aborted child. he told me if i break with him cause of that, it will be the worse decision i made. he say he'll help me get over but... i seriously don't how to get over that fact. he still sometime will think of her and that child. but he explain that he no longer dwell in the past anymore?
how do i interpret that explanation???
don't interpret him, instead interpret yourself and what you want out of life.
"one time i told him he likes to avoid problems, he say not all things need to be solved. really there are problems better be left unresolved?"
I think you're just confused and too soft-hearted and "in love" to leave this guy. Maybe you need someone strong and convicted in their beliefs to look up to as a role model bf. But all that I see from here are his excuses and though he comes off as strong in his stance, he is not a good model. All that he is good for, is to confuse you and draw you away from what you think is right and draw u off your reality further and further. Perhaps one day, even when he declare that an apple is really an orange, though confuse you are, you would still choose to believe him. Wake up! Can you see what he is doing to you? This has nothing to do with religion, more to do with his weird character and the harmful effects he's having on you.
WAKE UP!
Originally posted by labbishLife:
ya.. i tried before. but i don't know why i just find myself going bck to find him and kind of beg him to stay. haiz...
i tried to tell him about this indirectly just now but he replied say he is busy and that he don't want to argue with me. and ask me weather what i argue with him am i right? and say that a tiger don't roar does not mean he is sick cat. what does that mean? that he wants to shout at me again? he say i never see where is my own fault line... really?
one time i told him he likes to avoid problems, he say not all things need to be solved. really there are problems better be left unresolved?
you are turning to him because you think he gives you a sense of purpose in life and that he directs you. Dear girl, have more confidence in yourself. You deserve a better guy. Allow yourself to be treated well by others and don't be too embarrassed if others are nice to you.
otherwise, you'd be trapped in this vicious cycle of confusion and the cold and hot treatment he deems fit to treat u by him. How he live his life is his, how people are going to treat you is under YOUR control. You can always walk away if you feel some people are not respecting you and it is within your control to make new and better friends. You are not helpless.
Labbish,
Is he your first bgr relationship ?
Have you tried out other guys yet ?
If you experience the same with several other guys.. then yes.. you are over sensitive.
If he is the first guy.. you won't be able to judge yourself... because there is nothing else to compare to.
I suggest you give this relationship a break.... after you have tasted other flavor.. then you decide if this guy is right for you.
Surely.. before you spend $200 on a dress.. you would have tried on several different dresses before you settle in with the one that fits you best, feels most comfortable and makes you shine ..... yes ?
So girl.. don't fret.. don't let someone else makes you think you are inferior.. because you are not.
Perhaps he is just not the right one for you.....
i think its a problem :D
your boy got a problem, he want tio is it?
i am just curious, why do you think that by posting here, you can get an answer you want rather than talk it out with your BF?
Why don't you and BF thrash it out and if in the end, you are unhappy at how it goes, just end it amicably? why live such a life with so many question marks?
A r/s is between two people, and these two are responsible for the communication inbetween them. By involving so many people, can you really focus and get what you want?