Originally posted by damsel:
hello everyone!

yup, i'm new here .. 15/f if you wanted to know. randomly surfed into this website and thought it was pretty interesting, so i joined. first post nia is something pessimistic liao, but bo bian lah .. i need some advice from you guys. i know this sounds ridiculous, maybe even stupid, but my teacher told me after school four days ago that he likes me (?!). that really freaked me out, even though i tried to take it as the 'teacher-student' kinda 'like'. but he's been buying me sweets, plushies, etc. for the past few days, and he's getting me very worried and confused. i haven't told anyone in school and i don't plan to either. i don't want any rumous to start .. what should i do?

any advice would be greatly appreciated. thank you very much in advance!
Firstly I doubt you even have any feelings for him at all, which sort of saved you from getting into a mess.
Secondly - your teacher being a teacher - and actually told you that he likes you and want to chase you - basically if you report him - he would be fired off the school right away, especially he has taken actions in trying to do something about it.

Thirdly, this male teacher is highly likely to have a fetish for young school girls - pedophile in disguse of a teacher. You should avoid him and if you think of other people that may be affected in the future - perhaps telling it to a trusted teacher in your school would be a good choice.
Lastly: If you don't react to him, he can't do anything to you - therefore don't.
