is he worth it?
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i think the way u treat him is more than just a bestie. since he is attached now, perhaps to continue with occasional smses or meet up for once a while would be fine. but you shouldn't portray those actions that seems as though you are his gf. i think its going to put him in a difficult spot.
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Ai Yo... TS keep lying to herself that she do not love that guy and she's not trying to come in within the couple. Lucky that guy know when to stop...
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i nv hor..who wan to be third party sia!! now we gd friend nia lehx..hohoho..blehx
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hey i didnt read the whole thread...
but just telling u my story...
i have got this dam dam close female friend... very pretty and i once liked her... not now tho...
then one day, me, her and her bf and her bf de friend which is one of my close friend too, go out together... (that time i dun like her), then this girl and me is like totally no acting or covering of feelings these all... then we like play with each other more and more, until i realise her bf face dulan...
then i took a deeper thought, if playing with her is forbidden since the bf is here, and since the bf wan her attention so much, i might as well not go out together with them...
and so that is when i wont go out with any female friend when their bf is there, or sometimes when she and her bf is dam close...
if not right, they break up, it will be a sad ending and so not worth it, worst is that u will feel guilty...
however, that friend of urs should try to maintain the friendship... maybe u both talk it out?
yea... it is really dam hard to find a close friend which u dun really love, as in BGR type...
treasure the friendship, sometimes u just have to fork out more effort to maintain the friendship, life is never fair...
IA
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Originally posted by themoment86:
I actually have this guy friend whom i am very close with...since last week when i ask him out or msg him he would reject or take very long to reply..then i was very sad lo..coz that time i also had a tiff with another friend of mine..but in the end i put my anger into him i ask him if he was avoiding me..he say no..*btw he is attached* so i ask him when can we meet out relax..coz i have been pretty stress lately..so he say when he free lo..but then..here the thing..he will almost everyday meet his gf after school..*we both student* and he wont forsake his gf becoz of anyone..and just to let you guys know..his gf hates me to the core, coz she think i wan to snatch him..and if his gf knew i am with him she will blow his top n want to break with him..which is why he always need to lie whenever we go out.. -.-" so i tell him say like that 1 month meet once la?in that case mind as well dun meet..then he say ok..
but after that somewat ok liao lo..but when i ask him out few days ago again...he say he didnt wan to see me liao..coz he dont wan to lie to his gf..he say if wan go out must tell her...but then!!his gf hate me liao..so its totally impossible his gf will say yes de ma! -.-
i was actually very sad..coz he is relly my bestie..damn close buddy..i actually phone him to plead him not to ignore me...but he has been very firm in his decision coz he doesnt wan to lie to his gf..
is this person worth to be my friend?he help me alot throughout the times i know him...he is very supportive and hardworking..now that he is gone i suddenly feel like my onli pillar has fallen...haix
help me :(
You'll never go wrong if you treated him like how he has treated you IN THE PRESENT.Why not take the past into account? Because people changed and what was right in the past may not be right in the present.
If he is nice to you, you can be nicer to him. But if he is unkind to you, then you can be more unkind to him or ignore him.
Friend and Foe are merely two sides of a card, take it from me.
Love,
Queen of Hearts.
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that guy is not worth it if he can betray his gf to come to you.
because next time he will do the same thing and betray you.
think about it.