Lesbian.
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Originally posted by Agenda:
yalor..
why can't she just close the door?
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Find a man is the better way to make things right .... =)
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Originally posted by Agenda:
yalor..
lol.. panic i guess. stress cannot think
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Firstly, I'm not a butch. Says who that in a lesbian r/s, one of them must be a butch?
Secondly, my girlfriend's parents had long ago suspected my girlfriend is a lesbian, so when I suddenly pop into her life, her parents already started suspecting.
Furthermore, my girlfriend's mother is totally insane. She checks my girlfriend's SMS, goes to my girlfriend's friends blog, forbid her from talking on the phone with me and meeting up with me. Who knows whether she would check her MSN chat log.
And if me and my girlfriend go out together and she drags a friend along, her friend can't leave her, in case her mom calls and checks on her, her friend must be around to talk to her mom.
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Originally posted by Reginestarz:
Firstly, I'm not a butch. Says who that in a lesbian r/s, one of them must be a butch?
Secondly, my girlfriend's parents had long ago suspected my girlfriend is a lesbian, so when I suddenly pop into her life, her parents already started suspecting.
Furthermore, my girlfriend's mother is totally insane. She checks my girlfriend's SMS, goes to my girlfriend's friends blog, forbid her from talking on the phone with me and meeting up with me. Who knows whether she would check her MSN chat log.
And if me and my girlfriend go out together and she drags a friend along, her friend can't leave her, in case her mom calls and checks on her, her friend must be around to talk to her mom.
Nice internal controls.
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Frankly i just dun understand why in the first place u would not be attracted to the opposite sex....if i am the parents, i would do the same thing....Come on, no parents will want to face up to the fact that their child might be Gay or Lesbian.....The social stigma that comes with it is worse then u can ever imagine.... Spare a thought for others......Would u like ur child to be a lesbian or gay next time.....If not...maybe u should stop contacting her...And also get a counsellor to talk to......Or if the counselling dun work out.....Wait till u grow older...and find urself ur own life partner...At that time, even if u still are attracted to the same sex....No one would be interfering....
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You don't have to understand. I see no point in arguing with you since you are a guy. If my child turns out to be gay, i'll give him/her my blessings. Thanks to your '' social stigma '' we are all discriminated from the society . And for your information, we don't choose our sexuality, we are born this way .
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why u dont like a cock?
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Originally posted by Reginestarz:
You don't have to understand. I see no point in arguing with you since you are a guy. If my child turns out to be gay, i'll give him/her my blessings. Thanks to your '' social stigma '' we are all discriminated from the society . And for your information, we don't choose our sexuality, we are born this way .
May ask when u chose to like a Girl than a Man
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no i dont like cocks. i like vaginas, are you satisfied with this answer ? =.=
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Originally posted by Reginestarz:
no i dont like cocks. i like vaginas, are you satisfied with this answer ? =.=
no worries, nothing wrong wif ur choice... since u sure ur sexuality, guess the guys here should leave tis topic behind n stick to the thread title... -
Same new life in a strange new world...
-MPD Pyscho, everything is possible
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Frankly i am not blaming u for falling in love with the same sex...wat i am stressing is the fact that perhaps u should spare a thought for ur gf parents.....u dun mind ur child next time loving someone of the same sex becoz u urself understand wat comes with it.....but have u thought of the others?....no one wants their child to turn out to a gay/lesbian.....the least the parents would do now is to try their best to guide their child towards the path which they think is right....And pls...Not every guys or girls who fell in love with the same sex turns out to be a lesbian/gay in the later part of their life....perhaps ur gf is also having second thoughts about her own sexual preference......else if she really want to go out alone with u.....she would have done it by crook or by hook.....Why not just leave her alone...and wait till perhaps when u are older...before u reaffirm ur own sexual identity....by that time...i am sure if u were to date other ppl daughters....no one will have objections...and the need to hide wun be there...
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TS, may I know how old are you?
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aiya break lor & find another one
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Originally posted by Reginestarz:
no i dont like cocks. i like vaginas, are you satisfied with this answer ? =.=
ok satisfied.but wat can do with 2 vaginas?
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maxsee, we are sure of our own sexuality. I broke up with her cause i was unsure with my own sexuality. and being the parents, have you thought of how stress we will be with you sniffing up our ass on every single thing we do . instead of forbidding us, give us your blessings, won't that be better ? even if i stop with her, it wont change her sexuality, when she grows up she will defitnitely find a girlfriend.
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Definitely...u will feel stress with the parents being on the look out of what is happening.....but shouldn't u be asking why they are doing tat.....it is impossible for the parents to give their daughters or sons blessings if they realize that they fell in love with someone of the same sex.....u would have do tat....coz u urself knows why u dun feel attracted to someone of the opposite sex...but tat does not means everyone would understand tat.....and as for ur gf sexuality....the main reason to wait for her to grow up is that......the parents will be more acceptable towards her being a lesbian when she is older....coz after so many years of mingling around....if at end of the day, she still feels that she is comfortable with someone of the same sex....the parents wun have any reasons to object...there might be resentment against it...but at the same time...they will be resign to it....as she would be old enough to make her own decision at tat time.....from ur intital posting..it is quite clear that u are still in ur teenage years.....give urself a few more years and i am sure next time the need to hide or avoid will not be there anymore.....
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oh....then how?
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Originally posted by gunner77:
ok satisfied.but wat can do with 2 vaginas?
scissoring? i saw that on southpark
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I'm currently in such a relationship right now. I doubt you would feel any relieve by other forumers asking why not choose a guy instead. What I can say is, this is who we are, no point asking us to change.
For me and gf, ours are in a pretty much hush hush tone. Our parents would skin us alive should they find out. So I guess you need a lot of coperation between you and your gf in keeping thing work out. My gf mum is also very paranoid and would check her sms-es. Somehow, we manage to get away with it.
So yea, have good planning and all would work out fine. Hope to hear from you soon. =)
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Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:
scissoring? i saw that on southpark
south park ftw -
just because it's a norm for society doesn't mean it's supposed to be the way to go.. just like certain African nations think that FGM is the correct thing to do.. so the children must follow the tradition too?
bullshit..
being considerate to parents have a limit
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ohhh, so neither of u are butch la..
then shd be ok ma..
cos can act like very close female buddy ma..
y her parents suspect?
caught in the act b4?
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maxsee, she from the start already clearly knows her sexuality, whereas for me..i started off being straight initially . Why should the parents object? if this has already became a fact that their daughter is a lesbian ,why object? pointless. why dont you jus say singaporean are jus conservatives. ? and her mom is extreme okay. seriously, tell me which parents install cameras at home to watch over the kids ?
unidentifiedx, thanks . yea we've been tryin to plan all the things out , but it's always ruin by her mom. for instance, this thurs we planned to meet together with her friend. but her mom last min took leave and say she will be tagging along, jus in case i will be going . anyw thanks . we will work this out eventually .
cool-gal, she's the butch.