what does he mean?
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Originally posted by jusagerl:
i was the one who broke up with him but regretted it. it was on my another post "when he says he needed more time"..
anyway, i am not hoping for us to be together anymore. i just want this to just go all away. so i can forget. when i totally am able to forget then the hurting will stop. but how am i supposed to do that when im in the process of forgetting, he will suddenly remind me that he is still there. it puzzles me cosh he always do this.
he kept saying, he is not gd enough for me. that i better find someone better than him but still, he loves me. and its hard not to think of me.
guys are sometimes so freaking hard to understand.
i dont believe in the phrase if he loved me enough he wont let me go in the first place.. because i decided to let him go becase i love him too much.
'i just want this to just go all away'
u are just too soft hearted to do that. u need someone support. Tell yr current bf abt it and ask yr stupid ex to stop shitting with u. U yrself alone are not able to do that.
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maybe he is doing it precisely cos he knows it will affect u. dun let it get it to u... i'm guessing tt u either broke up mutually or he was the one who ended things. i agree tt it can drag on for a long time and is tiring... u felt better when u didn't hear fr him right? if he wants closure, then just reply him, thanks for ur good wishes. be nice but dun let his words mess wif ur thoughts. it's not fair to ur current bf tt u continue to dwell on this...
since u're now in an rs, it's best for u tt u work on ur current bf. tink abt how he makes u happy, and how ur ex has made u unhappy in the past. there's a reason why a rs ended. u may still have some feelings for ur ex.. but it's better not to be in denial.. he has already said tt he can't give u what u want... what do u tink it means? do both of have v diff life goals? v diff personalities? even if u do get back tog, there's a high chance tt it won't be a happy ending.
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err.. he is not really my bf yet. im just dating him. err.. i dont want to just jump into a new relationship..
besides, the guy im dating he knows what im going thru thus he is just there giving me moral support. but he have no right to meddle wid me and my ex.
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Originally posted by jusagerl:
err.. he is not really my bf yet. im just dating him. err.. i dont want to just jump into a new relationship..
besides, the guy im dating he knows what im going thru thus he is just there giving me moral support. but he have no right to meddle wid me and my ex.
Then can u confidently u can resolve this matter yrself? Ask yrself...We can't answer that for u.
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dear no worries, you just need this book.
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ok, i see... do u really want him to go away? if u want to, it's v easy... dun read his emails, smses... tell him tt u won't do so until he stops telling u things tt suggest he still loves u... he will go away or stop doing it when he sees no response fr u...
but u must ask urself honestly... is tt really what u want? if u don't want to help urself get over him, then our suggestions also won't help much. :(
it's gd tt u broke up wif him and gave him the space he wanted...
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Originally posted by jusagerl:
i was the one who broke up with him but regretted it. it was on my another post "when he says he needed more time"..
anyway, i am not hoping for us to be together anymore. i just want this to just go all away. so i can forget. when i totally am able to forget then the hurting will stop. but how am i supposed to do that when im in the process of forgetting, he will suddenly remind me that he is still there. it puzzles me cosh he always do this.
he kept saying, he is not gd enough for me. that i better find someone better than him but still, he loves me. and its hard not to think of me.
guys are sometimes so freaking hard to understand.
i dont believe in the phrase if he loved me enough he wont let me go in the first place.. because i decided to let him go becase i love him too much.
You gave him time to call you. Did he?
If he can eMail you, he can call you. He can make a date with you, and turn up.
Don't think much of him, and just move on. Unless you want more of his wishy-washy relationship that ain't going nowhere. Don't let him pwn you.
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From a guy's Pov
He just wishes for you and him, to remain as good friends - nothing else.
Sure, there might be times where he gave you some mixed actions that couldn't be justified but afterall, it had been 2 years of being together with one another. It will take sometime for him to understand where's that "line" that separates friends from couples.
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Originally posted by kenn3th:
From a guy's Pov
He just wishes for you and him, to remain as good friends - nothing else.
Sure, there might be times where he gave you some mixed actions that couldn't be justified but afterall, it had been 2 years of being together with one another. It will take sometime for him to understand where's that "line" that separates friends from couples.
my sentiments, exactly
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Sigh ~
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i strongly believe that every action is motivated by a desire.. conscious or not.. sometimes you may want something more but it's not conscious to you..
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Originally posted by kenn3th:
From a guy's Pov
He just wishes for you and him, to remain as good friends - nothing else.
Sure, there might be times where he gave you some mixed actions that couldn't be justified but afterall, it had been 2 years of being together with one another. It will take sometime for him to understand where's that "line" that separates friends from couples.
U can eat whatever rubbish u want but u don't anyhow spout any words whenever it came into yr mind.
Especially in a r/s things, exercise yr caution of words if u really have good intention!
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Originally posted by CannyOng:
U can eat whatever rubbish u want but u don't anyhow spout any words whenever it came into yr mind.
Especially in a r/s things, exercise yr caution of words if u really have good intention!
I do not think it is rubbish or whatever sort.
It's the transition, which i had PERSONALLY experienced, after a breakup.
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Originally posted by jusagerl:
we broke up for almost 2 months now..
i really cant bring myself to give up at ferst but then i know its not going anywhere thus i decided to move on..
i started going out with another guy... my ex found out about it and he emailed me.
he said, he is glad i found someone better. he also said, all this while he still loves me but cant bring himself to get back with me because he is sure he cant give me what i want. he still got so much to say but rather dont tok about it. he is hoping if we still see each other we can still talk and smile with each other.....
why is he suddenly telling me all this......
He doesn't want you to move on first before he does. And he's probably jealous and feeling angry that the world is unfair to him since you're the person who really doesn't deserves to find happiness in another relationship faster than him.Tell him you would love to continue to see him and talk and smile with him, but TOO BAD HE IS ALREADY AN EX!!!
And let him know that EX will NEVER have anymore chance with you, unless he want to be your EX-EX.
Ex-Boyfriend Ex-Friend????
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doesn't matter what he means... it's what you want that matters.
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what do i really want??
i definitely still love him. but do i still want to be with him?? sometimes yes, sometimes no.
sometimes, i think its worth fighting for. but then, i find dat its too tiring and tasking for me now... its been so long. y now?
there are some points taken that i got in some advices. yeah, i find him rather selfish. he still loves me but cant give me as much as i wanted to?? erm... not to me, but he can give as much to other gerls? is that wad he is trying to say?
its a good thing that i think negatively. it would be easier to make a choice.
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he is just jealous you have a new bf.so he wants to win you back to show off as trophy.
so you must not go back to him again.otherwise he will dump you again after he finish playing with you.
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i was with my ex for 2 yrs, 2mth after we broke up, she was with another guy...
it took me quite sometime to be frens with her again...
her bf told her to stop all contact with me. msn/sms.. friendster and facebook, also kena deleted off as friend..
childish guy.. sigh..
1st girl i ever loved so much..
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i wonder eh..hw come some ppl can jump into another r/s so fast? like within wks? mths?
whereas some took as long as years to recover from the last failed r/s..
anyway for TS case..that guy wants to let her go & yet can't bear to..so told her such things so that she might cont. to pin her hopes on him..selfish *pouts*
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Koizora?
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i feel sry for the guy your seeing now... hope his not too serious in u
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y wud u feel sori for the guy im seeing now.. he knows the state im in. the fact that im still here drowing. im not like exclusively dating him. i just consider it as hanging out. besides, i wun enter any new relationship til im over my ex. which.. slowly, come to think of it, with all the shits im getting from my ex, he is helping me to get over him faster that i thought.